I'm a girl in my 20s and it's hard for me to get turned on. Idk maybe it's b/c I want something more sensual and intimate b/c my partner isn't very much unless he goes straight for sex. I feel like I need to be prepared with something before. I don't like just having sex without feeling really needed and wanted before hand. So idk if it's me or if all girls are like this. What do you do to fix this?
I have a hard time getting turned on
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explain to your man that you need foreplay to get you going..if he jumps right into sex everytime then personally i call that being selfish,which isnt right he needs to think of your needs too.and if its the point that you actually need to feel wanted first..remember you are wanted because he wants to have sex with you!
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I'm a girl in my 20s and it's hard for me to get turned on. Idk maybe it's b/c I want something more sensual and intimate b/c my partner isn't very much unless he goes straight for sex. I feel like I need to be prepared with
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I'm a girl in my 20s and it's hard for me to get turned on. Idk maybe it's b/c I want something more sensual and intimate b/c my partner isn't very much unless he goes straight for sex. I feel like I need to be prepared with something before. I don't like just having sex without feeling really needed and wanted before hand. So idk if it's me or if all girls are like this. What do you do to fix this?
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01/27/2012
Try keeping the sexual tension relatively high throughout the day with your partner. Tell each other dirty jokes, send naughty text messages, or try cuddling on the couch with a little more touching than usual. Eventually, you'll start to build up a habit of displaying romantic feelings towards each other all of the time instead of just right before sex.
01/27/2012
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