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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have found that with my partners back pain it has simply been easier to engage in sexual communion by enjoying mutual masturbation. We both pleasure the other and ourselves during those sessions.

We are doing it more often now and I was wondering how often others engaged in mutual masturbation whether both partners masturbate the other or if you masturbate yourselves beside one an other, how often is it?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Every time we have sex
12
Every other time we have sex
4
Once a week
6
Once a month
1
Every other month
1
Two/three times a year
3
I can't remember the last time we did
6
We can't stand doing that for/infront of each other
He/She's too shy to do that
3
I don't like masturbation
Other (although I think I covered all the bases)
6
Total votes: 42 (35 voters)
Poll is closed
09/03/2011
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Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I have found that with my partners back pain it has simply been easier to engage in sexual communion by enjoying mutual masturbation. We both pleasure the other and ourselves during those sessions.

We are doing it more often now and I was ... more
We do it three or four times a month some months and some months not at all... We do often do it in front of each other though even if its not mutual... like three or four times a week
09/04/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Usually a few times per week!!
09/04/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
We've been getting into it more recently. Both touching ourselves at the same time, and touching each other at the same time.

It's fun, and adds some variety. It's nice for me because I need clit stimulation (which can be hard for me to get during sex sometimes) but we still get to enjoy ourselves at the same time rather than taking turns. It also gives me a much better view than I get during sex.
09/04/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
That's just typical foreplay for us.
09/04/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by That Man from Mars
That's just typical foreplay for us.
Lol I'll copy that! We do this before sex everytime we have sex. There's probably one in a hundred times that we don't engage in mutual masturbation. Something about it is such a turn on.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Destri Destri
We engage in this a lot! I voted 'other' because there was nothing between every time and once a week. How often depends on different things, but usually I would say twice a week.
09/04/2011
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Lol I'll copy that! We do this before sex everytime we have sex. There's probably one in a hundred times that we don't engage in mutual masturbation. Something about it is such a turn on.
Mutual masturbation is always part of our foreplay. Sometimes we cum from mutual masturbation, but usually just foreplay. She loves for me to cum on her boobs. She will rube it all over and talk dirty about hot cum.
09/04/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
It really just depends. I can't say exactly what the stats are, but it happens every so often.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I voted 'every other time', because we do it a lot, though I'm not really sure of the frequency. Also, we do a lot of touching of each other at various times throughout the day, even when we're not having sex.

There are times when I'm not able to do much because of health, and when that's happening, I will often curl up against him while he masturbates or uses a stroker on himself.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Count us as another couple who need to work around health issues. When we can't have vigorous sexual activity, it is much easier for us to bust out some toys and masturbate together.
09/04/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
Every time we are going to have sex we do. However, I do jerk him off when ever he asks and I ask nothing in return. I just like watching
09/04/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
cant remember the last time we did.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Count us as another couple who need to work around health issues. When we can't have vigorous sexual activity, it is much easier for us to bust out some toys and masturbate together.
I was hoping other people with health issues would chime in! Thanks!
09/05/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Count us as another couple who need to work around health issues. When we can't have vigorous sexual activity, it is much easier for us to bust out some toys and masturbate together.
I was hoping other people with health issues would chime in! Thanks!
09/05/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
It's nice to see how often ppl do this, we never really did it all that often. My partner is sort of vanilla and traditional so mutual masturbation is sort of new and different although we have tried it before.

He seems to be more comfortable doing it in front of me bcs I try to be more verbal about how hot he is to me. He has been feeling very down about his appearance(he gained weight bcs he can't be very active due to his pain), he gets more upset about his appearance then I do about my own. So I try to reassure him and it has helped him a lot.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Not that he's too shy for it, I'm too shy for it. He wants me to masturbate in front of him and I can't!
09/13/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I used to be too shy for this, but it's a lot of fun with my girlfriend. And I've also discovered that her watching me masturbate actually gets her a lot wetter than just the usual foreplay and sex. I especially love mutual masturbation in the shower.
09/13/2011