My fiancee loves my feet. He recently told me and I don't really mind. I mean I don't think they are anything special but if he likes em well more power to him! lol Our problem is hes very shy and I don't really know what to do to incorporate my feet to turn him on. So if any guys are into this, or are other girls know what I'm going through let me know. I need some opinions/ideas here lol
I need some advice
11/21/2011
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You might want to start by just making them more available and get a bit more comfortable using them to tease.
If you're sitting on the couch together, put your legs up and casually have your feet in his lap. Buy some nice lotions and ask for a foot massage. If you're lying in bed together, run your foot up his leg to his inner thigh to tease him, or brush your toes over his genitals. You don't have to be intense about it, just make it clear that you're comfortable with the whole thing and find situations that'll allow him to touch your feet without having to stretch very far out of his shyness zone. Eventually he'll gain some confidence in that area, and I'm sure he has lots of ideas for how you could use them in sexy ways You just need to build his confidence up in order to get him feeling secure enough to share those details with you.
If you're sitting on the couch together, put your legs up and casually have your feet in his lap. Buy some nice lotions and ask for a foot massage. If you're lying in bed together, run your foot up his leg to his inner thigh to tease him, or brush your toes over his genitals. You don't have to be intense about it, just make it clear that you're comfortable with the whole thing and find situations that'll allow him to touch your feet without having to stretch very far out of his shyness zone. Eventually he'll gain some confidence in that area, and I'm sure he has lots of ideas for how you could use them in sexy ways You just need to build his confidence up in order to get him feeling secure enough to share those details with you.
11/21/2011
I adore someone who's into the same thing and I've never thought of it before. However i am open and loving and though his exes shamed him for it (which made it very very hard for him to tell me plus the shame he feels about it) i have done my best to assure him it's NOT something to be ashamed about and, given the chance, I'd incorporate it into intimate play. (We don't live by each other so this isn't possible, but if I go visit him and things get heated up, I have no qualms.)
But i agree with txy. Also, if you've never had your feet played with or anything, I'm sure it'll open you up as well as to how feet can be a form of sexual gratification and foreplay. i admit I never thought of them as such, and I'm still getting used to the idea, but I find it's helping me open up more and consider possibilities, plus i am learning more about the fetish and all.
Plus, I look forward to a good foot massage, too, as it's a very rare thing I get to have.
But i agree with txy. Also, if you've never had your feet played with or anything, I'm sure it'll open you up as well as to how feet can be a form of sexual gratification and foreplay. i admit I never thought of them as such, and I'm still getting used to the idea, but I find it's helping me open up more and consider possibilities, plus i am learning more about the fetish and all.
Plus, I look forward to a good foot massage, too, as it's a very rare thing I get to have.
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Im lucky enough for him to rub my feet all the time But before he told me I just never thought anything of it. I assumed he was just being nice lol.
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Envy
I adore someone who's into the same thing and I've never thought of it before. However i am open and loving and though his exes shamed him for it (which made it very very hard for him to tell me plus the shame he feels about it) i have done
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I adore someone who's into the same thing and I've never thought of it before. However i am open and loving and though his exes shamed him for it (which made it very very hard for him to tell me plus the shame he feels about it) i have done my best to assure him it's NOT something to be ashamed about and, given the chance, I'd incorporate it into intimate play. (We don't live by each other so this isn't possible, but if I go visit him and things get heated up, I have no qualms.)
But i agree with txy. Also, if you've never had your feet played with or anything, I'm sure it'll open you up as well as to how feet can be a form of sexual gratification and foreplay. i admit I never thought of them as such, and I'm still getting used to the idea, but I find it's helping me open up more and consider possibilities, plus i am learning more about the fetish and all.
Plus, I look forward to a good foot massage, too, as it's a very rare thing I get to have. less
But i agree with txy. Also, if you've never had your feet played with or anything, I'm sure it'll open you up as well as to how feet can be a form of sexual gratification and foreplay. i admit I never thought of them as such, and I'm still getting used to the idea, but I find it's helping me open up more and consider possibilities, plus i am learning more about the fetish and all.
Plus, I look forward to a good foot massage, too, as it's a very rare thing I get to have. less
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i envy you, I'd love to have my feet, and the rest of my body, massaged, especially since I have such a hard physical labor job.
Originally posted by
Subbi
Im lucky enough for him to rub my feet all the time But before he told me I just never thought anything of it. I assumed he was just being nice lol.
Just be open to it all and his feelings and such, for some guys it can be a very delicate issue and most feel ashamed by it, even though it's actually a very common fetish.
11/21/2011
Try buying some silky stockings that will dress them up for him! The feeling of the stocking plus your feet rubbing on him could be alluring. I've done that for my husband before and he loved it!
11/21/2011
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