How to properly lube up for anal?

Contributor: QSBybakd QSBybakd
I've never had anal sex before, though I do use anal plugs and such. I plan on experimenting with this soon, and I'm wondering how to properly lube up before sex. Do you lubricate the penis only, or somehow inside your anus as well?
05/22/2012
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Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Both I would say, you can work in some lube into the anus with fingers or you can find a lube shooter too. I use a syringe that is for medicine but there are lube specific ones available.

Main thing is don't skimp on the lube, the anus/rectum does not produce its own and the sphincters act like a squeegee so add as needed. Also, I like silicone lube since it stays better and does not dry out, this will work good for anal sex but not always for toy use depending on the material.
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Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
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Originally posted by QSBybakd
I've never had anal sex before, though I do use anal plugs and such. I plan on experimenting with this soon, and I'm wondering how to properly lube up before sex. Do you lubricate the penis only, or somehow inside your anus as well?
i would do both im not big on that
05/22/2012
Contributor: QSBybakd QSBybakd
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Both I would say, you can work in some lube into the anus with fingers or you can find a lube shooter too. I use a syringe that is for medicine but there are lube specific ones available.

Main thing is don't skimp on the lube, the ... more
Does Eden sell lube shooters in the catalog? I'm interested in this.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I don't like the shooter idea - but many do. I think it's better to apply lube to all surfaces and reapply as needed. Just remember there can never be too much lube!
05/23/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by QSBybakd
Does Eden sell lube shooters in the catalog? I'm interested in this.
There is one floating around but I can't seem to find it, it could be out of stock or discontinued.

There is this one that could work though.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Whenever my husband and I are in the mood for anal, we put dab some on the head of his penis. Most of the time we use it for our "grand finale", and by that point a good amount of my own juices have worked their way down to my anus, so the outside is fairly lubed up already. Again, this is just going off of personal experience, so it may not be the best choice for you.

(While I would agree 99% of the time with Gunsmoke that "there can never be too much lube", this story makes me think otherwise. And a warning: that link is NOT for those with weak stomachs, or for that matter anyone who doesn't like a good Tucker Max story.)
05/23/2012
Contributor: QSBybakd QSBybakd
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Originally posted by Deeder
Whenever my husband and I are in the mood for anal, we put dab some on the head of his penis. Most of the time we use it for our "grand finale", and by that point a good amount of my own juices have worked their way down to my anus, so the ... more
LMAO. Wow. That story. Oh my god.

I'm really glad I bought that enema kit last week!
05/23/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by QSBybakd
I've never had anal sex before, though I do use anal plugs and such. I plan on experimenting with this soon, and I'm wondering how to properly lube up before sex. Do you lubricate the penis only, or somehow inside your anus as well?
Both!!
06/08/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Deeder
Whenever my husband and I are in the mood for anal, we put dab some on the head of his penis. Most of the time we use it for our "grand finale", and by that point a good amount of my own juices have worked their way down to my anus, so the ... more
OMG. My ex told this story to me. And he wonders why I was turned off for the rest of our relationship. lol.
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