which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you just rotate items or do you find yourself going back to your favorites over and over?
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08/17/2012
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It depends on my mood.
08/17/2012
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My mood. Most of the time I don't even use toys unless the mood strikes. I only use them as a foreplay or car ride thing. I really don't go to town using only a toy. We always just mix them in with our intimate time. Either way, if you feel your collection is too big or overwhelming, maybe that's a sign of having too many things you no longer want/need/use? Just my thinking, but I tend to be a super organizing freak who throws out anything I ain't using at the very moment. Lol.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you
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which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you just rotate items or do you find yourself going back to your favorites over and over?
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I just choose whatever looks appealing to me and it's always changing with my mood. Lately I've wanted glass more often than I normally do. I'll have a phase where I'll only use Matryoshka for weeks and then a phase where I'm stuck on Envie. Moods change. I always know just what toy I want when I do want to use one. I never have trouble choosing. Sometimes I'll start with one and then switch to something else Like if I want something with more texture or want to use the stacked balls of my glass dildo and then smooth silicone a while later.
08/17/2012
We normally don't use toys except for foreplay occasionally. If we are using something, it's generally decided upon ahead of time depending on our mood.
08/17/2012
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I usually just find one that sounds good at that moment. If I have more time or am feeling extra turned on, I will get one I don't usually use.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you
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more
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you just rotate items or do you find yourself going back to your favorites over and over?
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08/17/2012
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It's not too big or overwhelming and I certainly want everything I have... maybe I could've worded my OP better. I think it's more because my husband is rather impatient in bed. I'd love to use 4-5 items in a session, but I'm lucky if I can incorporate one. It seems like when he gets going he just wants to get done as quick as possible. It's kind of sad.
Originally posted by
K101
My mood. Most of the time I don't even use toys unless the mood strikes. I only use them as a foreplay or car ride thing. I really don't go to town using only a toy. We always just mix them in with our intimate time. Either way, if you feel
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more
My mood. Most of the time I don't even use toys unless the mood strikes. I only use them as a foreplay or car ride thing. I really don't go to town using only a toy. We always just mix them in with our intimate time. Either way, if you feel your collection is too big or overwhelming, maybe that's a sign of having too many things you no longer want/need/use? Just my thinking, but I tend to be a super organizing freak who throws out anything I ain't using at the very moment. Lol.
I just choose whatever looks appealing to me and it's always changing with my mood. Lately I've wanted glass more often than I normally do. I'll have a phase where I'll only use Matryoshka for weeks and then a phase where I'm stuck on Envie. Moods change. I always know just what toy I want when I do want to use one. I never have trouble choosing. Sometimes I'll start with one and then switch to something else Like if I want something with more texture or want to use the stacked balls of my glass dildo and then smooth silicone a while later. less
I just choose whatever looks appealing to me and it's always changing with my mood. Lately I've wanted glass more often than I normally do. I'll have a phase where I'll only use Matryoshka for weeks and then a phase where I'm stuck on Envie. Moods change. I always know just what toy I want when I do want to use one. I never have trouble choosing. Sometimes I'll start with one and then switch to something else Like if I want something with more texture or want to use the stacked balls of my glass dildo and then smooth silicone a while later. less
08/17/2012
My husband picks what we use during sex. I don't know what his methods are. lol
When it's just me, I usually play with what I have to review and grab a standby in case the testing doesn't go well.
When it's just me, I usually play with what I have to review and grab a standby in case the testing doesn't go well.
08/17/2012
With reviewing it use to be something I needed to review in the past. With my new partner I just grab a few things that are my faves and then let him choose what he wants to use on me. If I am going solo I usually pick up my fave rabbit or a dildo that I have that is so amazing.
08/18/2012
I usually let her decide
08/19/2012
I go through phases where I stick to a couple for a while, and then move on to something else.
I also go by mood. Sometimes I want glass because I want lots of sensation with very little effort. Sometimes I want something realistic feeling to really pound away with.
My man jokes that I need a caddy for my toy collection. "You're going to want the Goodfella this time." lol
I also go by mood. Sometimes I want glass because I want lots of sensation with very little effort. Sometimes I want something realistic feeling to really pound away with.
My man jokes that I need a caddy for my toy collection. "You're going to want the Goodfella this time." lol
08/19/2012
Cat E.
I mostly use my one favorite dildo and one favorite vibe.
08/19/2012
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favorites usually
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you
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more
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you just rotate items or do you find yourself going back to your favorites over and over?
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08/19/2012
It depends on the mood and what we're doing. There are some toys that are grabbed more often.
08/19/2012
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