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Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
I would hope all men are doing a little homework to help improve their skills in the bedroom. Personally, I do some reading on how to make sex between my wife and I a more pleasurable experience for her. I have learned a lot from my reading and also just talking with her.

What I am hoping for is ladies to share some tips and tricks that men can try with their ladies tonight. What you take for granted as common sense for you and your man may be groundbreaking for another couple. Most men know about the clit but ladies have erogenous zones all over that should be used by their man to bring them to new levels of excitement/bliss.

So please, share your secrets and make a fellow woman happy you did.
06/03/2013
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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
If something works, keep doing it. Don't change it up of go faster/harder just because we're excited.
06/04/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Mwar
If something works, keep doing it. Don't change it up of go faster/harder just because we're excited.
Right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
06/04/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
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Originally posted by Mwar
If something works, keep doing it. Don't change it up of go faster/harder just because we're excited.
noted, thank you. anything else?
06/04/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Bubba29
noted, thank you. anything else?
Each person is so unique when it comes to how they like something done...it really is best to just ask the person you're with. There isn't a universal "do this, don't do that" because everyone has different boundaries, different sensitivities, and different fantasies. If it were so easy to pin down everyone would have a fantastic sex life all of the time.

I'm sure that isn't what you want to hear, but it's the truth, at least in my opinion (hehehe). I, for instance, like oral to be soft and sensual and for my entire breast to be played with while the nipple is largely ignored. Hubby knows this...we've taken the time to communicate those things to each other.
06/04/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
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Originally posted by Ansley
Each person is so unique when it comes to how they like something done...it really is best to just ask the person you're with. There isn't a universal "do this, don't do that" because everyone has different boundaries, different ... more
I get what you are saying. Problem is for the woman who doesn't know what she doesn't know. There could be things she ends up liking that she hasn't tried or even thought of trying.
06/04/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Bubba29
I get what you are saying. Problem is for the woman who doesn't know what she doesn't know. There could be things she ends up liking that she hasn't tried or even thought of trying.
That's part of the fun, though - just stumbling into things. I mean don't ever hesitate to try something new, but if she doesn't like it then she just doesn't like it.

It took years for me to get comfortable with something my husband wanted to do during oral and now I beg for it.
06/04/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
I'm not a woman, but the most valid tip on the whole damn planet is to open your mouth and communicate. Those speaking skills you spent 12ish years learning and perfecting? Put them to use. Everything gets better.
06/04/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
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Originally posted by Mwar
If something works, keep doing it. Don't change it up of go faster/harder just because we're excited.
This is a great tip. I tend to forget to slow down when I'm excited.
06/04/2013
Contributor: tami tami
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Originally posted by Bubba29
I would hope all men are doing a little homework to help improve their skills in the bedroom. Personally, I do some reading on how to make sex between my wife and I a more pleasurable experience for her. I have learned a lot from my reading and ... more
Here is a tip for you gentlemen...when you go down on a gal DO NOT rip at their vag like it is your favorite bag of chips lick it like it is your favorite lollipop if you give good oral we give good oral back to you
06/04/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by tami
Here is a tip for you gentlemen...when you go down on a gal DO NOT rip at their vag like it is your favorite bag of chips lick it like it is your favorite lollipop if you give good oral we give good oral back to you
That's a crock. I happen to know I give very good oral, and I rarely get it back
06/04/2013