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How long can you go without sex? (Not in a relationship)

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Contributor: snowminx snowminx
So honestly how long do you think you could last without sex?

If you don't see the exact answer, find the biggest answer and then also select the smaller answer that will add up close to the amount you're looking for.

No judgments on this, just a curious thing =)
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
One day
Few days
gothicwhispers
1
Week
gothicwhispers
1
Couple weeks
rihanne , spiced , pfoof , sweetpea12 , lovingmylife
5
Full month
MrWood , sexykiss
2
Few months
MrWood
1
Half a year
marriedlady123
1
Year
melliegirl , sexykiss
2
Other? (please explain)
eri86 , Rin (aka Nire) , Aishiteru , twelve13 , joolie , surreptitious , sexykiss , BrittaniMaree , lovingmylife , 1001 Pleasures , bayosgirl , edeneve , KinkyKatieJames , gothicwhispers , DanK63
15
Total votes: 28 (22 voters)
Poll is closed
03/06/2013
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Contributor: rihanne rihanne
Quote:
Originally posted by snowminx
So honestly how long do you think you could last without sex?

If you don't see the exact answer, find the biggest answer and then also select the smaller answer that will add up close to the amount you're looking for.

No ... more
a little while.
03/06/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
I've already gone forever without it. And no, I don't consider my toys 'sex'.
03/07/2013
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
I've already gone forever without it. And no, I don't consider my toys 'sex'.
Ditto. I went 23 years to begin with - as much as I'd love to have another opportunity as soon as possible, having to wait is nothing new for me.
03/07/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Depends on what "sex" means. If we're talking about intercourse, I did without it 17 years before losing my virginity, and I've gone without it for several years a couple of times since.

The longest I've been without an orgasm since I had my first one at age 11 has been about 10 days, on a extended backpacking trip with a male friend of mine. I've had many similar "dry periods" of a few days on other backpacking/skiing/mou ntaineering trips.

But otherwise, I seldom go more than 24 hours without cumming!
03/08/2013
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
A few years, probably longer.
03/08/2013
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by snowminx
So honestly how long do you think you could last without sex?

If you don't see the exact answer, find the biggest answer and then also select the smaller answer that will add up close to the amount you're looking for.

No ... more
I could go for a couple of weeks. But it would be really really tough. I think it would be really hard. I like to have sex multiple times a day every day. SO it would be a challenge for me.
03/08/2013
Contributor: joolie joolie
Years. I was working a lot of hours in a place where I didn't know or meet anyone. Also my self esteem was rock bottom.
03/10/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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Quote:
Originally posted by snowminx
So honestly how long do you think you could last without sex?

If you don't see the exact answer, find the biggest answer and then also select the smaller answer that will add up close to the amount you're looking for.

No ... more
I could last indefinitely, I think. I love sex and I crave it quite a bit, but I'm also very good at channeling my desire into other things. If I have a partner and we're living close enough to one another to sleep together, then I have a hard time going a whole day, but when I don't have a partner, it's not a problem.
03/14/2013
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
havent had sex in 3 months
03/16/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I choose other because I am not sure been in a relationship for 10 years now and was only 16 when we got together
03/16/2013
Contributor: lovingmylife lovingmylife
it doesn't really bother e if i get it or not and how long is in between
03/16/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I wait until I'm in a dedicated relationship.
03/18/2013
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
The older I get, the less I seem to need sex, and so far it seems to be working out fine. Still, there are times when the urge strikes and I have to seek out some sex, so I can get over it and focus on more important things. I'm just grateful I no longer have the sex drive I did in my teens and twenties, because I needed to have sex all the time.
03/18/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I've been celibate for a long, long time until recently for reasons I care not to share. the toys do help. but there's nothing like the real thing when he's good!
03/18/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I was in a long distance relationship and didn't have sex for long periods of time. I was totally ok. Even if I was single, I could replicate that if I wanted to or had to.
03/18/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by rihanne
a little while.
i have no clue
03/18/2013
Contributor: gothicwhispers gothicwhispers
Quote:
Originally posted by snowminx
So honestly how long do you think you could last without sex?

If you don't see the exact answer, find the biggest answer and then also select the smaller answer that will add up close to the amount you're looking for.

No ... more
It's been a while since I was single, but when I was, I would typically never go more than a few days. If I did, my best friend would look at me and be like, "God, you're such a bitch! Go get laid, would you?" ROFL

ETA: I probably COULD go longer, but I am not very pleasant to be around. I think the longest I've gone since I started having sex is a few months.
03/21/2013