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Contributor: Nashville Nashville
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Do you think there is a negative stigma associated with phone sex? Is it a hobby or a job for you? Does it make you feel good or make you feel guilty? Would you care to describe what you think about phone sex below?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I have never been paid for phone sex.
49
I have never paid for phone sex.
49
I was often paid for phone sex but not anymore.
3
I often paid for phone sex but not anymore.
I am sometimes paid for phone sex.
3
I sometimes pay for phone sex.
I am regularly paid for phone sex.
I pay one person for phone sex on a regular basis.
I pay multiple people for phone sex on a regular basis.
My job is as a phone sex operator, etc.
I have a relationship with a phone sex operator which I maintain over the phone and not in person.
Other.
4
Total votes: 108 (61 voters)
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06/09/2009
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Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
I've never paid for phone sex but I did have it once many years ago. And I have to say it was great! I would definitely do it again, but I don't think my hubby is that interested in it, and I wouldn't do it with anyone else.
06/09/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I have had phone sex with a former b/f. We both enjoyed it and it was the best we could do during our time at separate schools.
06/10/2009
Contributor: Spicy Sunday Spicy Sunday
I've never done it, I think I would crack up laughing. I'd give it an honest try if a partner expressed interest in it, though.
06/10/2009
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
We actually hearc a neighbor on his cordless phone having phone sex several times. We jsut sat and laughed at him! It was so funny to listen to. The neighbor has since moved away so we have no free entertainment now!
06/10/2009
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Phone sex for fun = good. Phone sex for money = meh.
I spent 2 years as a phone sex provider, including 3 months with it as my only source of income. The money was great. I was constantly surprised how much money people put into phone sex. But, of course, when you get paid, it's about the customer and what they want. Actually enjoying it yourself is rarely part of the gig.

In fact, while I am normally all for phone sex or general over-the-phone foreplay, when I was doing it for cash, I lost my taste for it almost entirely (temporarily).

It wasn't ALL bad. Every once in awhile, you would get someone who was smart, funny, charming and a pleasure to talk to, who mostly wanted to talk. Of course, there was also the guy who got off from the sound of sneezing, the guy who had a balloon popping fetish, the guy who dreamed of me flying to NYC to perform a circumcision on him and the guy who fantasized about his 65 year old wife having sex with 20 year old men.

I know it's almost cliche, but so many of them were really looking to cure loneliness or just have someone not mock them for whatever odd thing they might be into.
06/12/2009
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I did it for about 3 months for a small, but great company. I had no problems with how they ran things but I had a problem with certain types of calls. It was a NO TABOO company, so I would get callers asking for some really sick stuff. I'm pretty kinky, but those ones just bothered me, so I stopped. But I was told I was welcome back anytime, so I guess I did a good job.
07/21/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I've never done it but I know people that do it for a living, and they do really well. It's definitely something I'd consider in the future if my S/O wouldn't be too uncomfortable with it.
07/21/2010
Contributor: sixfootsex sixfootsex
People keep visiting my drive thru, buying coffee and trying to recruit me/suggesting this career for me... Sigh.
02/24/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
When I was 13 or so I was at a slumber party and we thought it would be hilarious (it was) to call a sex line. Does that count?
02/24/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
I've never paid and have never been paid for phone sex. I've only ever had it once.
02/25/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Nashville
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Do you think there is a negative stigma associated with phone sex? Is it a hobby or a job for you? Does it make you feel good or make you feel guilty? Would you care to describe what you think about phone sex below? ... more
I watched a TV show once that showed a "woman" who did "phone sex", and yet it was really a male with a very "feminine" phone voice. I have no clue how common such things are, but when you are paying for something...blind, then what you are paying for is ALL "fantasy" and the "reality" may well be FAR, FAR further then the Fantasy then you might imagine. Another was a "girl" doing the calls, but in fact, it was a far, FAR older woman...looked about 60 or more, but with a great, youthful phone voice and a GREAT sense of humor...from what it seemed on that show, anyway!
08/17/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by PassionQT
I did it for about 3 months for a small, but great company. I had no problems with how they ran things but I had a problem with certain types of calls. It was a NO TABOO company, so I would get callers asking for some really sick stuff. I'm ... more
This is fascinating. You were "bothered" by the "callers asking for sick stuff", even though it was just a phone call and nothing was actually happening, sexual or otherwise? What kind of calls, in general, could elicit such strong response in you, when you knew this was 100% "fake" stuff...just words?? I am seriously curious as something of a psychology fan.
08/17/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by Bignuf
This is fascinating. You were "bothered" by the "callers asking for sick stuff", even though it was just a phone call and nothing was actually happening, sexual or otherwise? What kind of calls, in general, could elicit such ... more
I'm not sure what "sick stuff" she's referring to, but there are certainly things that would bother ME...namely, incest, rape, bestiality, pee/poop.. Just because it's "only" a phone call doesn't mean some fantasies aren't disturbing for some people.
08/18/2011
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Nashville
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Do you think there is a negative stigma associated with phone sex? Is it a hobby or a job for you? Does it make you feel good or make you feel guilty? Would you care to describe what you think about phone sex below? ... more
Never paid for it and never have been paid for it. Though I'm not against the idea.
07/08/2012
Contributor: SimpleHedonist SimpleHedonist
I did phone sex as my primary income MANY years ago. I made very good money, and actually found it pretty entertaining. Yes, I got some seriously weird calls, but I din't have a problem with them..... different strokes for different folks. The only reason I quit was because I ended up doing other things that made a lot more money, then kids came around. I would not be opposed to doing it again.
07/08/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I've never done it. Truthfully, I can't even find it interesting.
07/08/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
It's not for me.
07/08/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Not my cup of tea and I am sure if I wanted phone sex it wouldn't be hard to get for free
07/09/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Never been paid nor have paid for it.
07/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've never had phone sex paid or otherwise.
07/09/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
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Originally posted by Mamastoys
We actually hearc a neighbor on his cordless phone having phone sex several times. We jsut sat and laughed at him! It was so funny to listen to. The neighbor has since moved away so we have no free entertainment now!
LOL great neighbor!
07/09/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I have done it with boyfriends, If I thought I could make great money doing it. I would do it.
07/09/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I had signed up to this site to do it with my cam girl work. But the only time I do it now is if a member asks for it while in a paid session.
07/09/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i never have paid for phonesex nor would i ever, however i have had phonesex before
07/09/2012