Do you like to be choked?

Contributor: socceras socceras
I just recently started to enjoy it. In the beginning I didn't but now it drive me so crazy it's insane.
10/04/2011
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Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
That is one of the few things that I won't even remotely try.

1 - I have asthma and don't need a reason to instigate an attack.

2 - I was attacked when I was a teen and he choked me - it was a pretty bad experience and I can't see finding anything but fear in it.

3 - Hubby ain't into nothing like that.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Definitely not. That is something I won't do either.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Katastophy Katastophy
I love being choked.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I am usually very nervous, too nervous to allow anyone to choke me, but I let my guy choke me once in a while. For me, it's all about trust, and knowing that he knows me well enough to realize what my signals mean, and to pay attention when we use safety signals (because I can't really talk when being choked, so safety words and such can't apply)
10/04/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
It's a very common kink. It's a powerful act of trust, and the intimate brutality of it is amazing.

I don't actually like my airway to be *seriously* blocked, but my partners hands around my throat, or her foot on the back of my neck turn me into a pile of turned-on jello.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
I usually enjoy it, but lately I have had to have hubby move the palm of his hand to my collar bone, so that there is less pressure on my throat.
10/05/2011
Contributor: submissive.sweetheart submissive.sweetheart
I enjoy it, however it is something my Daddy and I are very careful of. First off I have asthma, so can't be choked too long, plus there is the risk of serious damage if you choke too hard.

For me, the choking is more a mindset. He never chokes me hard enough that I cannot breathe, rather it is the sensation of his hand around my neck that puts me in a very submissive mindset.

When we want to do more control he will put his hand around my mouth and nose, since that is much safer, Once again though, never to the point of passing out, rather He is showing me that He controls my life fully, which is something we both agreed to from the beginning.
10/05/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
I just recently started to enjoy it. In the beginning I didn't but now it drive me so crazy it's insane.
I have very few limits... this is one. If you put hands around my neck I will probably kill you or bust in your teeth if your anyone but my husband. If your my husband I will probably at best be done with sex for a week and at worst knee you right in the junk! Love you hunny Actually he already knows this is my no-go button. Now nibble and kiss my neck - hell yes! Just don't leave hicki marks!
10/05/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
I don't like.
10/05/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
No no absolutely not.
10/05/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Very few things are off limits for me but choking is an absolute No!
10/05/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It's a Hard Limit for me. I am not into it. My Man would also refuse to do it, but I've never asked anyway.

There are safe ways and not so safe ways to do breath play. The DVD Rough Sex (the first one) has a tutorial on how to do safe choking and breath play.

Safe, Sane and Consensual and you can't go wrong. Well, usually.

If it works for you and you have no after effects and you and your partner get off on it, more power to you. Please be safe, though, please.
10/05/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I love it as long as it's just a firm hand around my neck and not actually cutting off my airway. If I can't breathe I start to panic and that's not fun at all.
10/05/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
No that's one line I don't want crossed!
10/05/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
No, thank you
10/05/2011
Contributor: socceras socceras
I had NO idea this many people didn't like it. I have to admit I would've never consider it but someone tried it with me and now it absolutely drives me crazy and turns me on so quickly. I don't like my airway blocked off but a firm hand around my neck is a definite YES!
10/06/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
no, and I do not like to choke others.
10/07/2011
Contributor: submissive.sweetheart submissive.sweetheart
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
I had NO idea this many people didn't like it. I have to admit I would've never consider it but someone tried it with me and now it absolutely drives me crazy and turns me on so quickly. I don't like my airway blocked off but a firm hand ... more
Thats the same way I started, was never even something I thought of until I someone did it, but agreed, its the firm hand around the neck that drives me crazy, not about blocking airway
10/14/2011
Contributor: sweetart sweetart
At times it can be a total turn on or a total bust. Just depends on the mood.
10/24/2011
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
I just recently started to enjoy it. In the beginning I didn't but now it drive me so crazy it's insane.
I only like it sometimes, it depends on how intence the sex is.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I love it.
Choked, and slapped. Mmm
10/24/2011
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
Absolutely not
10/31/2011