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Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I was thinking about this earlier as I was trying out my new Mimi, that since I've gotten a start on my sex toy collection, my masturbatory habits have changed. I rarely, if ever, use my hands to get myself off, anymore. I always throw a toy into the mix.

What about you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I always use my hands.
1
I always use a toy.
27
I usually use my hands/toys are for special occasions.
3
I usually use my toys/my hands are for special occasions.
2
I prefer using toys, but usually use my hands.
2
I prefer using my hands, but usually use a toy.
1
Other?
21
Total votes: 57 (51 voters)
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Contributor: ghalik ghalik
It depends on my mood. I like to use my hands but they get tired. I like to use toys but they are not the same as my hands. I use them about equally I think. I don't prefer one over the other.
04/30/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
As much as I love my toys, I still need my trusty index finger to get off, or it takes FOREVER.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
It depends on my mood. I like to use my hands but they get tired. I like to use toys but they are not the same as my hands. I use them about equally I think. I don't prefer one over the other.
I knew I was forgetting something. Using them equally was it.

I was also watching a YouTube video the other day made by two sex educators - they implied that women don't tend to go back to their hands after they've been introduced to toys.
I'm glad to see they were wrong, because it seemed like that was far fetched, to me.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Very rarely and never for internal pleasure, I'd say since I got my toys probably twice, they are just so much better. I almost always grab one of my toys. I don't live with my guy yet so it's usually I toy I reach for .
04/30/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
mostly hands but every other time a toy
04/30/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I always start with my fingers, then add a toy to the mix.
04/30/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I normally use a toy now but every once and a while I use my hands.
04/30/2012
Contributor: sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
Lately I've been all about my toys.
04/30/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
Quote:
Originally posted by Sex Positivity
I knew I was forgetting something. Using them equally was it.

I was also watching a YouTube video the other day made by two sex educators - they implied that women don't tend to go back to their hands after they've been introduced to ... more
Well, I think I'm in the minority on that. I seem to have extremely unusual masturbatory techniques and preferences for a female.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
Well, I think I'm in the minority on that. I seem to have extremely unusual masturbatory techniques and preferences for a female.
You're not unusual. If it gets you off, it gets you off.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Raigne Raigne
I use a combination. It depends on what kind of mood I'm in and what time of the month it is. Hands are frequently easier for me.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I have never really used my hands before.I've always used some object and since I've gotten toys now I just use toys.
04/30/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Usually use my hands
04/30/2012
Contributor: Catch Star Catch Star
It really just depends. Sometimes, I'm in a mood where only a toy will get me off. Other times, I HAVE TO use my hands, or nothing will happen
04/30/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I didn't use sex toys for years. I had been having sex for a LONG time (since I was 16) and having orgasms that long, either from manual stimulation or from oral sex, most of the time. I even used to e able to orgasm from using my hand while we had PIV!

Premature peri-menopause messed with my hormones so heavily that it became really difficult to come.

My Man got me a sex toy and it helped, then we bought more of them. I was still having some issues with orgasm, when I got on HRT, it helped a lot!

Now, for better or worse, I do have to use a toy to come. We play, have oral sex, sometimes some PIV, sometimes some anal play, then more oral play, then I grab my Wahl and he grabs a dildo or phallic vibe and plays with me along with the toy and then I usually can come.

It's seems like a lot of work, but that Wahl saved our sex life!

I used to just get off with my hand or his tongue. But, things change and you have to be able to adapt. Thank heavens for sex toys. They are our saving grace. Just so my man knows he is doing Nothing wrong, and it's my hormones, it's OK.
04/30/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
99% of the time I will use a toy, it may be just a plug while using my hand or it could be a stroker. Once in awhile, like during a shower, I will only use my hand but that is rare.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I can do either, and don't mind doing either. But I think my favorite/most common method is to use a dildo inside me and my fingers on my clit. Just seems to work best for me.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
I switch it up, only because there's something so fabulous about having fingers inside you that toys cannot seem to mimic.
04/30/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Sex Positivity
I was thinking about this earlier as I was trying out my new Mimi, that since I've gotten a start on my sex toy collection, my masturbatory habits have changed. I rarely, if ever, use my hands to get myself off, anymore. I always throw a toy into ... more
Really depends on what I'm doing and my mood. Generally lean towards toys, though.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
I generally use a g-spot vibe or dildo and a clit toy on my clit.
04/30/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
I use my boyfriend.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
I'm lazy. Toys!
04/30/2012
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by Sex Positivity
I was thinking about this earlier as I was trying out my new Mimi, that since I've gotten a start on my sex toy collection, my masturbatory habits have changed. I rarely, if ever, use my hands to get myself off, anymore. I always throw a toy into ... more
I'd rather use my hand but occasionally use toys
04/30/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
I use my hands
04/30/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Usually toys, unless I've left the rechargeable batteries in the LAYAspot and they've drained.
04/30/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I moved into a dorm last year, so speed is paramount when masturbating...I rarely have time to just relax and draw it out. Toys for me!
04/30/2012
Contributor: Arch600 Arch600
She almost always uses toys (or the showerhead ). Hands for me; toys are for special occasions.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I pretty much use a toy every time. If ya have so many, ya might as well use them.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Rhazya Rhazya
Ever since I'd ever gotten a vibrator, I haven't really been able to get off with just fingers alone.
05/02/2012