Fun in the Shower

Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
My girlfriend and I have had our fun in the shower before, but never have we actually had vaginal sex in the shower. We both are very committed to using condoms during sex and have been worried about the effectiveness while in the shower. What are your thoughts?
12/23/2010
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Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We've forbidden ourselves to have shower sex after a nasty mishap in college. He had me propped up against the shower wall and we were going at it pretty vigorously when he lost his footing and we went careening out of the shower and bounced of the cabinets. We torn the shower curtain off and landed hard on the floor. We both had some mighty big bruises from that little episode.
12/23/2010
Contributor: Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
I am an occasional fan of shower sex. For me, the trick is to keep the water from spraying where you're penetrating - it washes away the natural lubricants and interferes - and if you keep the water away, like keep it on your back for instance, I wouldn't think you'd have a condom-problem.
12/24/2010
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Make sure you also have plenty of footings/holdings. There are suction-based hand holds or footrests available here or at bed/bath stores. Use them, and you'l have lots of fun. Otherwise, you'll end up in a situation like Oxygen's...or worse. Try explaining that one at the ER!
12/24/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
As far as I know, water wouldn't effect a condom's effectiveness except for the idea of possibly drying up the vagina. In that case, you could use silicone lubricant to make sure everything stays lubricated, but it really shouldn't bother a condom.

As for the two of us, we've never tried shower sex before. Just don't think it would be much fun for us.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
We've forbidden ourselves to have shower sex after a nasty mishap in college. He had me propped up against the shower wall and we were going at it pretty vigorously when he lost his footing and we went careening out of the shower and bounced of ... more
Sounds painful :-(
I have had sex in the shower, but it was a fluid bonded partner so I wasn't using a condom. I would assume that the water would make the vagina dry and extra friction is never good for a condom. Like Mistress Kay said, adding silicone lubricant can help with that.
12/27/2010
Contributor: Technine Technine
hah. at the college i go to now, they specifically said on the first day that there's a $70 or $80 fine for having sex in the shower (and getting caught). just don't let the stream of water directly hit lubed up areas by positioning yourselves correctly
12/28/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
We've forbidden ourselves to have shower sex after a nasty mishap in college. He had me propped up against the shower wall and we were going at it pretty vigorously when he lost his footing and we went careening out of the shower and bounced of ... more
OUCHIE!!!!!!!

Need one of those rubber mats that suction into the bath or shower.
Not sure if I'd totally rely on those suction foot and hand rests. But then I'd don't trust easily...hehehe.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Hockeytown9 Hockeytown9
Can be fun, but not very comfortable unless you have a huge shower. I prefer to wet the appatite (ha ha) in the shower, then move the fun elsewhere.
12/30/2010
Contributor: Hockeytown9 Hockeytown9
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Originally posted by Kayla
As far as I know, water wouldn't effect a condom's effectiveness except for the idea of possibly drying up the vagina. In that case, you could use silicone lubricant to make sure everything stays lubricated, but it really shouldn't bother ... more
Give it a shot once, you might like it.
12/31/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
My wife and I do it maybe once a month while she is on her period. However, this last time, we continued with a normal shower afterwords, and she did not pee when she got out. I think because of this, she got a urinary tract infection. No fun with that.
01/01/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
We dont have a lot of space in our shower for vaginal sex but we do have some shower fun pretty often. I don't think that it would make the condom less effective.
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Contributor: catalunalilith catalunalilith
be careful. lots of slipperiness going around in there, so fun on passionate sex can lead to falls and injuries. but a couple precautions (like textured pads on the floor and wall) go a long way to help. and rinsing all the soap before getting into it
07/14/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Shower sex is fun, just be careful.
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