I always joke and say I would spite-fuck someone with politics opposite to my own (if only to consensually dom them, lez be real here), but I don't know if I could actually go through with it. What about the rest of you?
Have you ever fucked someone with opposing political views?
09/05/2012
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Unfortunetly yes n it was the worst sex i have ever had
09/05/2012
This just wouldn't be a gate for me.
09/05/2012
I might. Not sure
09/05/2012
Yes, once. I found out after the fact though.
Thinking back, I think we broke up not too long after that...she cheated on me.
Thinking back, I think we broke up not too long after that...she cheated on me.
09/05/2012
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I certainly have. I once had sex with them too.
Originally posted by
aluminummm
I always joke and say I would spite-fuck someone with politics opposite to my own (if only to consensually dom them, lez be real here), but I don't know if I could actually go through with it. What about the rest of you?
09/05/2012
Nope
09/05/2012
Yes I have, and it wasn't awful or awesome because of that. The sex had nothing to do with their, or my, views.
09/05/2012
The politics is discussed long before it gets to being in bed, so it's never happened. Usually those with opposing politics to mine are a turn-off because (this being the South) they tend to be sex-negative and female-shaming - so I'm never attracted to them to begin with.
09/06/2012
Yes, I have, but the sex had nothing to do with our views. We liked each other and got along well, even though we disagreed on stuff. A real relationship wouldn't have worked out because we had different views, but we knew that and were okay with it. We're still friends.
I have friends and family all over the political spectrum. As long as they are thoughtful, nuanced and not extreme, I don't really care. People are people, and more than the sum of their beliefs. Besides, sometimes when you befriend those people, you can influence them and help change their minds.
I have friends and family all over the political spectrum. As long as they are thoughtful, nuanced and not extreme, I don't really care. People are people, and more than the sum of their beliefs. Besides, sometimes when you befriend those people, you can influence them and help change their minds.
09/08/2012
No, I don't think that would work very well for me.
09/09/2012
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What? I don't think I know for sure how to answer that. I don't see how having sex with someone with different views would be dominating them, even only in your mind. Wouldn't it more like be giving IN to them? Hmmm.. I don't know, but no, I've never had sex with someone who's had extremely different views from my own. But then again, I've only had one partner in my adulthood. My lovie and I have been together since I was 15, so I guess that doesn't give me much room to have ever come into contact with an opportunity such as this to either take or turn down. I don't know if it'd matter to me. I mean if they had extremely different views from me, like they felt opposite of the way I do on matters I feel so strongly and passionately about, I doubt I'd ever have much to do with them in the first place.
Originally posted by
aluminummm
I always joke and say I would spite-fuck someone with politics opposite to my own (if only to consensually dom them, lez be real here), but I don't know if I could actually go through with it. What about the rest of you?
Just having some minor disagreements or minor different opinions isn't a big deal though.
09/09/2012
no I haven't and I would never! It would really drive me nuts since I like politics.
09/09/2012
Yea, I don't think it's that hard to separate the too. Though I have had argument about birth control in the case of "what if" that almost got a little too heated.
09/09/2012
Yes, I have.
09/09/2012
No and I don't plan to. My husband and I agree when it comes to politics, and he was my first and as long as all goes well, he will be my only.
09/10/2012
I'm sure I must have. Most people don't have the same opinions as me, and I tend to refrain from debating politics, just like my mama taught me. I don't think knowing would have made a difference though. Unless the person was like "I believe in slavery" or something, I really wouldn't let their political views effect our bedroom happenings.
09/13/2012
I voted other because I have but the sex had nothing to do with their political views or vice versa, lol. The relationship didn't work out for other reasons.
09/14/2012
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