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Have you ever had sex where one partner was under the age of consent and the other wasn't?

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Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
So, last night I was at a wedding and the photographer was a guy I had fucked a few times in high school. At the time, I was 17 and he was 32. Looking back on it now, I can't believe I would do that considering my age then and the age difference between us. It's not a situation where I felt I had been taken advantage of or anything like that. I actually initiated the whole thing. He was know as "Horse Cock" by the mutual friends we had, and being the young hormone driven sexpot that I was, I was naturally curious.

But this got me thinking about age of consent. In the state I live this could have been considered statutory rape. Clearly he wasn't worried about the consequences because I had initiated the whole thing and wasn't about report him. That and we only hooked up a few times, so there really wasn't any risk of my parents finding out either.

So, I guess what I was wondering was how prevalent these kind of illicit relationships are. And I'm not talking about sex where both partners are having consentual underage sex (i.e. most high school sexual relationships). Even though that is still technically considered statutory rape. I'm talking about sexual relationships where one person is underage and the other is not. Private poll (obviously).
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am female and have had sex while under the of consent with somebody that was over the age of consent.
22
I am female and while being over the age of consent have had sex with somebody under the age of consent.
3
I am male and have had sex while under the of consent with somebody that was over the age of consent.
1
I am male and while being over the age of consent have had sex with somebody under the age of consent.
2
I am female and have never had sex while under the age of consent with somebody that was over the age of consent.
7
I am female and over the age of consent and have never had sex with somebody under the age of consent.
19
I am male and have never had sex while under the age of consent with somebody that was over the age of consent.
4
I am male and over the age of consent and have never had sex with somebody under the age of consent.
1
Total votes: 59 (45 voters)
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10/22/2011
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Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
All my own personal opinion:

Women tend to mature faster than men, and teenaged boys of the same age can be the most irritating beings to some girls. I think it's common for girls to seek out older guys for this reason.

The age of consent is 16 here, by the way. It was 14 up until 2008.
10/23/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
I was 16 and he was 19, so just barely.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
My boyfriend's the only person I've had sex with. We were both over the age of consent.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
We're still together, so I don't consider it to be an illicit relationship and I'm damn glad we took the risks we did at that time.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I first hooked up with my hubby(37 at the time) when I was 17. I had few before that, that were 20-28. I like older men. A lot.
10/24/2011
Contributor: samopayn samopayn
My boyfriend is two years younger than me. He was sixteen when we started dating. We are still together and have a baby. (: I see nothing wrong with it. Of course we are both in our 20's now.
10/30/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I think the most was I was 16 and he was 18, so barely.
10/31/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I was 20 the first time I had sex, and both my partners have been older than me.

I had a friend who had had plenty of hook-ups while he was under the age of consent with people over the age (very smart guy - started college at 16). Not having his parents around at all was very conducive to getting sex with other college students, who didn't really care that he was younger.
11/11/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I never had sex with someone over the age of consent when I was under the age of consent. I didn't even have my first kiss until I was 18.
11/11/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
No, I've never had sex with anyone under the age of consent when I was over it, or vice versa. I didn't have sex until I was 19, and my boyfriend was also 19.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
Nope. I never had sex til I was 20 and the youngest person I've had sex with was 19.
12/03/2011
Contributor: SilverIsis SilverIsis
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
So, last night I was at a wedding and the photographer was a guy I had fucked a few times in high school. At the time, I was 17 and he was 32. Looking back on it now, I can't believe I would do that considering my age then and the age difference ... more
nope,never been attracted to those that were significantly older or younger then me.
12/04/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Nope, never had sex until I was almost 19.
12/04/2011