I ogasm to fast the first time, any suggestion

Contributor: extrafun extrafun
I am a male and I was hoping someone out there could help. Many times I orgasm to fast the first time. Most of the time I can get things going again but some times I cant and leave my partner disiponted. Does anyone have any suggestions other than the cock ring.
03/10/2011
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Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I am not really familiar with all this, but I know they make condoms that decrease sensitivity, making you last longer.
03/10/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
There's a lot of books on mental and physical exercises you can do to help.

And there's no reason you couldn't get her off first. One the the beauties of having sex with females, is that even after they get off, they can keep going. I would suggest always getting her off first, as well as getting a few books on the subject and probably a high-quality cock ring.

Also, just because you come first (which happens to a lot of guys), doesn't mean you can't whip out a toy and help her get to the finish-line.
03/10/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
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Originally posted by extrafun
I am a male and I was hoping someone out there could help. Many times I orgasm to fast the first time. Most of the time I can get things going again but some times I cant and leave my partner disiponted. Does anyone have any suggestions other than ... more
There are desensitizing creams on this site. Give one of them a try. Also, the more you do, the less sensitive you become!
03/10/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by Lucidity
There's a lot of books on mental and physical exercises you can do to help.

And there's no reason you couldn't get her off first. One the the beauties of having sex with females, is that even after they get off, they can keep ... more
Ditto to this. Get her off first. Then you can just go to town. Toys are a great option too.
03/10/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Practice your kegals. A man with good strong kegal muscles can actually orgasm without cumming.

Teach yourself a lesson that day (if possible). If you break one off before the dead you will most likely last longer the second time around.

If all else fails, break out a toy
03/10/2011