Happily Married, very little sex but that's OK

Contributor: Happily Married, little sex but it's OK Happily Married, little sex but it's OK
Hello

I see so many posts about people enjoying so much sex. That's great!

I just want to add one thread, which is for those of us who are happily married to our soulmate...but there is so little sex, and that's OK too.

I'm just crazy about my wife and family.

There is so little sex, and she just doesn't have a lot of interest.

That's OK - thanks to porn and YES EDEN FANTASY TOYS (fleshlight, butplugs and lube OH MY!) I do have an outlet to get some wonderful feelings out...it's just solo. Not ideal, but that's how it worked out.

So - for those of you who are like me, who have little sex but still love and cherish their spouse - CHEERS!

You're not alone - even when you are.
12/23/2017
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Cheers to you too. Glad you have a great attitude. Have she tried taking supplements? Maybe some Maca Root powder (Red for females). Suppose to help.
Or have you (you prob did, but I will ask anyway) played with her clitoris or got her a non-threantening vibrator. The Unity or bullets sold here are good.

We have found less stress and being in good mood helps with more sex.

Does she like sexy movies ? If not maybe need find the right ones. Ones with story lines as oppose to gals betting banged silly. Or some comic/anime types.
I remember once we say one with a space gal in a sexual gladiator arena. The winner was the one that outlasted the other sex. Her opponents of course had bigger than big and multiple cocks. Of course her being the Heroine always won . Then got her freedom. That turned both of us on so much we had sex for days. Our own sex arena. And of course you know who was the victor in our bedroom
12/23/2017
Contributor: Happily Married, little sex but it's OK Happily Married, little sex but it's OK
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Cheers to you too. Glad you have a great attitude. Have she tried taking supplements? Maybe some Maca Root powder (Red for females). Suppose to help.
Or have you (you prob did, but I will ask anyway) played with her clitoris or got her a ... more
Yes - we've been together since we were teenagers - now we're in our early 40's with a family & a happy, healthy life.

I know how to touch her and make her happy. At this stage I give her a lot of massages while I watch movies or sports.

She's just not that interested and hasn't been very much since we became parents 15 years ago. She tries, and is willing to experiment.

She just isn't wired like that. But that's OK - I love her, and she loves me and I massage...err, both of us.
12/23/2017
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Well I have to admire your resilience in this situation. I too was married to a woman who had little interest in sex, though we did get along for many years. It became a problem as I got older, had a sibling pass away and it made me look at my life and what it looked like, and evaluate how much happiness I was missing in our relationship, sexually and otherwise.
So if you are happy, good for you. I personally cannot fathom a sexless marriage anymore, even if there is a one-sided option to it, at least it would t be totally sexless. Masturbation and porn is ok, but I miss the closeness that sexual intimacy brings.
12/23/2017
Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
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Originally posted by Happily Married, little sex but it's OK
Hello

I see so many posts about people enjoying so much sex. That's great!

I just want to add one thread, which is for those of us who are happily married to our soulmate...but there is so little sex, and that's OK ... more
My spouse and I have been in the little to no sex phase on and off for years. It’s just something that happens as you are raising children and work and have other commitments. I agree. Sometimes I thought, what wrong with us but we are okay. Happily we are on an upswing right now so....
12/29/2017
Contributor: adam7274 adam7274
We all fall into that category sooner or later. The wife and I normally have sex once a month. I do have toys to use when I want. Sometimes the toys are all I need as she doesn't experiment with stuff much.
02/17/2018