Long ago, I learned my hubby "enjoys the view" and I might just be sitting opposite him in the living room and hike my leg on the arm of the couch or lounger, just to give him a "spread crotch shot" while I am reading the paper or whatever. I KNOW he might enjoy just LOOKING. (He acts on it later, sometimes, if HE too is busy right then). Likewise, sometimes I will stop while sucking on him, just to look at his penis like a much beloved art piece...which it is, to ME. However, I have GF's, who, even those married a long time, feel awkward or insecure for their lovers to really LOOK at them.
How do YOU feel about it?
How do YOU feel about it?