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Do you experience cervical pain during sex?

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Contributor: kittycatgirl kittycatgirl
During certain positions, my partners penis hits my cervix and it hurts SO bad!! I'm curious how many women experience this.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I have never experienced this
8  (22%)
I have had it happen a few times
18  (49%)
It happens on a regular basis, but only during certain positions
5  (14%)
It happens on a regular basis, regardless of position
1  (3%)
It happens on occasion, during certain positions
5  (14%)
It happens on occasion, regardless of position
Total votes: 37
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04/11/2012
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Only when he hits it!
04/11/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I have a sensitive cervix sometimes. I think it is when I ovulate.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Calla Calla
It used to happen regularly with my ex, since he had a longer penis. It hurt a lot and prevented us from being able to do some positions. My current boyfriend is average sized and it only happens ocassionally.
04/11/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
It has happened several times in my life...
04/11/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
It has happened a few times while we're doing doggy, shifting slightly to a different angle fixes the problem.
04/11/2012
Contributor: pitona pitona
u just have to find a different position. that always works for me
04/12/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
this has happened to me before
04/12/2012
Contributor: Lulia Lulia
My partner isn't overly long, but in certain positions with really deep penetration, it isn't exactly comfortable. The only time I really feel it is when he gets a little too excited thrusting longer toys made of harder materials.
04/13/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
This happens to me in certain positions, especially when I have my legs up. It's sooo annoying and painful.
04/13/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
this is where i say "bigger isn't always better". Certain positions were painful. anything that allowed for deeper penetration would cause this problem. i used to wonder if there was some kind of device he could wear that would keep the full length from going in and still allow for pounding, lol.
04/13/2012
Contributor: kittycatgirl kittycatgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
This happens to me in certain positions, especially when I have my legs up. It's sooo annoying and painful.
Agreed!! VERY annoying and painful!
04/13/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by kittycatgirl
During certain positions, my partners penis hits my cervix and it hurts SO bad!! I'm curious how many women experience this.
I've had it happen a few times, but it seems to have been the length of my partner.
04/13/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
TBH I really like cervix-banging sex, but if a dildo is too pointy I don't enjoy it as much. Kinda hurts if that's the case.
04/15/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
It has happened a few times while we're doing doggy, shifting slightly to a different angle fixes the problem.
Same. Doggy-style can get uncomfortable for me.
04/19/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by kittycatgirl
During certain positions, my partners penis hits my cervix and it hurts SO bad!! I'm curious how many women experience this.
When I had presurgical endometriosis, I had cervical, uterine, anal and abdominal pain during rear entry PIV. After the surgery the pain went away and I haven't had issues with this since. My next GYN (not even the guy who did the surgery, but my favorite doctor) said due to the placement of the endometrial implants (the growths that occur with this illness) it would have caused pain, in his words "during doggy style."

Some women simply have sensitive cervixes. (Cervi?) Mine knows to get the hell out of the way when I am penetrated. My GYN can't usually even find it for my PAP smear. It just tucks up and under my pubic bone and hides.

Some women will use a thick cock ring on their partners to "shorten" the penis, not only will this give him additional stimulation, but a thick ring at the base of the penis may help with a sensitive cervix since penetration will be shallower.
04/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by kittycatgirl
During certain positions, my partners penis hits my cervix and it hurts SO bad!! I'm curious how many women experience this.
It only happened ONCE, and it was DECADES ago. Strange thing, we were NOT doing anything DEEP (how I like it, most times). We were laying down, very "missionary position" for a relaxing NAP SEX moment and all of a sudden I got a SEARING cervical pain that honestly had "shadow pain" for another two days or so. For a while I tensed up, worried it would happen again. It never did. Still no clue what or why it did that day!?
07/12/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
That has never happened to me thankfully
07/12/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
Its not something I get too frequently but when I do get it, its usually from using glass toys with an angle to them.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I've never had this happen to me.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Shortc8ke Shortc8ke
it only happened when I had sex with a guy who had a large penis.
11/05/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have only had it happen a couple of times.
11/05/2012
Contributor: tami tami
I have no cervix so DEEP penetration is very painful for me. however I did have to build up to be able to have any penetration at all after a hysterectomy.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Never been an issue for me.
11/06/2012