Do you like to masturbate alone?

Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I'm just curious how many of us like to masturbate alone or with a partner? I did it for the first time for my hubby yesterday and it was such a turn on!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, I prefer to do it by myself
60
Yes, but don't mide if someone walks in on me.
15
No, I love doing it for my partner
10
No, I love doing it with my partner!
19
Other, explain!
14
Total votes: 118 (92 voters)
Poll is closed
07/25/2010
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Contributor: Sir Sir
With a partner. I cannot get off otherwise, it's more aggravating than pleasurable to me.
07/25/2010
Contributor: buzzvibe buzzvibe
I can do either and enjoy it regardless, but I'm more efficient when I'm by myself.
07/25/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by buzzvibe
I can do either and enjoy it regardless, but I'm more efficient when I'm by myself.
Yea, I'm just going to ditto this because my comment would have been the same!!
07/25/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I like it better with my wife, but I can have a good time by my self.
07/25/2010
Contributor: clp clp
I voted other because I enjoy both, but they come from different places. Doing so alone is with my own private thoughts and fantasies, where as watching/playing with my partner is mostly motivated to get him (and then me) off. That is more about personal time together and I don't wander off into my own little world with him, like I do when I'm alone.
07/25/2010
Contributor: Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
i sometime get off in the shower to the idea of my wife walking in on me. she knows i do it, but never has really walked in on me.
07/25/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
I feel weird masturbating in front of someone. I've done it to please partners in the past but I always have felt sort of awkward while doing it.
07/25/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Pretty much by myself. I get embarrassed if anyone sees or knows.
07/25/2010
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
Pretty much by myself. I get embarrassed if anyone sees or knows.
Ditto
07/25/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
For a lengthy relaxing solo session, I love to be alone but with that said, I also enjoy masturbating with my partner just watching. I do not for the most part, enjoy my partner using toys on me as I masturbate as he keeps moving the vibe or dil, somehow he thinks I can get their faster and he too many times misses the exact mark, esp. my g spot. With me guiding his movements it can be awesome!
07/25/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I prefer to do it in front of a large crowd, in a public place. (J/K!!!!)

I usually do it alone, but sometimes My Man wants me to do it for him, and once in a while I don't come when I want to, and have just resigned myself to carrying on in the bed, when we're done, while he goes about his business if he has things to do. Honestly, he always ends up joining me, can't leave me alone!
07/25/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I like to wank alone if it's a long, leisurely wank. You know, multiple toys, lots of time and sensations.

A quickie? I don't care who is around.

And I love mutual masturbation a lot.
07/25/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
I like both. I would say I am more relaxed when I'm by myself and am more open to experimenting but it's fun to do it together as well.
07/25/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I like it both alone, or with my partner.
07/25/2010
Contributor: happeegrl03 happeegrl03
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I like to wank alone if it's a long, leisurely wank. You know, multiple toys, lots of time and sensations.

A quickie? I don't care who is around.

And I love mutual masturbation a lot.
Carrie Ann, my exact thoughts to a T. If I want to have a long session with multiple toys or bath playtime, i prefer to be alone. However, I love to masturbate for my partner, drives her out of her mind which gets me going even more.
07/25/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
We do both. She does like to masturbate with me present or peeking. I prefer together as we get each other off.
07/25/2010
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I would love if my partner wished to masturbate more in front of me/with me. She doesn't seem to have a lot of interest in doing that and prefers to play solo when she does. I generally tend to masturbate alone, but wouldn't mind if she was around for it at all...it's pleasure, we both like seeing both of us pleasured...why not go for it!
07/26/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I do it by myself every night, but on the rare occassion I'm with my lover, he makes me make myself cum, so it's enjoyable for both of us.
07/26/2010
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
My ex-bf and I used to do it and it was a huge turn on, but my hubby is not appealed to the idea at all. He is very vanilla.
07/29/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I usually prefer to get off by myself, mostly because I feel really vulnerable with anybody else watching. Although I do let my fiance watch occasionally.
07/29/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Not sure I get the question. I use to masturbate alone - but now it's always partner play. I manually stimulate her and she'll do me - not sure that qualifies as masturbation at all?
07/29/2010
Contributor: twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
I like masturbating solo, but masturbating with your partner there is another story, it's just as, if not more, fun!
08/02/2010
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
I do a fantastic job solo, but don't mind having help.
08/03/2010
Contributor: joja joja
I prefer doing it alone, but probably just because I'm used to it that way. Lately I've been getting more accustomed to doing it in front of my partner, which is also fun but feels very different - kind of like it's more than regular masturbation. The orgasms are often stronger, especially if there has been foreplay and/or sex beforehand.
08/14/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I will do either actually. When I decide to masturbate if there's a partner around who is interested in watching/participating then great if not, then great!
08/14/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyySarah
I'm just curious how many of us like to masturbate alone or with a partner? I did it for the first time for my hubby yesterday and it was such a turn on!
Yeah, it's more of a private thing. I do it alone preferably.
08/14/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Definately
10/02/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i really dont care. prefer by myself but if hubbie around, im not stopping.
10/02/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
If it's not for money, I have to be alone. It's a private moment. Having someone see me doing something like that for REAL and not for show gets me super insecure. :X
10/03/2010