how has anal play or prostate play affected ur relationship past or present?

Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Ever since my wife and I added anal play or prostate play to our sex life it has been amazing and brought feelings to both of us that neither thought could have been. Whether its her using a strap on on me or prostate massager or plug, the sex has been amazing and brought that feeling of what's next to both of us
12/06/2015
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
After yrs of pleasuring her, she now gets the physical and mental aspect of returning the favor. I can say it has brought us closer. And more loving towards each other.
12/06/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
It has added an additional dimension of pleasure to both of us. It's not for everyone but for those that enjoy it, it is so very worth it.
12/06/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Yes it has I agree with both of u
12/06/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
After 25 years of coaxing my wife agreed to anal sex - now she's nearly addicted to it - obviously regretting her earlier reluctance.

Although she will engage in pegging - it's just because I ask for it. My hope for 2016 is that she embraces it to the point of 'demanding' it - and having a orgasm doing me.

Here's to a successful 2016
12/31/2015
Contributor: magicmac magicmac
It made it better!
12/31/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
It has added an additional dimension of pleasure to both of us. It's not for everyone but for those that enjoy it, it is so very worth it.
Inq, So does that mean the two of you have engaged in Pegging or the other stuff Andykh mentioned. Are congratulations are in order ?
12/31/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
After 25 years of coaxing my wife agreed to anal sex - now she's nearly addicted to it - obviously regretting her earlier reluctance.

Although she will engage in pegging - it's just because I ask for it. My hope for 2016 is that she ... more
Thats awesome
12/31/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
After 25 years of coaxing my wife agreed to anal sex - now she's nearly addicted to it - obviously regretting her earlier reluctance.

Although she will engage in pegging - it's just because I ask for it. My hope for 2016 is that she ... more
Gun,

I know you have vast experience. Have you tried her wearing a "U" vibe while performing the deed on you ? Or use one of the harness ie Spareparts which has 2 pockets for bullet vibes. And of course give some loud hooping with every thrust. And giving her some oral before she starts.

Some also like the Share type dble dil's. Something for both of you with that. Or course you may require the Share XL.

We'll be waiting for your report..... Please.
12/31/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Inq, So does that mean the two of you have engaged in Pegging or the other stuff Andykh mentioned. Are congratulations are in order ?
Sort of but not quite. It's difficult to explain... But thanks!
01/01/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Sort of but not quite. It's difficult to explain... But thanks!
Inq, I think I got it. Need to touch the other bases before going on to the next one. Well , we'll see what 2016 holds for all of us.
01/01/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Inq just take it 1 step at a time and eventually both of u will have much much fun and pleasure with it.
01/02/2016
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
My wife doesn't like anal herself, and was hesitant at first to try it on me, but she has gotten pretty receptive of it now. She even asks if she can peg me on her own now, without me having to ask.
01/23/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by konicaguy
My wife doesn't like anal herself, and was hesitant at first to try it on me, but she has gotten pretty receptive of it now. She even asks if she can peg me on her own now, without me having to ask.
Thats awesome. Hope yall keep enjoying it. To me its kinda nice to throw that change up in ever so often
01/24/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by konicaguy
My wife doesn't like anal herself, and was hesitant at first to try it on me, but she has gotten pretty receptive of it now. She even asks if she can peg me on her own now, without me having to ask.
Wowser ! I bet that is a really turn on to hear her ask to take you ! I just lay the equipment on the bed and she gets the hint. Although one day I left one out for her to use on herself afterwards. Darn it, she used that Tan Revolution on me instead.
01/31/2016
Contributor: Peg Peg
Definitely been a positive experience for us both. For her it's a mood thing for me it's a lube thing. I have to echo what someone posted earlier, have to own my reluctance to be on the receiving end of anal play, pegging has opened up a whole new level of pleasure.
01/31/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Wowser ! I bet that is a really turn on to hear her ask to take you ! I just lay the equipment on the bed and she gets the hint. Although one day I left one out for her to use on herself afterwards. Darn it, she used that Tan Revolution on me ... more
That sounds like my luck if I woulda tried that.
02/01/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by Peg
Definitely been a positive experience for us both. For her it's a mood thing for me it's a lube thing. I have to echo what someone posted earlier, have to own my reluctance to be on the receiving end of anal play, pegging has opened up a ... more
Thats awesome. Hope u 2 have lots of fun with it
02/01/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Gun,

I know you have vast experience. Have you tried her wearing a "U" vibe while performing the deed on you ? Or use one of the harness ie Spareparts which has 2 pockets for bullet vibes. And of course give some loud hooping with ... more
So we've tried a number of things. We have a set of vibrating kegel balls that we use in a lot of scenarios - including pegging. She really loves them when I'm going down on her - and when I use the pussy pump. We also do some D/S play and she'll insert the balls while using the flog or crop.

We also have an Oh My Bod panty vibe that she also likes. The panties also help protect her from the leather straps of the harness. We've also put in a butt plug while she's wearing the harness - she loves that, but we need to be careful to position the straps to hold it in.

The latest addition is an Aslan leather 'cuff' that holds a dildo in place creating a 'virtual' double-dildo. So far this is a work in progress, finding the right dildo for her to use with the harness has been difficult - it has to be shorter than normal because she needs to accept the entire length. Right now I'm shopping for a new shorter dildo that I think she'll like.

Well that's the update - hope it helps...
04/28/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
So we've tried a number of things. We have a set of vibrating kegel balls that we use in a lot of scenarios - including pegging. She really loves them when I'm going down on her - and when I use the pussy pump. We also do some D/S play and ... more
Thanks, sounds like the 2 of you are and .
If OW doesn't after we're done, she gets out some of her great stuff. I always want to take care of her after she has taken such good care of me.
04/28/2016
Contributor: Jarhead1341 Jarhead1341
It's been quite positive for my GF and I! Once she understood my desire to be pegged and did it for the first time she quickly became hooked. I am fairly lucky in that she often is the initiator of pegging. It has definitely brought us closer and helped to make sex and other intimate topics a lot easier to discuss openly with one another.
05/04/2016
Contributor: Peg Peg
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Originally posted by Andykh
Thats awesome. Hope u 2 have lots of fun with it
We do
05/04/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Thanks, sounds like the 2 of you are and .
If OW doesn't after we're done, she gets out some of her great stuff. I always want to take care of her after she has taken such good care of me.
So I spend a little - no a lot of time on Tumblr. I copy interesting pics/ideas to my hard drive, then make cards for my wife letting her know what kind of things I'm thinking about. I have even made a fer PPT presentations using GIF files that show movement. It's been a good way to let her know what's going on in my head without me having to be too graphic - you know 'a picture is worth 1,000 words'

One of the pics showed a gal pegging her guy with the caption "Saturday nights are for f****** my husband" - so she'll be getting another reminder tomorrow - that she's in the driver's seat!

I know I'm going to end up with the Outlaw deep inside - but she's gotten really good at changing up the foreplay. Blindfolds, cuffs, crops, paddles, floggers, vibes and any number of dildos to to warm me up!
05/21/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
So I spend a little - no a lot of time on Tumblr. I copy interesting pics/ideas to my hard drive, then make cards for my wife letting her know what kind of things I'm thinking about. I have even made a fer PPT presentations using GIF files that ... more
TGIS!
05/22/2016