I have PCOS too! I had a high sex drive till we got married and I gained about 30 lbs (graduated to a desk job and looove sweets). 2-3 times a month is not enough for my husband, and its something we've struggled with. I've found that the more I have it, the more I want it. Also, when I am living a healthier lifestyle, my desires return. Another thing to think about is that PCOS kept me from getting pregnant naturally. It can also cause mood swings and such. Good luck! I'm sure glad my hubby loved me enough to stick it out- we now have a baby girl on the way!