I was at one point paid for my um...dominant skills This was before I was married to my now ex-husband, and it was never particularly sexual for me and there was little no physical contact, and absolutely no specific sexual contact in the traditional context. I was young, I was good at it, and I understood it (and still do) more as a system of control and trust, than something entirely based on sex. I was never had actually had sex with any of the people though and have never had sex for money. And while some of the people I worked with did have a definite sexual connection to what we did together, for some it was less focused on the sexual component and more on being able to surrender control to someone else.
I no longer do this and when I'm in my personal life now, I'm actually much more of a submissive...I prefer it despite the fact that being the dominant comes more naturally to me.
I no longer do this and when I'm in my personal life now, I'm actually much more of a submissive...I prefer it despite the fact that being the dominant comes more naturally to me.
