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Contributor: eri86 eri86
Have any of your fantasies or things you've been interested in your mind not ended up being as 'hot' in person?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes. Some things were a 'not.' (what was it?)
married with children , spiced , Taylor , Gunsmoke , Alan & Michele , angel42539 , KrissyNovacaine , padmeamidala , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Hallmar82 , GingerSpice
11  (85%)
No. Everything has been 'hot.'
There things I'm not sure about, but still need try... (what are they?)
eri86 , Yoda
2  (15%)
Total votes: 13
Poll is closed
05/29/2013
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Contributor: married with children married with children
there have been a few things that have not worked out the same as they did in my mind, or my wife's mind for that matter on her fantasies.
05/29/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
We both thought role play with her in a maid costume would be a lot of fun. We had fun, but it was pretty much in spite of the costume, not because of it.
05/29/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've come up with a fair number of written scenarios that I wanted to try with my wife - 99% of them were just too complicated - so not as hot as we would have liked.
05/30/2013
Contributor: angel42539 angel42539
not as hot
05/30/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I think it has been about 50/50. Some I know are too much for some reason to make anything more than a fantasy.
05/30/2013
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I've come up with a fair number of written scenarios that I wanted to try with my wife - 99% of them were just too complicated - so not as hot as we would have liked.
I've had a similar problem. Sometimes sex is overthought. It's better when it's simple and unscripted. Let the hotness just happen on its own.
05/30/2013
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
Yesterday I watched us having sex in the mirror. It was both hot and not. I'm much sexier in my head than I am in real life, so watching my reflection was kind of a shocking reality check.
05/30/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Even with a large beach towel, sex on the beach is a definite NOT. It doesn't matter how careful you are, the sand gets everywhere...
05/30/2013
Contributor: GingerSpice GingerSpice
i do much more in my fantasy's...when the time comes in real time, things just go naturally and not easy to plan out as well as it was in my head..lol
05/30/2013