Hi Lei,

I agree 100% with you.

I have thought about facials and where guys should cum in general. If I have advanced authorization, I prefer to cum inside women's pussies. I love cumming inside my fiancee's pussy. It is my preferred wad target. Other than that, I don't care where I cum as long as I cum. I've never cared whether a woman has swallowed. When giving blow jobs, women are in control of where a guy cums unless he grabs the back of her head and shoves his dick down her throat, a strategy I do not recommend. It's also wise to obtain prior authorization before cumming inside a woman's mouth. Respect for women must never be violated.

With minor variation, I'll ask a woman prior to a wad launch where she wants it.

I've never came on my fiancee's face without her asking for it. Based upon what she's told me, my inference is that her former boyfriends came on her face because she asked them to cum on her face.

I do agree with my fiancee: semen is the normal and natural product of sex. As a general rule, I'm suspect of women who have aversions to semen. My belief is that women who have aversions to normal and natural functions of sex have something more ominous going on inside of their heads.

I completely get it that men ought not cum in a woman's eyes and hair. Other than that, cum is the normal and natural function of male sexual euphoria caused by a woman's sexual appeal.

My fiancee is the most sexually liberated woman I've ever known, a facet of her personality that I adore and cherish. She has told me that since her first sexual experience she has loved cum and has been fascinated by it. She has become mesmerized by watching cum shooting from her boyfriends dicks. Se derived immense personal satisfaction knowing that her sexuality caused that phenomenon to occur. My fiancee has always loved warm cum on her body, especially on her tits. To this day, she loves to play with it and rub it into her skin. I'm not sure if she has a cum fetish or cum fantasy. I do know that she believes cum is normal and natural. However, once it dries on her skin, she'll wash it off. My fiancee has a thick, gorgeous, and erotic bush. I love it. When she was in college and guys came in huge loads all night long, her bush would become matted with cum. When her bush became matted with many wads of cum, it looked gross. She'd have to shower in order to shampoo it out of her bush. She was and is good with cum accidentally landing in her hair. She loves passionate, wet, sweaty, messy sex. But she did not appreciate a couple of her boyfriends who got off cumming in her gorgeous, thick hair. It was a bitch shampooing it out.

Either a few people suffer from psychological issues or they have never taken a course in human biology. With that established, I would respect a woman's belief that facials are degrading. I wouldn't agree with her, but I would respect her belief. less

Hi Leil,

I forgot to comment on my fiancee's blow job technique. One of her first boyfriends told her that he'd cum more quickly when she gave him blow jobs if she'd suck his balls first before sucking his dick. She was 19 at the time and sexually submissive. She did and he did. My fiancee has been sucking balls when she could/can since. Her close male friend, who's her best friend after me, is a physician. They dated and were in an intensive sexual relationship. He told her that he knew of no scientific research that indicated that her sucking a guy's balls would cause him to cum more quickly. He said it was possible because of the warmth on her mouth on a guy's scrotum. But she would have to consider the eroticism of a guy watching her suck his balls that caused him to cum more quickly.

I have many videos of my fiancee sucking my balls and licking the ejaculation glans at the head of my cock. She prefers to be tea bagged. I'll straddle her face and lower my balls into her open mouth. She'll gently suck them and massage them with her tongue while she's stroking my throbbing cock with her hand.

After a couple minutes, she'll spend a minute or so stimulating the ejaculation glans at the head of my cock with her tongue. I have video proof of my shooting a wad down her throat within 30 seconds of her taking my cock inside of her mouth. Often, she'll just want to suck my cock without taking a wad down her throat. I love her blow jobs, but I'd much rather cum inside her beautiful, perfect, tight pussy. Many,many times she has sucked my cock hard again for another round. She definitely has acquired advanced oral skills during her college years, and I'm beneficiary of her incredible skills.

She has always loved to suck cock, so her alacrity for sucking cock assuredly provokes ejaculation.

Other women have sucked my balls. It might be that my fiancee gives me the best blow jobs I've ever had because I'm thoroughly in love with her.

My fiancee and I had an intensive, immediate, palpable sexual attraction. We knew we were going to end our first date by fucking each others brains out. She is by a huge margin the best sex I've ever had. I would attribute that to our completely open and candid communication, especially about sex. I have never, ever judged her for her exciting and fulfilling sex life. By our third date, she candidly told me what she liked and didn't like during sex and why.

Cumming on her face arose about a month into our dating relationship. She had previously told me that she did enjoy mouth fucking if she trusted a guy fucking her mouth. If she thought a guy would shove his dick down her throat, she wouldn't allow him to fuck her mouth. She enjoys mouth fucking because her hands are free to masturbate her clit to orgasm. The first time I fucked her mouth, she were naked and in an intensive tongue tango. I pushed her to her knees. She knew what was coming. She opened her mouth to take my cock. I firmly held her perfect head in my hands. Suddenly she looked up an me and said, "Sanch, I want you to cum on my face." I about suffered a concussion because I had never thought I'd hear her tell me to cum on her face. I slowly began fucking her mouth until I knew how far inside of her mouth that she could comfortably take my cock. I fucked her mouth while she rubbed out an orgasm. I told her I was ready and pulled my dick from her mouth. She jacked me off all over her face. She was so unbelievably gorgeous, hot, and erotic with my full wad all over her face, that I took a photo of her cum covered face. After I took the photo (I still have it), she rubbed my cum into her face. She was in sexual ecstasy. A few minutes later, I wiped her face with a warm washcloth.

After that exciting sexual adventure, we laid in bed. I had pulled her hot, naked body as close to mine as possible. I asked her about her facial thing. That's when she told me that she had told her college boyfriends to cum on her face because she had believed cum would enhance her complexion. She knows it was a myth, but she'd take facials when she was in the mood. She continued to tell me how much she has always loved guys dumping their wads on her body, especially all over her tits. She loves warm cum on her body. Were it up to me, I'd cum inside of her tight, beautiful pussy.

Not long after, she gushed her sexual experiences to me like an uncapped fire hydrant. She knew she could trust me with her most closely guarded sexual secrets and sexual fantasies, and I wouldn't judge her. She was afraid to talk sex with her ex-husband. He demeaned, degraded, and called her gross because she asked him to cum on her tits. She has never forgiven him for that. He wasn't even a sexual rookie. She was a sexual all star. Had he quelled his prejudices and irrational beliefs, he'd of had the most euphoric sex of his life.

My fiancee has told me that I am the only person, male or female, with whom she has felt completely comfortable confiding anything she wishes knowing that I would never ever judge her. I am the only person she has told that she used to fuck an associate professor at her university. The rumor, which she later figured out was bullshit, was he gave A's in exchange for sex. According to my fiancee, he was incredibly handsome, athletic (he was a former professional baseball player), and black. My fiancee has been sexually attracted to handsome, athletic black men since she was in high school. Her associate professor was a few years past twice her age. Up until that time, he was the best sex she had ever had. He had a huge cock, which she loved. And he knew how to expose her to intensive sexual euphoria. She fucked him on-and-off for the rest of her college career. She had offered anal sex to him. He appreciated the offer, but he said his cock was too thick and long to penetrate her ass. She told me that if he didn't genuinely care about her, he'd of taken her up on her offer of anal sex. He really did care for her, and not just for the incredible sex they shared. She kept their sexual relationship, which she initiated by seducing him, strictly quiet. She did not want to place his position with her university in jeopardy, and she didn't want other students to believed that the A she legitimately earned was not in exchange for sex. After she got to know him, she said she did not believe he'd consider trading grades for sex. He was steeped in integrity. If other coeds fucked him they did so because they wanted to fuck him. My fiancee knew immediately that she was going to fuck him when she entered his office. He critiqued her project, told her she did an excellent job, and rewarded her effort with an A. She had assumed he was going to close his office door and try to fuck her. She wished he did. A week later she used a ruse to seduce him and fuck him because she felt an intense sexual attraction to him. He mentored her for the remainder of her collegiate career. He was her booty call. He was incredibly proficient with sex and knew how to coax many euphoric orgasms out of her. They remained in contact after she graduated. She invited him to her wedding. He couldn't attend because it was his most busy time of his baseball broadcast year. I knew that my fiancee was in love with me and completely trusted me after she told me about her sexual relationship with her associate professor and college mentor.

There are many reasons why my fiancee and I authentically are in love with each other. Open and honest communication about anything, especially sex, without judgment is one of the most cherished reasons.

My only regret is not meeting my fiancee 20 years ago. less