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Guys: What is your refractory period?

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Contributor: eri86 eri86
According to some studies, 18-year-old males have a refractory period of about 15 minutes, while those in their 70s take about 20 hours, with the average for all men being about a half-hour.
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< 10 to 15 min.
6  (30%)
15 to 20 min.
1  (5%)
20 to 25 min.
25 to 30 min.
4  (20%)
> 30 min.
5  (25%)
Other (more specific?)
4  (20%)
Total votes: 20
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05/22/2013
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Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
In my prime I could go at it again in 30-40min realistically. Sometimes I could come again that quick and sometimes not. Lots of variables there.

Right now, I can stay hard after I cum and keep going if need be if I am having intercourse...but for me to cum again, I'd need a few hrs downtime I think...maybe an hour if I was watching porn and having a lot of stimulation.
05/22/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Trysexual
In my prime I could go at it again in 30-40min realistically. Sometimes I could come again that quick and sometimes not. Lots of variables there.

Right now, I can stay hard after I cum and keep going if need be if I am having ... more
The same with me - except I'm another 15 years older than Trysexual and it essentially takes me 24 hours to be ready again!
05/22/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
Speaking for my husband, he usually needs a few hours, there was only once that he was able to cum a second time within about 30 minutes.
05/22/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
I can keep going and orgasm again. No real down time for me.
05/22/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
Depends.

On the topic. For casual, we call it flower-sex, I need definitely longer than for kinky plays.

I think for normal sex a few hours and for kinky plays 5 minutes.
05/23/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
For actual sex, it can take a couple hours, but for him to cum again through oral sex, we can go at it instantly.
05/23/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Mine is about an hour. But I go multiple times during sex.
05/23/2013
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by dancingduo
Mine is about an hour. But I go multiple times during sex.
For another erection it can only be a few minutes, to cum again, it may be hours or even the next morning, of course I am over 60.
06/25/2013
Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
The few times I have actually kept track it was around 25-30 minutes. - C
07/12/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
His is anywhere between 15 to 30 mins.
08/01/2013
Contributor: matry matry
My partner's (he's 23) is usually under 15 minutes. Depending on what we were doing and how exhausted he is though it can be longer. It's funny because sometimes we get into this loop... If he comes before me when we're having sex we'll switch to doing something else so I can have my turn too. Then in the time it took for me to get there he'll get turned on again and want to go another round and then it's like we just keep taking turns coming until we're both to tired to anymore lol.
08/09/2013
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
At 24, my partner can re-harden instantly and be ready to go within a few minutes. Of course he says it's too sensitive to go right away, but within 5 minutes it's ready to use and can cum again in 10-15. A third time may be 20-25 minutes late.
08/10/2013