He's finally gonna let me do it!!!

Contributor: JandNat JandNat
My boyfriend is finally gonna let me use a strap on on him!! I need some suggestions on what type of harness/dildo combination to purchase to make it a pleasurable experience for the BOTH of us. I'm gonna need an extemely small dildo for him and a harness that will provide clitoral stimulation for me as well. Please help before he changes his mind!!! Thanks everyone
09/04/2011
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Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Here's a simple harness Commando

And this should be good for him to start with. It's smooth so it won't stimulate too much. But you won't get much from it yourself.
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When you get him taking it like a pro, grab this. This will get you both moaning and all the time you spent training him will be worth it.
Realdoe
09/05/2011
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by JandNat
My boyfriend is finally gonna let me use a strap on on him!! I need some suggestions on what type of harness/dildo combination to purchase to make it a pleasurable experience for the BOTH of us. I'm gonna need an extemely small dildo for him and ... more
My wife fucks me about once a week. The dildos don't need to be massive. The diameter is the critical dimension. The maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is just over 1 1/4 in diameter, but 7 inches long is fine.

We began with a small vibrating prostate toy(Tantus Pro Touch). My wife used it on me while she gave me a blowjob-fantastic orgasm. Then we purchased a Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness and two small silicone dildos. When it arrived my wife put it on and lubed it and my opening. I like laying on my back with my legs drawn up. In this position she can easily reach my lubed dick. She slowly inserted it in me and started thrusting while she gave me a handjob. Fantastic for both of us. We both came together.

Next we purchased a Buzz Me Tender Harness. It has two small vibrators for stimulating her clitoris while she fucks me(the bend Over Beginner Harness also has a vibrator). Our new dildos are all silicone with vibrators. Our two favorite are Vixen's Vibrating Mistress and Tantus Vibrating Leisure. They are both small enough diameter to be comfortable. Use lots and lots of lube. We use Wet Original for everything.

There is a great instructional videos on the web site xnxx.com. Just type strap on master class in the search blank. There are nine 10 minute videos. Very well done.

Additionally I use a Fleet Enema syringe filled with plain water before sex. I use it several times until it comes out clear.

Strap on sex is fantastic. We both love it. send me a message through Eden Fantasies for more details.
09/05/2011
Contributor: manans25 manans25
Quote:
Originally posted by oldkinky
My wife fucks me about once a week. The dildos don't need to be massive. The diameter is the critical dimension. The maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is just over 1 1/4 in diameter, but 7 inches long is fine.

We began with a ... more
Great post oldkinky. Which one would you suggest for both my wife and I to get penetration and stimulation? We found the realdoe way too big.

Buzz Me Tender Harness sounds very good. Do you suggest we use Vixen's Vibrating Mistress or Tantus Vibrating Leisure with that harness? Is there a way we both get penetration?

Please suggest since you seem to have experienced it.

Thanks in advance.
07/03/2012