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How easy is it for you to talk about sex?

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Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
I wrote an article at Liberator Ooh this week called "Why so serious"
I discussed how there is a double standard for women when it comes to discussing and talking about sex openly. This also goes back to my PTO fiasco this week. So I would like to know how comfortable you are with talking about sex.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Never talk about it
Talk about it only with those I'm intimate with
Mr. & Mrs. Peg , slynch , Kindred , Jon S , jakjak , ily , indiglo , EvilHomer , Forever17 , Gluesnffr
10
Talk about it with those I'm intimate with and close friends
js250 , null , Coralbell , Antipova , Peggi , squire , Rossie , Ghost , Ava5 , Kkay , oldkinky , Beaners , AOutrajus , jjdd , mcl272 , MyWifeExposed , Destri , Gunsmoke , indiglo , Illumin8 , cherie2188 , minstrel69 , CaliGirl
23
I talk about it with those I'm intimate with, close friends and family
aliceinthehole , MattBryant , Peggi , kohinoor , potstickers
5
I talk about it with anyone, but I am usually not the one to bring it up
Rin (aka Nire) , CoffeeCup , Sir , Ace <3 , Coralbell , Antipova , pinkcupcakes , Linga , Ansley , AndroAngel , Keegski , Breas , padmeamidala , AOutrajus , Bry & Jenn , EJ , jjdd , Sunshineamine , JessCee , That Man from Mars , guard083 , Purpleladybug , cheetahpita , kohinoor , - Kira - , Wildchild , ViVix , Bethy Cassatt
28
I will talk about it with any and everyone and I'm usually the one that starts the conversation!
AngelvMaynard , caligaliber , MattBryant , K101 , Lady Venus , Twitch , I Wear The Pants , toxie m , Shellz31 , Ms. Spice , PussyPurr , Lucky21 , Beck , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , jeangel246 , Redboxbaby , Illumin8 , mr115393 , naturegirl
19
Other....because there is always an other :)
Peggi , Ava5 , Kkay , AndroAngel , ily , ThoughtsAblaze , superslinky
7
Total votes: 92 (78 voters)
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Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Depends a lot on who I'm talking to, but generally if someone else brings it up I'm okay with adding my thoughts.
09/01/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I talk about it with everyone as long as it isn't at an inappropriate time or anything.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
It's extremely easy to talk about, I feel that there's nothing wrong with it. It's one of my favorite topics, aside from BDSM and mathematics.
09/01/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
It really depends on who I am talking to nad how comfortable with the topic. I have been know to just blurt out some great ideas, and on the flip side, some not so good ideas.
09/01/2011
Contributor: null null
I don't talk about it with lots of people, close friends only, and only those close friends I know won't go tell others.
09/01/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
It's extremely easy to talk about, I feel that there's nothing wrong with it. It's one of my favorite topics, aside from BDSM and mathematics.
Haha! I love how you threw in mathematics The sex talk I could totally keep up with. You'd lose me on the math!
09/01/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
It really depends on who I am talking to nad how comfortable with the topic. I have been know to just blurt out some great ideas, and on the flip side, some not so good ideas.
Hahaha! Thats the story of my life!
09/01/2011
Contributor: Ace <3 Ace <3
I'm an undergraduate student going for medical school next year. I'm taking several ethics, anatomy, and human body classes in which sex usually is the major topic for probably half of the time. I've spent 4 years at college, and I know that sex, or at least the biology behind it, will only increase in discussions from here on out.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I'll talk about it with friends sometimes, but some of my close friends are virgins for religious reasons, so I don't talk about it with them. I have no problem talking about it in a casual conversation with people I don't really know, but there's certain details I wouldn't go into.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
It's incredibly easy to talk about sex with my partners and with close friends.

I enjoy talking about sex with strangers and new acquaintances too... but I'll usually wait for them to send a signal that they wouldn't judge me if I was honest before I get into juicy detail. It's easy for me to keep my mouth shut if I don't sense that I'm in friendly territory.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Twitch Twitch
my friends call me the perv.

i even talk to my grandpa about sex.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
It's not that I'm a prude...it just doesn't come up. If I talk about sex at work...it would be a huge problem. I don't think we are comfortable enough with our neighbors to talk about sex. I haven't really made any other friends down in Florida I am comfortable enough to talk about sex with.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Mostly I just talk about sex with my S/O. I do sort of mention my activities on Eden with close friends, just briefly bringing it up during conversations, and I will talk more about toys and such if they're interested. Usually they'll be surprised to know I'm into sex toys!
09/02/2011
Contributor: I Wear The Pants I Wear The Pants
I'm very dirty. I love talking about sex. I'm very open about it and nothing fazes me anymore.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
A bit of a mix. My partner has a very conservative family, so I try to fly under the radar when it comes to them. I'm comfortable talking about sex frankly to friends or people I don't know online.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm happy to bring up the subject of sex, but I like to make sure I get a sense on whether they will deal with it or not before hand.
09/02/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I usually don't start conversations with complete strangers, but acquaintances aren't safe from my enthusiasm.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i'll talk about sex with almost anyone. i'll bring up personal experiences sometimes, but i really enjoy discussing the biology behind it.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I don't bring it up unless it's a close friend or family member... but it's extremely easy for me to talk about. I consider sex as just another natural thing.. everyone does it (for the most part), so why act like its something to be ashamed of or embarased of
09/02/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I don't talk about it with family, but everyone else is fair game. My family believes if a guy sucks a cock he's gay, gay, gay, G-A-Y!!!! And no amount of rational thought can convince them otherwise. Bible-thumping: their favorite past-time. Anyway...I'm pretty open about a lot of things and it's dependent upon the audience just how far I'll go into discussion.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by Ansley
I don't talk about it with family, but everyone else is fair game. My family believes if a guy sucks a cock he's gay, gay, gay, G-A-Y!!!! And no amount of rational thought can convince them otherwise. Bible-thumping: their favorite past-time. ... more
My aunt is like your family. She likes to preach, A LOT. It gets super annoying. Everything she says is "right" and everyone else is "wrong". Its so hypocritical
09/02/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
My aunt is like your family. She likes to preach, A LOT. It gets super annoying. Everything she says is "right" and everyone else is "wrong". Its so hypocritical
Talking to these people is like licking a brick wall, it's a novelty at first but after awhile your tongue starts to get raw. And then we end up in epic arguments because I cannot get over how closed-minded they are and how I managed to turn out to be so open about so many things.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I'm a chronic over sharer when it comes to that. It's an off limits topic for my family, but anyone else is fair game to learn more than they probably wanted to about my sex life.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Talking to these people is like licking a brick wall, it's a novelty at first but after awhile your tongue starts to get raw. And then we end up in epic arguments because I cannot get over how closed-minded they are and how I managed to turn out ... more
Me too! Well, my mom is not narrow minded.. actually, she is the one who introduced me to this site lol.. but a lot of other people on my mom's side of the family are very narrow minded.. but my aunt takes the cake for sure. This is a bit off topic but here are a few messed up examples:

1. back when i was a bit younger (im 24 now), I drank alcohol with friends. She sent me an email saying I was going to hell. I don't drink anymore, not because of the fear of hell, but for health reasons.
2. When I became vegetarian, she told my mom that I am a sinner because god gave us animals to eat (WTF?)
3. When I told my aunt on the phone I was gaining weight because I was eating alot of starchy foods, she then told my mom that fat people are sinners and god hates them.


Im not even kidding here... It seems she likes to use me the most to point her judgement at. I dont really care because most of the stuff is so beyond ridiculous. I mean, vegetarianism is evil? I chose to do that because I value animals' lives for goodness sakes!
09/02/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
Me too! Well, my mom is not narrow minded.. actually, she is the one who introduced me to this site lol.. but a lot of other people on my mom's side of the family are very narrow minded.. but my aunt takes the cake for sure. This is a bit off ... more
Oh she sounds like a real dream! LOL Well, her judgment will only get her judged in the end, so let her God deal with it.
09/02/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
I wrote an article at Liberator Ooh this week called "Why so serious"
I discussed how there is a double standard for women when it comes to discussing and talking about sex openly. This also goes back to my PTO fiasco this week. So I ... more
I will talk about sex with anyone but they have to bring it up. I am very open about discussing it. I even blog about it too!
09/02/2011
Contributor: Bry & Jenn Bry & Jenn
If someone brings it up i'll talk......
09/02/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I am the topic starter usually! I love to talk about sex. It is the subject I know the most about. Most do not want to talk about changing diapers and cleaning house, which are the only other things I am good at.
09/02/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I do not talk too much about personal things with anyone but my wife. But just basic sex talk is ok to talk about with friends.
09/02/2011