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Do you remember your first masturbation?

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Contributor: Mrs.Colombo Mrs.Colombo
I don’t mean the first instances of “touching yourself”, obviously, but the first masturbation experience when you know it felt good, and you did it consciously.

I recently stumbled upon a book that started my whole “first me-time” experience and thought it would be a fun question to ask. My friend gave me this book when we were around 14 years old. I remember well that thrill I got - first of all because I was reading something clearly not meant for me. There was a scene in the book where the heroine tries to seduce the guy, and dances around him, masturbates in front of him, but doesn’t allow him to touch her. I was completely fascinated by that fantasy, to say the least. So I read the scene like ten times in a row before I knew I had to recreate it.

It felt hella awkward at first, but then I kinda got in the zone, stroking and rubbing myself. Of course, what I felt back then wasn’t orgasm in a slightest, but it felt amazing, and I knew I wanted to do it again - soon.

That whole experience got me thinking how important is the first masturbation experience in your sex life, huh?

Does anyone remember their first solo time?
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Contributor: NinaH NinaH
I remember my first solo time pretty good. I was about 14 years old, and I was taking a shower. When I direct water streams on my clit, it was incredibly pleasant! So I proceeded to do this, then added strokes with my hand...it was amazing! That was not only the first time of my solo play but also the first time when I reached orgasm! Since then the shower is my favorite place to masturbate
08/02/2019
Contributor: mikeyH mikeyH
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Originally posted by Mrs.Colombo
I don’t mean the first instances of “touching yourself”, obviously, but the first masturbation experience when you know it felt good, and you did it consciously.

I recently stumbled upon a book that started my whole “first me-time” experience ... more
Yes, I do. I was about 14 and I discovered that it was very fun to touch myself. I was embarrassed but kept on hiding and trying. I'm a pro now
08/05/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs.Colombo
I don’t mean the first instances of “touching yourself”, obviously, but the first masturbation experience when you know it felt good, and you did it consciously.

I recently stumbled upon a book that started my whole “first me-time” experience ... more
I really can't remember my very first time. But I do remember my older sister showing me a Playgirl magazine when I was about 11 years old and it was almost traumatizing LOL!!! I have never, ever seen such large cocks in my life!!!!
09/20/2019
Contributor: Ghopper68 Ghopper68
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Originally posted by mikeyH
Yes, I do. I was about 14 and I discovered that it was very fun to touch myself. I was embarrassed but kept on hiding and trying. I'm a pro now
My wife read this post as me as well far as me I was 14 found a mag of my dads and I was on from then. My wife’s sister brought a Playgirl home from college now mind you my wife is very modest lady took me thirty yrs to get it out of her but I did. She said she would take the book go in the barn loft and masturbate, and rub her nipples to this day she lives nipple play and a finger ever once in awhile. I had to jerk off after she told me the story sexy cowgirl in the loft fingering her self so hot, we fucked up there a couple times after I got that cherry from her at 20 yrs old
01/15/2023
Contributor: MissPennyLane MissPennyLane
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Originally posted by Mrs.Colombo
I don’t mean the first instances of “touching yourself”, obviously, but the first masturbation experience when you know it felt good, and you did it consciously.

I recently stumbled upon a book that started my whole “first me-time” experience ... more
I was much older when I realized I had been doing this my entire life. When I was younger, I used the jets in pools and jacuzzi tubs. I didn't know what it was, but I knew it felt good.

It wasn't until I got MUCH MUCH older I realized what was going on. The first time I knew what it was and intentionally tried it, I was 12 or 13. I tried, it wasn't working, and then the next day, I had my first period. I thought god was punishing me. Yay for christians constantly shaming sex.
01/18/2023
Contributor: PetieT PetieT
I can't remember exactly when. But I remember that when I was a kid I found a porn channel and back then I didn't know how to jerk off properly and had to invent different ways hah
05/03/2023
Contributor: BigB BigB
I remember seeing Playboy and Penthouse at my friends house, I was probably 11ish. Somehow my 1 friend and I ended up naked together, we rubbed each other, frot, then we tried to do anal. I remember tracing myself up and down his crack, and trying to push in, I may have got the head in a few times. We would ride the edge of the couch, pillows ..sleepovers were fun!
05/05/2023
Contributor: Stewie Stewie
I think at 13 it was. Maybe 12. But I was downstairs in the basement and rubbed one out and had no clue why clear stuff came out but it felt so good. Being young the cum was clear since I didn’t have any swimmers yet. Haven’t hardly missed a day yet. Lol
06/05/2023
Contributor: HighOctane11 HighOctane11
I do for sure. I also was about 14 but was not ready for what happened at the end. Back in those days people were not so open about sexuality so I knew nothing about the orgasm. I did not no that once a person reached that point it could not be turned off. I thought I was peeing the bed so I jumped up and ran to the bathroom but of course by the time I hit the floor it had stopped. Once I figured it all out, I couldn't stop. Even to this day it is a common practice for me.
06/22/2023
Contributor: Tasha Tasha
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Originally posted by Mrs.Colombo
I don’t mean the first instances of “touching yourself”, obviously, but the first masturbation experience when you know it felt good, and you did it consciously.

I recently stumbled upon a book that started my whole “first me-time” experience ... more
I remember it clearly. I have to first start by saying that my best friend at the time was a year older than me and wasn't always the best influence, lol. I was probably 10 or 11.

She was very bold and outspoken and I was very shy in those days. She told me I had to try it because it was the best thing ever. I told her I had sort of touched down there a little bit like during showers and sometimes when I wake up in the morning. She told me next time I did it that I had to keep doing it until I got the super good feeling. She said it's the best feeling in the universe.

So I tried it one night when we were on vacation and I was in the hotel room alone while my parents went to get food. I took her advice to do it consistently. And that's also the moment I realized that I have very intense orgasms. As amazing as my first orgasm felt, it scared me. I remember even trying to hold the feeling back because it felt like I had lost control of myself for a moment. That's a scary feeling for a young girl. But the allure of how great it felt was too strong to ignore. Little by little I started to understand it better and I've been hooked ever since.
07/04/2023
Contributor: xquisit xquisit
I was about 14. I was on vacation with my parents and we were at a nearly deserted campground.Unable to masturbate for a week had me ready to burst.
I had obviously masturbated before but only by laying down on my stomach and rubbing until I came. This was not possible here.
I went to the public restroom. As I said, the place was deserted. I pulled my jeans down to my knees, I for the first time started jerking myself off. I don't know how I knew what to do or why I never had done this before. It took me far longer to cum this way but the euphoric feeling building up inside of me was amazing. I became light headed and was literally bouncing off the walls of the bathroom as I jerked myself off. I could not have stopped at this point if someone had come in. I absolutely exploded. I don't remember ever having cum shoot out like this before. I tried to recreate the intensity later but never could. It was mind blowing and I have never forgotten the feeling.
08/30/2023
Contributor: Robin Scott Robin Scott
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Originally posted by Mrs.Colombo
I don’t mean the first instances of “touching yourself”, obviously, but the first masturbation experience when you know it felt good, and you did it consciously.

I recently stumbled upon a book that started my whole “first me-time” experience ... more
My first time masturbating was when I was 11, having only barely grown my first pubic hairs. I first heard about sex from classmates in school in 7th grade. So it was easily successful - I had (a truly amazing) Orgasm with no Ejaculate. I continued (forever, ha-ha) and after some weeks there began to be some semen - (sorry I didn't taste it). Love Robin - Age 72
10/17/2023
Contributor: MagneticDuke MagneticDuke
I was 13 or so. Until I turned 18, masturbation was a dour, clinical thing I did so erections wouldn't distract me during school. After I turned 18, I started actually enjoying it, and decided to maybe try a stroker; which is how I found EF, and I'm still here almost 13 years later.
12/04/2023
Contributor: luckymcluckerton luckymcluckerton
I absolutely do. I was 12 years old and I was watching “Heaven Can Wait” and everyone had gone to bed. There was a scene this woman bent over in a skirt and showed her ass. Then she turned around and showed her tits. I started rubbing my hard on and I kept rewinding it. It really scared me too, when I came. After an hour or so, I wanted to see if I messed up my body or something, so I did it again. When it did the same thing as before, I figured it wasn’t life threatening.
12/17/2023
Contributor: Bducky8 Bducky8
I was probably about 12 or 13 and was jacking off in my bed and then it happened. I couldn't wait to try it again. The best thing I tried to use was a vacuum cleaner with the attachments off. That was the closest thing I could think of to being a blow job. It worked. I was probably about 13 years old at the time.
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