Moderate stimulation with the occasional rougher stuff is fun. Just no bruises or blood please!
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Do Your Tits Like Pain?
08/26/2010
Once I'm warmed up, I really DO like rough play. I consider my tits one of my biggest erogenous zones. Gentle to start though, or I get crabby! Once turned on though, bring it on...hard sucking, flicking, clips & clamps and biting. Yes please! Great poll, very interesting.
08/26/2010
Mine aren't very sensitive. I've heard that the smaller they are the less sensitive they are and the more sensitive the clitoris is. This seems to be true for me, at least as far as less sensitive breasts go.
Touching them just feels weird and not pleasant. I just want to swat away any hands or mouth that touches them. Plus they're wired strangely. I feel it on the roof of my mouth when they're touched.
Touching them just feels weird and not pleasant. I just want to swat away any hands or mouth that touches them. Plus they're wired strangely. I feel it on the roof of my mouth when they're touched.
09/17/2010
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I'm with ya! I can come from that alone!
Originally posted by
oohlookasquirrel
It entirely depends on my mood. If I'm not warmed up at all, anything but the lightest kiss will be much too much. Don't touch my nipples if I'm not in the mood! But when I'm really aroused, I can really enjoy biting (though I get
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It entirely depends on my mood. If I'm not warmed up at all, anything but the lightest kiss will be much too much. Don't touch my nipples if I'm not in the mood! But when I'm really aroused, I can really enjoy biting (though I get sore pretty fast and it can go from hot to a complete mood killer very quickly). I think that averages out to "moderate" but my preferences change a LOT!
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09/17/2010
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I don't think that's the case. My wife is large - and she swears girls with saller breasts are more sensitive. The only time hers are sensitive is when she's PMS - then they are too painful to touch.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
Mine aren't very sensitive. I've heard that the smaller they are the less sensitive they are and the more sensitive the clitoris is. This seems to be true for me, at least as far as less sensitive breasts go.
Touching them just feels ... more
Touching them just feels ... more
Mine aren't very sensitive. I've heard that the smaller they are the less sensitive they are and the more sensitive the clitoris is. This seems to be true for me, at least as far as less sensitive breasts go.
Touching them just feels weird and not pleasant. I just want to swat away any hands or mouth that touches them. Plus they're wired strangely. I feel it on the roof of my mouth when they're touched. less
Touching them just feels weird and not pleasant. I just want to swat away any hands or mouth that touches them. Plus they're wired strangely. I feel it on the roof of my mouth when they're touched. less
I just think it's a combination of biology and attitude.
09/17/2010
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I also don't think there is much correlation between breast or nipple size and sensitivity. I have worked with women, and their breasts, from a Lactation Platform, for many years (more than 20) and I (and the research) has found that most of the myths regarding nipple sensitivity are usually wrong.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I don't think that's the case. My wife is large - and she swears girls with saller breasts are more sensitive. The only time hers are sensitive is when she's PMS - then they are too painful to touch.
I just think it's a ... more
I just think it's a ... more
I don't think that's the case. My wife is large - and she swears girls with saller breasts are more sensitive. The only time hers are sensitive is when she's PMS - then they are too painful to touch.
I just think it's a combination of biology and attitude. less
I just think it's a combination of biology and attitude. less
There are myths that redheads and blonds and women with creamy white or alabaster skin get sore nipples more easily and women with darker skin have "tough" nipples. Neither the research, nor what I have seen over the years have proven this to be true. (I think that this evolved from the need for the Upper Classes to believe that "dark" women, who were usually in positions of social submission, were somehow "tougher" and didn't really feel pain, so they could be treated inhumanly, and that creamy white upper class women were "too sensitive" to do much of anything "strenuous." Feeding their own children, included, of course.)
I have worked with red headed, blue eyed women who get a sun burn from a 200 watt lightbulb who have little or no sensitivity in their nipples, and dark skinned African American, Latina and Middle Eastern or Mediterranean women who get sore and cracked after one or two baby feedings, and need heavy duty drugs for the pain as well as a long term strategy with good positioning and latching (again, I'm looking at this from a breastfeeding standpoint, but sensitivity is the same.) Likewise, of course, I have seen light women with sensitive nipples and dark skinned women with tougher nipples, but there is no pattern.
I think some women just have more sensitive nipples than others, for anything between individual pain tolerances to hormone issues.
Anyway, it's an interesting subject. Although men often do have sensitivity, theirs is usually much less than women. There is simply no evolutionary need for men to have sensitive nipples, since they will never need nerve messages sent to the brain to trigger milk ejection, Lactogenisis (the 3rd stage of which is dependent on nipple stimulation) and milk production. That doesn't meant that women who have "tough" nipples will have trouble with milk production, but the reason women have more sensitive nipples appears to be related to lactation.
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09/18/2010
Another guy here and I definitively like nipple pain, a lot. The only reason I didn't pick the draw blood option is because I haven't actually done anything resulting in blood. I can have non-ejaculatory orgasm just from tugging on my clover clamps and the pain majorly enhances orgasms reached via other means.
09/18/2010
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Probably I believed it because it was true for 100% of my own survey sample (me). I may also be less sensitive because for the longest time (actually, until just a few years ago) I never wore a bra. That's supposed to toughen your nipples. At least in my childbirth class, they suggested going braless for periods of time to increase toughness.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I also don't think there is much correlation between breast or nipple size and sensitivity. I have worked with women, and their breasts, from a Lactation Platform, for many years (more than 20) and I (and the research) has found that most of the
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I also don't think there is much correlation between breast or nipple size and sensitivity. I have worked with women, and their breasts, from a Lactation Platform, for many years (more than 20) and I (and the research) has found that most of the myths regarding nipple sensitivity are usually wrong.
There are myths that redheads and blonds and women with creamy white or alabaster skin get sore nipples more easily and women with darker skin have "tough" nipples. Neither the research, nor what I have seen over the years have proven this to be true. (I think that this evolved from the need for the Upper Classes to believe that "dark" women, who were usually in positions of social submission, were somehow "tougher" and didn't really feel pain, so they could be treated inhumanly, and that creamy white upper class women were "too sensitive" to do much of anything "strenuous." Feeding their own children, included, of course.)
I have worked with red headed, blue eyed women who get a sun burn from a 200 watt lightbulb who have little or no sensitivity in their nipples, and dark skinned African American, Latina and Middle Eastern or Mediterranean women who get sore and cracked after one or two baby feedings, and need heavy duty drugs for the pain as well as a long term strategy with good positioning and latching (again, I'm looking at this from a breastfeeding standpoint, but sensitivity is the same.) Likewise, of course, I have seen light women with sensitive nipples and dark skinned women with tougher nipples, but there is no pattern.
I think some women just have more sensitive nipples than others, for anything between individual pain tolerances to hormone issues.
Anyway, it's an interesting subject. Although men often do have sensitivity, theirs is usually much less than women. There is simply no evolutionary need for men to have sensitive nipples, since they will never need nerve messages sent to the brain to trigger milk ejection, Lactogenisis (the 3rd stage of which is dependent on nipple stimulation) and milk production. That doesn't meant that women who have "tough" nipples will have trouble with milk production, but the reason women have more sensitive nipples appears to be related to lactation.
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There are myths that redheads and blonds and women with creamy white or alabaster skin get sore nipples more easily and women with darker skin have "tough" nipples. Neither the research, nor what I have seen over the years have proven this to be true. (I think that this evolved from the need for the Upper Classes to believe that "dark" women, who were usually in positions of social submission, were somehow "tougher" and didn't really feel pain, so they could be treated inhumanly, and that creamy white upper class women were "too sensitive" to do much of anything "strenuous." Feeding their own children, included, of course.)
I have worked with red headed, blue eyed women who get a sun burn from a 200 watt lightbulb who have little or no sensitivity in their nipples, and dark skinned African American, Latina and Middle Eastern or Mediterranean women who get sore and cracked after one or two baby feedings, and need heavy duty drugs for the pain as well as a long term strategy with good positioning and latching (again, I'm looking at this from a breastfeeding standpoint, but sensitivity is the same.) Likewise, of course, I have seen light women with sensitive nipples and dark skinned women with tougher nipples, but there is no pattern.
I think some women just have more sensitive nipples than others, for anything between individual pain tolerances to hormone issues.
Anyway, it's an interesting subject. Although men often do have sensitivity, theirs is usually much less than women. There is simply no evolutionary need for men to have sensitive nipples, since they will never need nerve messages sent to the brain to trigger milk ejection, Lactogenisis (the 3rd stage of which is dependent on nipple stimulation) and milk production. That doesn't meant that women who have "tough" nipples will have trouble with milk production, but the reason women have more sensitive nipples appears to be related to lactation.
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09/18/2010
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Tuesday, my guess is you just are not that sensitive. For reasons based on evidence based research, the "toughening through rubbing with fabric" theory, which was preached for decades, has been discounted.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
Probably I believed it because it was true for 100% of my own survey sample (me). I may also be less sensitive because for the longest time (actually, until just a few years ago) I never wore a bra. That's supposed to toughen your nipples. At
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Probably I believed it because it was true for 100% of my own survey sample (me). I may also be less sensitive because for the longest time (actually, until just a few years ago) I never wore a bra. That's supposed to toughen your nipples. At least in my childbirth class, they suggested going braless for periods of time to increase toughness.
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Most nipple soreness during breastfeeding is from poor latching and positioning and as the skin on the nipples and areolea regenerates and turns over very quickly, it is basically impossible to create "tough" tissue on the nipple.
I know, I was originally taught this, too. But, newer research in the last 5 years or so has shown that any "toughening" exercises basically worthless. Only good positioning and time will cure sore nipples during breastfeeding and only good latch from the beginning will prevent it.
09/18/2010
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That's right. As "tough" as mine were, there was still some soreness in the beginning, now that I think back on that time.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
Tuesday, my guess is you just are not that sensitive. For reasons based on evidence based research, the "toughening through rubbing with fabric" theory, which was preached for decades, has been discounted.
Most nipple soreness ... more
Most nipple soreness ... more
Tuesday, my guess is you just are not that sensitive. For reasons based on evidence based research, the "toughening through rubbing with fabric" theory, which was preached for decades, has been discounted.
Most nipple soreness during breastfeeding is from poor latching and positioning and as the skin on the nipples and areolea regenerates and turns over very quickly, it is basically impossible to create "tough" tissue on the nipple.
I know, I was originally taught this, too. But, newer research in the last 5 years or so has shown that any "toughening" exercises basically worthless. Only good positioning and time will cure sore nipples during breastfeeding and only good latch from the beginning will prevent it. less
Most nipple soreness during breastfeeding is from poor latching and positioning and as the skin on the nipples and areolea regenerates and turns over very quickly, it is basically impossible to create "tough" tissue on the nipple.
I know, I was originally taught this, too. But, newer research in the last 5 years or so has shown that any "toughening" exercises basically worthless. Only good positioning and time will cure sore nipples during breastfeeding and only good latch from the beginning will prevent it. less
09/18/2010
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Of course, in the first few days, nearly every woman has some soreness. You've never used your breasts in that way before, hormonal things are going on, tissue is being regenerated at a rapid rate, and most women have some discomfort for the first 3 to 5 days. It shouldn't be intolerable, and should resolve itself. It it doesn't, then an evaluation of the baby's mouth, his latch, and the positioning used needs to be done so that breastfeeding can continue.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
That's right. As "tough" as mine were, there was still some soreness in the beginning, now that I think back on that time.
Most women usually resolve this soreness in less than a week. Also, an anhydrous lanolin, sterile, such as Lansinoh, or a triple antibiotic ointment mixed with hydro-cortisone can be used while latching and positioning is being resolved.
09/18/2010
if the sex is good, i dont care what you do with them
09/18/2010
I like a range of tit roughness, depends on my mood.
09/18/2010
My hurt most of the time so I don't want them touched.
09/20/2010
No extreme pain on the tits!
10/02/2010
I love nipple play and some pain is good. I'm not interested in bleeding, but that pain can take me right over the edge. Yay for nipple clamps!
10/04/2010
Depending on my mood I like it anywhere from super gentle to really rough. I definitely don't mind bruises.
02/18/2011
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I love rough sucking/nibbling.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I LOVE LOVE LOVE nipple play and having my breasts massaged. I can finish from it alone during foreplay. During sex I like a little nibbling and sometimes and stronger bite if the mood calls for it, but nothing that draws blood.
What about ... more
What about ... more
I LOVE LOVE LOVE nipple play and having my breasts massaged. I can finish from it alone during foreplay. During sex I like a little nibbling and sometimes and stronger bite if the mood calls for it, but nothing that draws blood.
What about you ladies?!?! less
What about you ladies?!?! less
02/19/2011
I like it rough, really rough! Maybe not bleeding but certainly bruised and welted.
02/19/2011
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Me too! We try to see if my hubs can get me off. He finds it totally hot. But yeah I LOVE it and I totally agree, nothing that draws blood. Because that would be a turn off.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I LOVE LOVE LOVE nipple play and having my breasts massaged. I can finish from it alone during foreplay. During sex I like a little nibbling and sometimes and stronger bite if the mood calls for it, but nothing that draws blood.
What about ... more
What about ... more
I LOVE LOVE LOVE nipple play and having my breasts massaged. I can finish from it alone during foreplay. During sex I like a little nibbling and sometimes and stronger bite if the mood calls for it, but nothing that draws blood.
What about you ladies?!?! less
What about you ladies?!?! less
02/19/2011
I'm a little meh about breast-play in general because I'm not that sensitive so it needs to be a bit rough (no bruises though, please. I don't like bruises on my breasts or the sides of my abs for convenience's sake.)
My boy on the other hand, is CRAZY sensitive so he needs gentle all the way.
My boy on the other hand, is CRAZY sensitive so he needs gentle all the way.
02/19/2011
Be rough with them baby!!
02/19/2011
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I love sucking and teasing. Sucking to make my nipple stick out very far then licking.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I LOVE LOVE LOVE nipple play and having my breasts massaged. I can finish from it alone during foreplay. During sex I like a little nibbling and sometimes and stronger bite if the mood calls for it, but nothing that draws blood.
What about ... more
What about ... more
I LOVE LOVE LOVE nipple play and having my breasts massaged. I can finish from it alone during foreplay. During sex I like a little nibbling and sometimes and stronger bite if the mood calls for it, but nothing that draws blood.
What about you ladies?!?! less
What about you ladies?!?! less
02/19/2011
i like them licked and sucked
04/26/2011
I personally don't get turned on by it. But I would rather a guy be pretty rough with them than expect me to just melt from very light play with them.
04/26/2011
I like some moderate nipple stimulation, but nothing too rough!
04/26/2011
I absolutely LOVE nipple play! One time, or well, twice, my husband had my nipples so aroused I started lactating and I stopped breastfeeding a year ago! LOL!
04/27/2011
Unfortunately, my breasts aren't all that sensitive, so I need a bit of a firmer hand with them to be able to feel it at all. I like the hard sucking and biting No leaving marks though!!! Fun fun fun!
04/27/2011
I have big nips and I like to grab a hold of them and lift them by the nips.
04/27/2011
I like it rough or not at all.
04/27/2011