I don't like bright, glaring light in my eyes - but I do like enough light to be able to see what's going on. Being able to see and watch is a lot of fun!
Do you prefer the lights on or off?
01/05/2011
Dim lighting is preferable. I like to be able to see, but pretend that I can't be seen..less self conscious that way
01/08/2011
I have this lamp from Ikea. It doesn't give off much light, but it's red, so it's the perfect mood lighting.
01/16/2011
I love having the lights on.
01/16/2011
I like being able to see him and where i am. I dont like the dark unless im sleeping!
01/16/2011
Depends on my mood, I suppose. For something more romantic, candles or soft lighting. For something a little more kinky lights off, so I can let my other senses become more heightened... adds a little element of surprise when it is pitch black and you don't know what to expect next, especially when I am tied up.
01/17/2011
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You're not the only boring one. We're exactly the same way, lol.
Originally posted by
Kayla
I'm really boring on this issue. I really don't care much how the lights are. We just always leave the lights however they are on at the moment. So, I guess my answer is "However they are". We both think it's silly just to
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I'm really boring on this issue. I really don't care much how the lights are. We just always leave the lights however they are on at the moment. So, I guess my answer is "However they are". We both think it's silly just to interrupt how we're feeling to change the lights. I think I'd end up preferring the "gently lit" idea if we were going to think-ahead to our light plans though.
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01/18/2011
off with a few candles lit or my lamp on!
01/18/2011
usually what my partner wants i don't I prefer them low or off
01/18/2011
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My mood changes from completely bright to medium dimness.
Originally posted by
The Awesome Penguin
Some people are very adamant about having the lights completely off during sex. Others prefer a little, or even all of the lights on. What is your take?
01/26/2011
Yes, romantic lighting is definitely preferred. I also like morning light though... Any kind of light that makes people "glow" is ideal ^.^
01/26/2011
Lights off with several candles lit for the soft glow and of course the visuals.
01/26/2011
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doesn't matter to me. we've done it all 3 ways. although i prefer dim light.. it sets the mood.. or no light since it makes your other senses stronger.
Originally posted by
The Awesome Penguin
Some people are very adamant about having the lights completely off during sex. Others prefer a little, or even all of the lights on. What is your take?
01/26/2011
It doesn't really matter to me, but I do prefer some low lit lights to have that romantic setting where you can still see who is in front of you. I like watching my man look at me with desire as we hold each other. We usually have low lit lights and music going... the music is what really sets it off...
01/26/2011
The lights are always on when my girlfriend and I have sex. Sometimes we dim the lights but I definitely want to be able to see her while me make love.
02/02/2011
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Mood lighting
Originally posted by
The Awesome Penguin
Some people are very adamant about having the lights completely off during sex. Others prefer a little, or even all of the lights on. What is your take?
12/03/2011
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Agreed
Originally posted by
hornypoet69
Definitely lights on. I want to see what I'm doing, and be able to look at my partner. The whole concept of "mood lighting" is strange to me. The more light the better!
01/08/2012
Mostly lights off
01/08/2012
Soft lighting is usual.
01/08/2012
A few on 2 set the mood.
01/08/2012
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I like a few candles. But I think the flicker of a fire from a fireplace would casts a wonderful glow to set the right mood.
Originally posted by
Sensual husband
Just a few lights or candles to set the mood.
01/08/2012
I like having a light or two on, just not the bright ones over the bed, the glare is too much!!
01/08/2012
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My wife is very self conscious and prefers the light off, I like to have a few lights on
Originally posted by
The Awesome Penguin
Some people are very adamant about having the lights completely off during sex. Others prefer a little, or even all of the lights on. What is your take?
01/08/2012
I don't have much of a preference, it is fun to mix it up.
01/08/2012
All lights on! For a couple of reasons. One because we like to see everything.
01/08/2012
I love candles!!
01/08/2012
lights off
01/08/2012
I like the dark because I hate the light in my eyes, it's too bright.
01/08/2012
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It doesn't really matter to me
Originally posted by
The Awesome Penguin
Some people are very adamant about having the lights completely off during sex. Others prefer a little, or even all of the lights on. What is your take?
01/09/2012
Depends. I like a dim light setting.
03/30/2012