FOR THE MEN: Are blow jobs better than sex?

Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
My husband swears up and down that an orgasm from a great blow job is better than an orgasm from great sex. He can't seem to explain why. He just says that it seems to be much more intense. So, what I'm wondering is if other guys feel the same way, or if this is unusual.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Orgasm from a blow job is better than an orgasm from sex.
ToyTimeTim , rdytogo , leatherlover , Hallmar82 , Xavier7 , pj1983 , B8trDude , spiced , meitman
9  (18%)
Orgasm from sex is better than an orgasm from a blow job.
Porfiriato , Yoda , Rckt56 , Kindred , Throwingawaysoon , Jimbo Jones , hive83 , Lummox , markeagleone , RonLee , Rainbow Boy , angel142stx , zracer , newfoundlust , jeangel246 , toysforall , MileHighPilot , K101 , Bubba29 , Martiniman , Babylove09 , joelb42 , wicked weasel
23  (46%)
I don't notice a difference.
Orgasm from another type of stimulation is better - please explain
It depends on the circumstance - please elaborate
lukendaft , MasterBlaster , Penguin , Alan & Michele , OhMy! , jakjak , Lurr , Gunsmoke , DexterStratton , bobowaxer , cobiffle , Sex'и'Violence , lovemuscle n cookie , Airen Wolf , big b , slynch , Incendiaire , Trysexual
18  (36%)
Total votes: 50
Poll is closed
12/10/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Informative topic breakdown of Blowjob toys:

More then one person blow job
ladies have u ever given a guy a blow job with another women. Like your both doing it at the same time? guys have u ever had a blow job from more...

does your jaw get sore giving a blowjob?
but only when you sit back and give it, to receive while doing so? but when you kneel, your jaw doesnt hurt much? ive had this. kinda odd but i think.

Flavored Condom Blowjob?
I never tried doing a blow job with a flavored condom. Have you?

use of a blow up doll
Any other guys use a blow up doll i just bought one i am not sure if it works or not its sort of imbarrassing

Ladies only, do you like blowjob porn?
I'm curious about the ladies thoughts on blowjob porn. Seems like a such a male-oriented porn genre and I'm curious if it's common for ladies to enjoy
12/10/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I have only had a few orgasms from oral, they were the best, most intense by far. But I believe that was due to the excitement of the moment, just like the first time I had sex or got a hand job.
12/10/2010
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Very good question. I'm curious about this too.
12/10/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
For me, penile orgasms are pretty much the same. The sensations leading up to it are different between OS and vaginal, and if I were forced to pick one to have it would be vaginal. More consistent stimulation, no risk of teeth, etc.
12/10/2010
Contributor: lukendaft lukendaft
Blow jobs are better when I don't want much hassle or need to be discreet. However I usually prefer sex since I get to participate more (maybe the exercise releases extra endorphins?) and I feel closer to my girlfriend.
12/11/2010
Contributor: MasterBlaster MasterBlaster
My B/f loves oral. Then again he loves to do everything else to.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by MasterBlaster
My B/f loves oral. Then again he loves to do everything else to.
I don't think we should be voting for the men. Let this be their survey.

Interesting results though. I had no idea it could feel different.
12/11/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
Oral is definitely a more powerful orgasm for me. However, if I had to choose one over the other, I would rather have vaginal sex. It is overall a more enjoyable experience.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Penguin Penguin
Quote:
Originally posted by leatherlover
Oral is definitely a more powerful orgasm for me. However, if I had to choose one over the other, I would rather have vaginal sex. It is overall a more enjoyable experience.
I think this sums it up nicely. My strongest orgasms have been from sex, but the are some oral ones in the top ten too.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Porfiriato Porfiriato
I'm not sure the orgasm itself is better, but i certainly enjoy sex more than a blow job
12/11/2010
Contributor: mariah mariah
alot of guys i know want blow jobs then sex
12/11/2010
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
OhMy (Guy) the feelings from oral sex and vaginal sex are very different. There are times when nothing beats a hot-n-heavy sex orgasm, and other times, with the right stroking or licking, that an oral sex orgasm is what makes your eyes roll.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband swears up and down that an orgasm from a great blow job is better than an orgasm from great sex. He can't seem to explain why. He just says that it seems to be much more intense. So, what I'm wondering is if other guys feel the ... more
I just wish she'd suck my dick long enough for me to get off, haha. But she doesn't like the taste of my cum much.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Lurr Lurr
I find that the variation in orgasm strength is much more dependant on other factors like how long its been or how much sleep I've had.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I voted it depends. When we were first married and oral was very rare the experience was very intense. Now that my wife enjoys giving me oral and it's more common - it's still intense - but more on par with other avenues to orgasm. She now makes it more intense by including anal stimulation - with her fingers - or one of our glass dildos - the Silenzo works quite well!
12/11/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Interesting results...
12/11/2010
Contributor: Rckt56 Rckt56
Honestly I mean a blowjob is great and all, but I personally enjoy it so much more when both parties are having pleasure so I would definitely rather have sex. I feel so much satisfied when the girl has a fantastic orgasm with me as opposed to a blowjob, as great as it feels. Having a blowjob for warm up, and then going to sex is definitely the best orgasm!
12/12/2010
Contributor: Throwingawaysoon Throwingawaysoon
Sex. Hands down. It's better when you are trying to have a kid so you get to stay in
12/14/2010
Contributor: RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
I've always been afraid guys like my blow jobs better than actually having sex with me just because I'm pretty damn good at blow jobs (not bragging, sorry if it sounds that way). It seems they often prefer it, which sucks, because I'm not particularly fond of the taste of cum. Anywho, I was always curious of this, so thanks for making the poll. Interesting to see it's 50/50 right now.
12/14/2010
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
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Originally posted by Rckt56
Honestly I mean a blowjob is great and all, but I personally enjoy it so much more when both parties are having pleasure so I would definitely rather have sex. I feel so much satisfied when the girl has a fantastic orgasm with me as opposed to a ... more
I think this sums up my feelings on the subject pretty well. BJ is great, but the satisfaction of mutual pleasure makes intercourse more satisfying.
12/14/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
I think this sums up my feelings on the subject pretty well. BJ is great, but the satisfaction of mutual pleasure makes intercourse more satisfying.
Yep, another great point in favor of sex. But 69 does work as well...
12/14/2010
Contributor: hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband swears up and down that an orgasm from a great blow job is better than an orgasm from great sex. He can't seem to explain why. He just says that it seems to be much more intense. So, what I'm wondering is if other guys feel the ... more
Oral is a great prelude but there is no substitute for the real thing.
12/14/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by hive83
Oral is a great prelude but there is no substitute for the real thing.
It's not like one is an imitation orgasm. You're making it sound like blow jobs are I Can't Believe It's not Butter of orgasms. And not just blow jobs, but cunnilingus as well. And I would most certainly consider the orgasms I get when my hubby goes down on me VERY real.
12/15/2010
Contributor: earthpig earthpig
No choice for "never orgasmed during oral" so I can't vote
01/25/2011
Contributor: DexterStratton DexterStratton
Depends on circumstances; so might also have voted "don't notice the difference". Really depends on circumstances, mood, setting, skill level, and so many other factors. Even with the same partner, some oral orgasms are better than most vaginal ones, but also some vaginal orgasms are better than most oral.
01/26/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband swears up and down that an orgasm from a great blow job is better than an orgasm from great sex. He can't seem to explain why. He just says that it seems to be much more intense. So, what I'm wondering is if other guys feel the ... more
oral seems to get things going, but better to finish off making love(fully)
01/26/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
I've never had an orgasm during a blow job so I don't really know. But I do find vaginal sex to be more pleasurable than oral sex.
02/02/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
One thing that oral usually has in favor is the utter laziness of it all. You can relax and enjoy, whereas with other types of sex you're often thinking about how she's feeling. Not that that's a bad thing, it's wonderful to have that closeness and shared pleasure most of the time. Sometimes just relaxing and loosing yourself in the sensations is nice as well.
02/02/2011
Contributor: phozersexy phozersexy
Oral..haven't had an orgasm from a blow job in many years(wife not into blow jobs like I wish) but the feeling is incredible...I wouldn't replace sex but since I hardly ever get blow jobs I would definitely say the orgasm feels better
02/02/2011