I recently found out my husband is on his way home from Iraq with a few injuires. I talked to him and he has to be on bedrest(he can be home) for at least 6 weeks. So he hasnt gotten any in alsmot a year, and I want him in me just as much as he wants me.

Ive come to realize are sex life is going to change. Honestly ime just happy hes alive. I want it to bo good for him thoe, if ime gona do it hes gonna get it good lol. I could live without orgasms but I would love to get them if possible.

My four main problems are
-his left leg was recently removed at the knee, he lost his left arm from the shoulder down,his right wrist is broken, 3 broken ribs, and a few small cuts/bruizes(thank god thats all)
-I cant give oral, its an ugly sight
-its hard to make him cum on a good day when we can do anything, like 45 minutes at least
-common sense sais I wont be able to get top and bounce on broken ribs


Now for the question

How do I make him cum, what toys are good. I dont care how bad it is for me as long as he cums.

All I can think of is giving him a handjob and buying a toy for him. I just dont know how a handjobs gonna get him off, it takes alot for him. I dont mind a threesome with a "fuck buddy" and good friend Ile probably let her suck(he loves it)but the first few times I want it to be just me and him.

The more and more I think its not that much of a big deal if she does a little. I know he finds it really hot when we use a strap on with eachother, would getting him a fleshlight or masterbator of some and putting it on him(it would sort of have to sit there) and then go back an fourth from her sucking to me an her putting on a show. I dont like pussy, but Ile put up with it if it makes him happy.

What toys are good for me to use on him, rember hes not able to move much at first and cant stroke himself at all at least the first few weeks



9 days till ime alone with him again less

Wow, going back and reading my last comment about nine days(well now 8) makes me sound desperate

LOL, let me just add I dont mean the first thing when we walks in the
door......obivsly it would be at least a few days....

"sex last thing on his mind" lol trust me his coment on the phone....lol lets just say he wants something before hes better less

I think you need to worry about his recovery, not his sexual satisfaction because honestly...he probably won't be able to get off at or even be in the mood with traumatic injuries like that. If he can't stroke himself...he won't be able to have sex. There is no way. I wouldn't be using any toys on him and putting on a show where he can't get off is just cruel.

As for when he recovers...I would hope that he would want YOU, not a toy and I would just take it slow. I would lingerie instead of a toy if it were me. Maybe a military uniform of some sort. My guy really likes the new Tenga one shot sleeves though and he is not a sleeve guy-doesn't finish from them really. But that one he loved so if you really want a sleeve I would try a few variations. less

I completely agree with the other gals. Be intimate with him, but don't try to be too aggressive sexually until he lets you know he is ready to try something. And that may take a while, maybe not. Just be patient, compassionate, and supportive. And be prepared for plenty of frustration as the two of you try to figure out what works for you NOW, because what worked before may not apply anymore. Best of luck! So glad he is coming home! I have a brother over there now. less