How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally would love to cum everytime, but am comfortable with at least half the time.
How important is it for you to cum?
08/09/2012
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I need to cum to feel satisfied, but my husband (nor the other partner I had before him) made me cum. I've always had to do that myself.
08/09/2012
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Yeah, if I find myself always having to finish myself off, that's a problem for me.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
I need to cum to feel satisfied, but my husband (nor the other partner I had before him) made me cum. I've always had to do that myself.
08/09/2012
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Isn't that annoying?! I've heard about women whose partners make sure they cum before THEY do, and I'm like, why can't that be my husband? Sometimes I don't want to have to do it myself, you know? But I know vaginal orgasms are more powerful anyways, so I'm trying to teach myself to be able to cum from penetration only.
Originally posted by
LaBelleVie
Yeah, if I find myself always having to finish myself off, that's a problem for me.
08/09/2012
It's pretty important, but I come so easy that it's not a big deal to get me there.
08/09/2012
For it to be great, yes. If we're just doing a quickie it isn't important to me. I have fun either way!
08/09/2012
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I never cum during sex and am fine with it.
Originally posted by
LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally
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How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally would love to cum everytime, but am comfortable with at least half the time.
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08/09/2012
Obviously I would prefer it, but there are just some times that I can't have an orgasm for some reason or another, so I don't worry too much about it.
08/09/2012
I always want to..but if it doesn't happen its not a big deal. There's always next time!
08/09/2012
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I would like to orgasm more, but I'm ok if it's not every time.
Originally posted by
LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally
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How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally would love to cum everytime, but am comfortable with at least half the time.
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08/10/2012
I'd say I cum about 75% of the time. I can last for hours, and sometimes she just can't handle me anymore. I'll go finish up by myself or have her help me out. I still enjoy making my girlfriend enjoy herself though
08/10/2012
I need to cum almost every time I have sex unless its a few times a day then maybe I can go a session without but my partner loves making me cum
08/10/2012
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i appreciate it
Originally posted by
LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally
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How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally would love to cum everytime, but am comfortable with at least half the time.
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01/11/2013
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I prefer to get off every time! but I get a small amount of satisfaction knowing my partner gets off as well! I love the feeling of an orgasm so knowing that my man feels the same bliss makes me feel good!
Originally posted by
LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally
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How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally would love to cum everytime, but am comfortable with at least half the time.
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01/11/2013
It's not a big deal to me. Sometimes I don't even cum during masturbation, I just edges for ages.
01/11/2013
I have to cum for me to be satisfied
01/11/2013
It's a bigger deal for my partner to make me cum - he wants to and often can't - then it is for me to cum. He seems to feel bad when it's not really his fault.
01/13/2013
I don't always have to get off sometimes if I know hes horny ill let him fuck me even if im not feeling it... but about 9 times out of 10 he will make sure i get off before he does
01/13/2013
I would not be happy if we had sex and he had an orgasm and I didn't. It doesn't take much to get me to cum, so if he couldn't put forth even that tiny bit of effort, I'd be upset.
01/15/2013
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