For men only- do you care if your female partner has had an orgasm?
For men only- do you care if your female partner has had an orgasm? Private voting.
Cat E.
10/23/2012
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I think you've got a 95/5 ratio of females to males on the site, it's probably not a good idea to restrict your posts to just men.
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of the night trying to help me achieve one and I think most of the men here would do the same for their partners.
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of the night trying to help me achieve one and I think most of the men here would do the same for their partners.
10/23/2012
Yes, it is VERY important to me. I am not in it just to please myself! The few times when she does not come first I feel terrible and do what ever it takes to make it right.
10/23/2012
super important. id feel like a failure if she didnt finish
10/23/2012
My husband tries as hard as he can. Some days I have to tell him it isn't going to happen. It's important to him that I enjoy myself.
10/23/2012
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This. She doesn't care so much, but I like to please her.
Originally posted by
ToyTimeTim
Yes, it is VERY important to me. I am not in it just to please myself! The few times when she does not come first I feel terrible and do what ever it takes to make it right.
10/23/2012
My boyfriend cares quite a bit. Sometimes when it just won't happen, he's the first to grab a toy to make the job easier on us both.
I don't mind if I don't have an orgasm every time though. It's not the most important aspect of our sex life.
I don't mind if I don't have an orgasm every time though. It's not the most important aspect of our sex life.
10/23/2012
My BF Cares.
10/23/2012
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is it really 95/5? I feel like there's more guys here than that... or maybe I'm wrong!
Originally posted by
Ansley
I think you've got a 95/5 ratio of females to males on the site, it's probably not a good idea to restrict your posts to just men.
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of ... more
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of ... more
I think you've got a 95/5 ratio of females to males on the site, it's probably not a good idea to restrict your posts to just men.
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of the night trying to help me achieve one and I think most of the men here would do the same for their partners. less
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of the night trying to help me achieve one and I think most of the men here would do the same for their partners. less
10/23/2012
Yes, I like to please.
10/23/2012
He cares, but neither one of us know what to do in order to make it happen.
10/23/2012
Cat E.
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Actually, they can't answer for their men. The point of my poll being anonymous was so that men can be honest. Only they know if they're truly interested in whether or not their lady orgasms. Women answering for their men defeats the purpose of the poll.
Originally posted by
Ansley
I think you've got a 95/5 ratio of females to males on the site, it's probably not a good idea to restrict your posts to just men.
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of ... more
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of ... more
I think you've got a 95/5 ratio of females to males on the site, it's probably not a good idea to restrict your posts to just men.
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of the night trying to help me achieve one and I think most of the men here would do the same for their partners. less
Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of the night trying to help me achieve one and I think most of the men here would do the same for their partners. less
10/24/2012
My current partner tells me he aims to please
If I haven't had an orgasm he keeps at it til I get mine before he ever thinks of getting his. I like for us both to have orgasms and I have made that clear. One night he got me off several times and he hadn't got off yet but he needed to get to bed had to be up in 3 hours to unload his trailer for work. I told him NO he had to have an orgasm as well, he told me I was wet happy and shaking an that was all that mattered to him.
If I haven't had an orgasm he keeps at it til I get mine before he ever thinks of getting his. I like for us both to have orgasms and I have made that clear. One night he got me off several times and he hadn't got off yet but he needed to get to bed had to be up in 3 hours to unload his trailer for work. I told him NO he had to have an orgasm as well, he told me I was wet happy and shaking an that was all that mattered to him.
10/24/2012
I aim to please. I always try to make sure that my partner has an orgasm before I do.
I'd Telly love to learn to get her to squirt!!
I'd Telly love to learn to get her to squirt!!
10/24/2012
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Mine cares a lot about that
Originally posted by
Cat E.
For men only- do you care if your female partner has had an orgasm?
10/27/2012
I'm shocked that someone voted "No"
10/27/2012
Absolutely - my partner's orgasm is my primary motivation - after she's had 2-4 orgasms, then it's my turn.
10/28/2012
yes I do care I make sure the wife has 2 to 3 orgasms then I have my orgasm
10/28/2012
Yes
10/29/2012
It really excites me to give my girlfriend orgasms. So yes, I care.
10/29/2012
most nights I care more that she cums than I do
11/01/2012
It makes me feel good when she does and I find it easier for me to knowing that she has
11/01/2012
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I always feel better when she does...and she feels better as well.
Originally posted by
Cat E.
For men only- do you care if your female partner has had an orgasm?
11/01/2012
I care very much. It is part of what I enjoy about sex. I would feel terrible if I couldn't please her as much as she pleases me. Luckily this has never been an issue.
12/13/2012
My wife's pleasure is a high priority of mine and I'm always interested in her having an orgasm and fun.
12/13/2012
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Yea thats just like me and my bf
Originally posted by
Beck
My husband tries as hard as he can. Some days I have to tell him it isn't going to happen. It's important to him that I enjoy myself.
12/13/2012
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Unique posters: 25