I actually learned a lot from watching porn. Aside from the different positions, variations, etc.--I learned to wear lingerie and keep it partially on during sex to hide my 'trouble' areas I am insecure about. I learned that even porn stars have stretch marks, they are not perfect!! I learned that if you like something and have fun with it--it is not perverted! AND I learned squirting is a normal function--I an NOT a freak!!!