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Do you play with yourself?

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Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Let me be clear, I am not talking about whether you masturbate. Rather, I'm wondering whether, during the course of the day, you fondle, caress, or otherwise play with sensitive regions of your body (e.g., penis, vagina, nipples, etc.) for reasons other than to bring about an orgasm.

I've always done it, just idly and often subconsciously, and I honestly have no idea how prevalent it is.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm a man and I play with myself frequently
33  (18%)
I'm a man and I play with myself occasionally
9  (5%)
I'm a man and I play with myself rarely
5  (3%)
I'm a man and I never play with myself
1  (1%)
I'm a woman and I play with myself frequently
82  (44%)
I'm a woman and I play with myself occasionally
36  (19%)
I'm a woman and I play with myself rarely
12  (6%)
I'm a woman and I never play with myself
5  (3%)
I identify as another gender and I play with myself frequently
3  (2%)
I identify as another gender and I play with myself occasionally
I identify as another gender and I play with myself rarely
I identify as another gender and I never play with myself
Total votes: 186
Poll is closed
02/03/2011
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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
This is so funny!

I am always fondling myself, in obvious and not so obvious ways. Soemtimes in class the seam of my jeans puts pressure on my clit and its so nice to just rub my thighs together.

At home I'm always fondling myself just to touch myself without any erotic desire just plain touching bcs I feel like touching myself.
02/03/2011
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I would hazard a guess and say that at least 99.9% of people here do.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Mistress M. Mistress M.
I love to play with myself. Even if the end product isn't an orgasm, because it feels just that good!
02/03/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Yup, quite often.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
Actually nope, I don't. i am very conscious of where my hands go and what i am doing so that never happens, especially since I live at home and have a very strict family that treats the topic of sex as taboo.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I had to take my hand out of my pants to answer this.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
I'm SO glad I'm not the only one! I love to fondle my breasts and the skin right above them on my chest. It's soft and smooth and feels good to do and to receive.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Hahaha... hand check!

Ehhh? Ehhh! C'mon, let's see both of 'em!
02/03/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
I've always done this
02/03/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Good question, I had never thought about it before but I guess I sometimes do
02/04/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I had to take my hand out of my pants to answer this.
Hehehe.
Ya beat me to it!
02/04/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I had to take my hand out of my pants to answer this.
HA HA HA!
02/04/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Yes I do, just because it feels good. I need privacy such as at home or alone at work.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I had to take my hand out of my pants to answer this.
hilarious.
02/04/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
It happens
02/04/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I definitely do. I love teasing myself here or there. Sometimes I'll put on a set of clamps, etc while I do house work. I don't usually intend to get myself off, I just like the feeling of being aroused, or doing little things.
02/04/2011
Contributor: gone77 gone77
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I had to take my hand out of my pants to answer this.
Why, were you scratching your butt? Sorry, couldn't resist! :p
02/04/2011
Contributor: dhig dhig
Can't keep my hands off myself
02/04/2011
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
My wife and I both do because it feels great.
02/05/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
All the time!! I can't help it. Sometimes I probably shouldn't be either. lol
02/08/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Yes! I always grope myself without noticing.
02/08/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Yep, all the time. Can't help it. I thoroughly enjoy feeling how soft my skin is and dang it it just feels good to be touched! My husband will see me doing it and he takes it as an invitation...I'm not complaining!
02/08/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Well, this is a sex toy website..
02/08/2011
Contributor: al16 al16
It's a healthy habit I believe!
02/12/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
Why, were you scratching your butt? Sorry, couldn't resist! :p
... ... ......... I was scratching... the inside of my vagina..... ....
02/13/2011
Contributor: jankit jankit
Ha ha, what a poll! Pretty sure we all play with ourselves. And to the people who said they never play with themselves... shame on you for lying. (Unless you like to play with others, then I'm sorry.)
02/13/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
... ... ......... I was scratching... the inside of my vagina..... ....
You make it sound like you need some penicillin
02/13/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
You make it sound like you need some penicillin
lol. Maybe just some vagisil. (joking)
02/13/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I do it frequently, without even thinking about it.
02/13/2011