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Do you ever feel spoiled (sexually) by your partner when you read on here?

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Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Sometimes I read different posts on the forum and I realize just how LUCKY I am to have my husband. Even during the years when we only had sex once a week - he always met my needs first by stimulating my clitoris. I admit - I was not as good at showing him attention in the ways we talk about on the forum (but I'm getting better).

Anyone else ever read these threads and think, "I'm so glad I have my partner"?

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All the time - yes!
26
Sometimes yes - but there is more I wish for.
18
No - I never feel spoiled and I'm jealous.
5
Total votes: 49 (49 voters)
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10/04/2011
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Contributor: LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
I love my boyfriend 100% and we have a decent sex life. Decent. It's way better than anyone I've had before, but I wouldn't mind if it was more frequent and if he was more open to trying new things.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
We have an amazing sex life and we're both incredibly spoiled, both inside and outside of the bedroom.
10/04/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I do, yes, and he feels the same way. He really will do whatever it takes to please me in the bedroom (and out, to be quite honest).
10/04/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Absolutely!! We have become completely open in our sexual relationship and both of us make sure the other person's wants and fantasies are taken very good care of...
10/04/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I get the feeling I'm one of those 'sorry stories'. I'm not jealous of your happiness, though; I'm glad you and your husband have healthy communication and love for each other, it's a precious thing ... so my choice would be 'other'.
10/04/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
There are times when I wish I could get spoiled more, as the two of us get older our sex life has seen a decline of desire from her. I don't let it bother me though, it's just part of life. When we do have sex it is just as good as before, it's just not as often.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'd say that my wife is the spoiled one - and she would agree. She get's 100% of she wants and more. Me on the other hand, I'd say I'm about 90% of the way there - and that's pretty good. I'll be working on the last 10% for as long as it takes - because without exception the things I've gotten her to do for me - have also helped her.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I've never had one relationship where I have felt either spoiled or where I have felt that all of my needs have been met. I'm not jealous of others who do though, I'm happy for them. At least some people in the world are getting what they need!
10/04/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I am his princess and he takes great care of me. My friends think I am spoiled, but I think he'd say it isn't possible.

However, I like to think I take care of him/spoil him too. We are both eager and extremely generous in our bedroom activities, wherever they might take us.

My friends tend to tell me I have no clue how good I have it. I take offense to that. I know exactly how good I have it. But, they seem to think everything just came naturally easy for us. How wrong they are. We have paid our dues and worked through some really tough stuff to get where we are. *end rant*
10/04/2011
Contributor: oldman oldman
My wife is so generous to me in so many ways, I can't begin to tell you. We have been together for 42 years (married for 42 years). I hope she would say I am as good to her as she is to me.
10/04/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
Hes the one that is on here a lot too! Always gets my toys and plays at the same time!
10/04/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I felt spoiled before I ever got to EF. My husband has always gone out of his way to make sure all my needs are met even if he's tired or not in the mood. Both of us are open to new things and have had a very fulfilling sex life because of it. I feel more spoiled in comparison to some of our friends who can't get their spouses to do anything than I do compared to people on here who seem pretty open.
10/04/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Sometimes I read different posts on the forum and I realize just how LUCKY I am to have my husband. Even during the years when we only had sex once a week - he always met my needs first by stimulating my clitoris. I admit - I was not as good at ... more
I am so happy I have who I have. I however am one of those guys that would just do whatever she wants to please her and when I dont im more upset that I didnt please her than I didnt have her. If that makes sense.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Quote:
Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I am so happy I have who I have. I however am one of those guys that would just do whatever she wants to please her and when I dont im more upset that I didnt please her than I didnt have her. If that makes sense.
Wow - you sound a lot like my husband.

As we've added toys and become more active, etc. - I've become more energetic and enthusiastic about showing him physically how much I desire him too...

I don't know - I read about women who don't have orgasms or I read about other things and I think, 'Thank God for a husband who has always wanted to take care of my needs even when I wasn't as giving as he was..'
10/04/2011
Contributor: socceras socceras
Sometimes they get the sexual stuff down pact but I prefer to be spoiled in other ways besides sexual and they can't offer that.
10/04/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I feel so lucky to have my fiancee! We really are perfect for each other in so many ways!
10/04/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Sometimes. But I want more.
10/04/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I've never had one relationship where I have felt either spoiled or where I have felt that all of my needs have been met. I'm not jealous of others who do though, I'm happy for them. At least some people in the world are getting what they need!
Unfortunately I have to agree with this. One day though!!!!
10/05/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Sometimes I read different posts on the forum and I realize just how LUCKY I am to have my husband. Even during the years when we only had sex once a week - he always met my needs first by stimulating my clitoris. I admit - I was not as good at ... more
My man I have now is great in bed he always gets me off before himself but I seriously wish he were a little bit more kinky or even more romantic I would like the romantic the best..
10/05/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I definitely feel spoiled, both sexually and relationship-wise.

~M
10/05/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I'm spoiled all the time, my husband's great at foreplay.
10/05/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I am so happy I have who I have. I however am one of those guys that would just do whatever she wants to please her and when I dont im more upset that I didnt please her than I didnt have her. If that makes sense.
You sound like my man too. Sometimes he will feel like he failed me because of some very small thing he couldn't do for me, when I never even gave it a second thought. Sometimes you guys really are too hard on yourselves! You're only human.
10/05/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Not spoiled, but very grateful. I never take for granted what I have. My heart hurts when I hear people talk about how they need more from their partner and things like that because I know how it feels. I know how it is to feel less than, unwanted and not good enough - not by my current partner, but in past relationships that's how it was so I rarely take for granted how nice it is to have someone who thinks you hung the moon. I just told him today that I couldn't figure out where he got the idea that I was so perfect. Well, I'll just keep letting him think it! SHH! Lol. I think every woman deserves such good treatment.
10/05/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I'd say the majority of at I read makes me feel lucky
10/05/2011
Contributor: Choolz Choolz
absolutely!! my husband always makes sure I cum and has no problem meeting my needs first. I have so many friends who say their guys don't really like to go down on them but mine begs for it. I love it!!
10/05/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Yes! Me and my boyfriend have sex about once a week. But even when we don't have sex, if he knows I'm really horny, we still have mutual masturbation. And he usually helps me out.
10/06/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Princess-Kayla ♥
Yes! Me and my boyfriend have sex about once a week. But even when we don't have sex, if he knows I'm really horny, we still have mutual masturbation. And he usually helps me out.
Wow - when I was your age 1/week was almost abstinence ! You gotta crank it up a bit!
10/06/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Absolutely. I have realized my partner is more into sex toys than most guys I know and is more open to them than I ever imagined. I wouldn't trade her for anyone in the world.
10/06/2011