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Please help!
This A.m. our 6 year old daughter found box of dildos in our closet. there are About 6 in the box, large... Any suggestions for recovery?? I was thinking about putting something else in there as a substitute so I can say it is
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Please help!
This A.m. our 6 year old daughter found box of dildos in our closet. there are About 6 in the box, large... Any suggestions for recovery?? I was thinking about putting something else in there as a substitute so I can say it is something else instead.
Thanks for any thoughts!
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You simply act matter of fact and don't be ashamed by your sexuality or about her curiosity. You want your daughter to embrace her own sexuality and that begins with you! Explain to her in a firm but kind way that these are Mommy's and shouldn't be played with by little girls. Then put them up high in the closet where, hopefully, they are out of sight and out of mind.
This has happened to me and my girls just ignore the toys but are confident enough that if they decide later that they want some they will know where to go to get great advice and care instructions (ie: here at EF!!) all of this because I refuse to ever hide, be ashamed or act squeamish in front of them about my toys.
Yes, I know it's embarassing...my son's favorite teether was a silicone anal plug (never got to use the damn thing...just didn't feel right after he left tiny tooth marks in it!) but again I just took it away matter of factly and put it out of his reach.
I have found that the least said the least denied when dealing with kids and sex, trying to trick her will set off little bells in her head and possibly make it a great game to look in Mommy's closets and drawers.