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First orgasm - what was it like?

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Contributor: Dominica Dominica
I'm sure, the first sexual experience is an important and never-to-be-forgotten thing for everybody despite whether it was incredible or awful. But what about the very 1st orgasm? I believe, it is a very memorable and special experience either, especially for women since women usually don't reach orgasms easily.

No matter you're man or woman, please, share your impressions and feelings about your first time having orgasm! How it was and how did you get there!
03/20/2020
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Contributor: iovys iovys
I had my first one (despite masturbating for like 12-13 years) in December 2018!

Because... well, I had a very religious upbringing, and anything sexual was (and still is) seen in an overall negative light. Heck, my mom (since finding out I have sex toys) still tries to lecture me on a regular basis. I'm in my mid-20's! Basically I figured I had secondary anorgasmia.

Anyway. Regarding first orgasm. T'was in the shower. I was using some rabbit from Paloqueth (@Amazon), and everything was going as per usual - just pleasant, but nothing crazy. And then I noticed I was holding my breath. So I forced myself to breathe. I had been having many conversations with my close friends about body/sex positivity, and I recalled one of them telling me it's okay to feel new things.

The feeling intensified, and I let it. I ended up going into some kinda silent mantra, tbh, telling myself it was okay to do this, that it's not against God's will or anything, that everyone does it, and then suddenly I was there. I remember this wonderful feeling rush from my abdomen to my legs, to my fingertips, literally encompassing every bit of my body. It passed through me in kinda, like, waves, and lasted for maybe 15 seconds or so.

And then I was high off of the rush of dopamine/serotonin for the next hour or so. It was fantastic; I finally understood wtf everyone was going on about - I finally realized that not all women fake it (as I had previously thought), and that the rumored afterglow was real. Honestly, it felt like I finally was let into the club that was off limits to me until that point.

Since then, I've gotten a little bit better at coming. I still don't come every time. So instead of secondary anorgasmia, it's situational. I have to use many toys to bring myself to that peak, and oftentimes it's unsuccessful. But not always.

It used to be very frustrating, honestly - imagine masturbating for 3-4 hours without climax. For 12-13 years, with partners and solo play. I'm no masochist.

Anyway.
I'm really happy I figured out how to get past this mindset that was engraved in my brain. Late to the party? Yes. But better late than never.
03/20/2020
Contributor: Tub Tub
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Originally posted by Dominica
I'm sure, the first sexual experience is an important and never-to-be-forgotten thing for everybody despite whether it was incredible or awful. But what about the very 1st orgasm? I believe, it is a very memorable and special experience either, ... more
Mine was... weird! And maybe not very good to be honest. But being a slightly early bloomer, but also an introvert meant I was exploring a lot, but not having particularly successful results, which was frustrating and discouraging.

I was probably 17, and finally figured out that penetration alone would never do it for me (media and lack of comprehensive education had me convinced that just sticking it in and going to town would just... work), so I learned how to experiment with vibes. But, having limited funds and not able to buy like, REAL things, I made friends with an electric toothbrush and an Xbox controller (paired with a 'massage' app from it's online store).

The first time I came, it hurt, my vision went a little dark around the edges, and my mouth tasted like ash. And afterward I was like "... What?!"

I did some poking around and figured out that that's not a totally uncommon 'first orgasm' experience. But, every one after only got better and better!
03/20/2020