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For the Men: How Often Do You Ejaculate?

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Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Someone once told me: "If you touch it, it will fall off." So, out of mere curiosity and some concern, I was wondering how often other guys ejaculate. Since puberty I have wondered how often is too often, how much is normal etc.

Also, leave a comment and mention what ratio is a result of masturbation and, in contrast, intercourse. Sooner or later, I'll get to the bottom of this.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Once a Week or Less
2-6 Times a Week
Sir , Fun Lover , flirt , LiftedUp , Jimbo Jones , tim1724 , sry , Jamin Together , Angel deSanguine , 2BudZ , Ciao. , Lady Venus , OhMy! , Avant-garde , mrs.mckrakn , Onanist , ToyTimeTim , friendlycouplex , CPTInsanity , angel142stx , slynch , lovemuscle n cookie , newfoundlust , MaryExy , wmann , Lily Night , Cedarlooman , Lummox , jeangel246 , pj1983 , travhawk , The Curious Couple , Ricky350 , MrWishyWashy
34  (69%)
Every Day
Yoda , Two Loves , Wrecked-Czech , B8trDude , P'Gell , Throwingawaysoon , The Nakanas , Riccio , Mandee , gehuwd , ToyBoy , Illumin8
12  (24%)
Multiple Times a Day
Avery Dragon , Sex'и'Violence , fromazoo
3  (6%)
Ejaculate? Gross!
Total votes: 49
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09/21/2009
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Contributor: spicywife spicywife
I think normal may be somewhat relative since some guys are able to ejaculate multiple times a day while others aren't. I'm interested in this so I'll check back and see what everyone says!
09/21/2009
Contributor: Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
I think normal may be somewhat relative since some guys are able to ejaculate multiple times a day while others aren't. I'm interested in this so I'll check back and see what everyone says!
I'm able to, but it really depends on what's going on. That's why I said 2-6 times a week.
09/21/2009
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Myself, I'm in the daily category. If I go more than that, my sperm count is noticeably lower (and that ain't good if you hope for little ones). Also, things feels a little stiff when overworked.

On the other hand, I've read studies that suggest that sperm quality improves if the supply is repeatedly renewed through regular sex, but necessarily frequent sex. Thoughts?
09/21/2009
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Sorry, I meant to say " but not necessarily frequent sex."
09/21/2009
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
2 to 6 times per week some solo and the other with a partner keeps my prostrate in check and healthy. AS you age that is important.
09/22/2009
Contributor: Avery Dragon Avery Dragon
Typically I do it multiple times a day. If I wake with morning wood, sometimes mid day, usually before going to bed. I've had some days of boredom where I've done it 7+ times. By that time I hurt >.< lol. I've also had points in time where I hold of for a week or more for various reasons: not really feeling like it, being too busy to, preparation for when partner comes to visit.

When I was still in middle school I had to do a science project and use articles to support. In a Discover magazine there was an article about regular masturbation being good. I felt dirty reading that article but I kept it to heart, that it would help my prostate.

I have a fairly high zinc diet for various reasons: supplements, foods, etc., so my body constantly keeps a fairly high concentration of cum. If I do it too many times without a little rest than it tends to lessen, but I've noticed if I edge before for at least 30 minutes to usually an hour or so than it's built up sufficiently and is a lot more satisfying.
09/22/2009
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
Probably around 5-6 times in an average week. There are certainly occasions where it's more like 3-4 times in a day, but that's not typical for me.
09/22/2009
Contributor: Bill Ditchburn Bill Ditchburn
(Leatherbeaten)
This
research suggests that good honest masturbation, and lots of it, may help prevent prostate cancer in later life. So I would say, keep it up chaps - I know it's hard but it's good for you! I try to clear out my prostate as often as possible. Getting old now, but I still like to keep my hand in.
10/05/2009
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
me- 'hey! how often do you ejaculate a week, on average?'
husband- 'uhm... what? why? you must be on Edens.'
me- 'yeah!'
husband 'oh.. ok.. what are the options?'

This is yelled from office to living room as I laugh and go thank god we don't have kids...
10/05/2009
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
I've got to get off at least once a day - sometimes more on weekends or when I'm extra horny Of course, keeping the prostate healthy is of prime concern - LOL!
08/05/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I'll answer for My Man as he has no interest in "Social Networking." *sigh*

We have sex on the average once or twice a day, sometimes, if he's really tired at night, he only wants to get me off, but he ejaculates about half the time at night now (he's older, too) and virtually every day in the morning. Missed this morning, as I had a tummy ache, (period early UG) but I am pretty sure we'll make up for it tonight.

Wish me luck.

I have found that the more often he ejaculates, the LESS ejaculate material there is. A few months ago, he had a "dry orgasm." I was givng him a BJ (after a very long session of sex, and the 6th time in about 36 hours) and he was getting a little soft and
I finally said, "What do you want?"
He was puzzled, "What do you mean?"
I said, "What do you need me to do so you can come?"
"What? I already did."
"You DID? Nothing came out."
"Yeah it did" he insisted.
"Um, it was in my mouth, NOTHING came out." (He is often VERY quiet during his orgasms, and often doesn't have noticeable muscular contractions.)
"Maybe you ate it and didn't realize it."
"NO, I don't 'eat it' and not notice. You had a dry ejaculation."
Him: "What is that? Am I gonna explode?"
Me: "*tsk*" (My answer when he says something silly.)

I explained that he would probably pass the semen in the next urine. He remembered we'd been very busy in the last day and a half and though he most likely "ran out" of semen. Either could have been true.

I've also noticed as he gets older the amount of semen is reduced a LOT! I'd say by about 50% to up to 75% less than when he was younger. Less mess, I guess.

Men who ejaculate more tend to have less problems with their prostate and other health problems, and I'm more than happy to help keep him healthy!
08/05/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I'll answer for My Man as he has no interest in "Social Networking." *sigh*

We have sex on the average once or twice a day, sometimes, if he's really tired at night, he only wants to get me off, but he ejaculates about half ... more
P'Gell - it almost sounds like your guy just doesn't get enough chance to recharge (nice problem to have though)! Yeah, ejaculation is supposed to be great to keep the prostate healthy.
08/09/2010
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Couple times a week solo, no partner.
09/21/2010
Contributor: Throwingawaysoon Throwingawaysoon
For me, it all depends on if I'm with my wife or not. If I'm not, then its usually once a day, solo and at night. If I'm with her, then it's multiple times a day. Once when we wake up, once when we get back home after errands and relaxing, and then at night. Sometimes it's more, sometimes less, but its always at least once a day.
09/21/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i give him constant hand/blow jobs
10/11/2010
Contributor: The Nakanas The Nakanas
I'm also in the daily category, about 70% with my wife and 30% with my hand or one of the many fine toys from here. I get all moody and tense if I don't orgasm at least every other day, and as I'm currently unemployed and looking for a job, I've got a little bit too much free time on my hands as well.
10/11/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I try for 4-5 a week, three are always solo. With the wife it can be as much as 6 a week, or it could be 0. Just depends on so many things lining up right.
10/11/2010
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I masturbate daily, and always finish with an ejaculatory orgasm so once a day.
10/11/2010
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
2-3 times a day from masturbation + during intercourse.
I'd say it's about 85% from masturbation.
05/30/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
2-3 times a week of intercourse, 1-2 a week of masturbation
06/30/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
When I was younger it was multiple times a day, now I am busier and not as bored as much. Now it is 2-6 times a week, close to once a day. About 50/50 solo/partner/
06/30/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Definitely 2-6 times a week. Probably 3-4 if I'm busy, every day if I'm not.
09/08/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
It's usually about once a day for me.
09/09/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Usually between 4 - 6 a week...
10/19/2011