Have you ever gotten slapped in the face?

Contributor: Epicurean Epicurean
I've always wanted to get slapped in the face during sex but never quite found the right situation. But this weekend I got slapped across the face, HARD, and although it made my head reel a bit, it felt damn good! I'm a little apprehensive and a little excited to do it again. Anyone else?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
ninaspinkturtle , KikiChrome , Red Vinyl Kitty , PussyGalore , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Danielle1220 , Epicurean , Dusk , TheSinDoll , lunapixie , Sammi , clp , harleydhm , ZenaidaMacroura , sweet seduction , ID42 , Fuck it.
17  (33%)
No, but I'd be interested
VenusianThunder , bunny love
2  (4%)
No, and it doesn't interest me at all
pinkcupcakes , Kindred , Shellz31 , Kaltir , Lady Venus , REDRUM , Gunsmoke , liilii080 , C4ss , Bunnycups , Coralbell , Envy , OhMy! , ToyTimeTim , Taylor , ClaimedByDarkness , BeautiFullFigured , Darling Jen , Michelle Menace , married with children , lamira , Free , vegan.guy , girl next door , SexyStuff , Sohotdinosaur , darthkitt3n , That Guy , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , potstickers , LikeSunshineDust , jankit , pinkzombie
33  (63%)
Total votes: 52
Poll is closed
02/14/2011
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Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
We're into spanking, but that's as close as we'll get to a slap, lol. Glad you enjoy it though
02/14/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Nope and the person would be sorry if they tried. They'd cop one back and not in any kind of playful way!
I'll take a fair bit, but a slap to the face I'd find insulting.
02/14/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
It's not for me. A little spank, yes. A slap in the face, no thanks.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by liilii080
It's not for me. A little spank, yes. A slap in the face, no thanks.
Agreed.

To each their own.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I agree with the other posters, spanking yes, face slapping no.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I've had it done to me, both with a cock, and with a hand. Very hot.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
I was abused most of my life so being slapped in the face is something i really do not want.
02/14/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It's a hard limit for me, sexually. I really don't care for it, and My Man isn't comfortable doing it. A lot of people involved in D/s relationships and power play enjoy it, and I understand why. It just isn't my thing, but a lot of other things are.

As long as you are safe, sane and consent, go with what works for you.
02/14/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I've had it done to me, both with a cock, and with a hand. Very hot.
Oh, I didn't think of with a cock. I was thinking a hand. OK, it's not such a hard limit then.
02/14/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
It's ok when the mood is appropriate. Appropriate is defined as: we've both been having shitty weeks with people or life dumping on us and we need a little more than just a good fuck to let the stress go.

I hate it when I'm expecting it though, so once or twice is usually my limit in a session. Now, being cock-whipped is an entirely different story and falls into the "any time any where" category.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Michelle Menace Michelle Menace
yeah spanking is fun, but slapping doesn't do anything for me...
02/14/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
the idea of hurting my wife does not turn me or her on, sorry.
02/14/2011
Contributor: lamira lamira
I don't like slapping at all, but I do love spanking.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I watched this, and decided immediately that I wanted to be slapped in the face.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Free Free
The face isn't my thing. Other parts, yes, but not the face.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Yes...didn't really like it!
02/14/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
My hubs is not the type, it would seem weird.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Epicurean Epicurean
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
I was abused most of my life so being slapped in the face is something i really do not want.
I also had an abusive childhood. There's actually a backstory to all this: I suffered from PTSD for years. I had an ex-boyfriend who once playfully, gently slapped my face (not even during sex), and it triggered a lot of awful things, and he suggested seeing someone. I went through several years of therapy and feel self-manageable now, although I don't ever consider trauma and recovery to be a finished process. However, to be able to be slapped in the face and be turned on, rather than horrified, by it, feels like a major accomplishment to me. We deal with things in different ways.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I love it in the right situations (like when we're already doing some pretty kinky shit).
02/15/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
I've been hit in the face too many times to want to do it again, but then my girlfriend has never been really into bondage. Maybe if she got really dominant all of a sudden I'd change my mind.
02/15/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Yes, and it makes me wet as fuck.
02/15/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
I'd only try spanking. Slapping's too much for me.
02/15/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I love spanking, but slapping, I dunno. My boyfriend has playfully slapped me before, and it pissed me off the first few times he did it. Then we started getting more into spanking, biting, hair pulling and whatnot, and now I don't mind when he does it playfully. I don't think we've ever done it as a sexual thing, though. I don't think I'd mind.
02/17/2011
Contributor: VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
Never been slapped across the face, but wouldn't be completely against it... not something I would want all the time, cause it would take away from the shock/excitement of it.
02/18/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
I've been thinking about this lately.

I loveeeee spanking on my butt and on my vulva, so I've been thinking about asking my boyfriend slap me across the face.

I'm not so sure how much I'll it in practice though. I suppose only time will tell!
02/18/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I've only let people hit me in the face if I could hit them back, and even then I need to be cuddled a good bit afterward. It can be emotionally draining.
02/18/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Fuck it.
I've only let people hit me in the face if I could hit them back, and even then I need to be cuddled a good bit afterward. It can be emotionally draining.
Aftercare is so important in any type of BDSM activity. At least for many of us. These things, imo, are best done in an emotionally positive atmosphere, but the Aftercare really cements your care and/or love for your partner.
02/18/2011
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Epicurean
I've always wanted to get slapped in the face during sex but never quite found the right situation. But this weekend I got slapped across the face, HARD, and although it made my head reel a bit, it felt damn good! I'm a little apprehensive ... more
No that is too much. Spank my ass all you want but my face?!!! NOO
02/19/2011