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Dirty Talk: Who's Your Daddy?

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Contributor: kanida kanida
Do you like calling your partner Daddy/your partner calling you Daddy in bed?

I've never called my boyfriend Daddy in bed, but I really enjoy talking dirty, so I'm a little tempted to try it. I like being submissive in bed, and I don't really know if he'd go for something more formal-sounding, like Sir or Master.
He kind of mentioned wanting to be called Daddy once when we were talking (not during sex/in the bedroom) but he's kind of a prude a lot of the times and it was kind of hard to understand exactly what he meant (if he wants me to call him that or not) and I didn't push a whole lot because I could tell it made him uncomfortable to say it. Once before this, he said something along the lines of "Who's your Daddy?" during sex. I think it's something he may enjoy, but I don't know if I could get a straight answer out of him if I just ask him. So I think I'm just going to do it and try to gauge his reaction.

But I wanted some opinions. So what do you think of using "Daddy" in bed?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I love being called Daddy.
I love my partner calling me Daddy.
3
Too weird, don't like it.
28
Doesn't weird me out, but doesn't really turn me on, either.
10
I prefer something more like "Sir" or "Master"
11
Other (explain?)
6
Total votes: 58 (52 voters)
Poll is closed
01/29/2013
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Since this is skewed toward men, I answered for my husband. (We're about 85/15 in the female to male ration on Eden.)
01/29/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
It's not our thing simply because we have a two year old so I call him daddy and he calls me mommy in front of our daughter. It would be weird for us to use it sexually. If your bf hinted at it I would let if fly one time and see what happens. Just be prepared for it to either disrupt the action or rev him up more! Good luck.
01/29/2013
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I don't like the term 'daddy' used in that way.
01/29/2013
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I don't like doing that. My ex liked to call me mommy and I let him but it skeeved me out.
01/29/2013
Contributor: kanida kanida
I just realized that I made the first two options the same thing, worded differently. Sorry, I meant to make one be "I enjoy being called Daddy" and one be "I enjoy calling my partner Daddy".
01/29/2013
Contributor: kanida kanida
Quote:
Originally posted by shorejen9
It's not our thing simply because we have a two year old so I call him daddy and he calls me mommy in front of our daughter. It would be weird for us to use it sexually. If your bf hinted at it I would let if fly one time and see what happens. ... more
That's one reason I'm not sure about referring to him that way, since he has a child. On one hand I think he may like it, on the other, I don't want to kill the mood by making him think of me as his daughter.
01/29/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
doesnt really matter
01/29/2013
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
If someone asked me who my daddy was, I'd tell them Ted, since that's his name. Too weird for me.
01/29/2013
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by kanida
Do you like calling your partner Daddy/your partner calling you Daddy in bed?

I've never called my boyfriend Daddy in bed, but I really enjoy talking dirty, so I'm a little tempted to try it. I like being submissive in bed, and I ... more
OMG, I HATE IT!
01/29/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by kanida
Do you like calling your partner Daddy/your partner calling you Daddy in bed?

I've never called my boyfriend Daddy in bed, but I really enjoy talking dirty, so I'm a little tempted to try it. I like being submissive in bed, and I ... more
This is something that I have always found a little awkward
01/29/2013
Contributor: kanida kanida
This kind of makes me feel better. I felt like I was being kind of a prude by being a little weirded out by this...
01/29/2013
Contributor: butts butts
I DO NOT NOT NOT like the whole "daddy" thing, it creeps me out HARDcore. I'd NEVER call my partner "daddy" and if he called me that, we'd have problems. It seriously creeps me out, bad.
01/29/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Only if we're getting into a certain fetish. (the whole Daddy Dom thing)
01/29/2013
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Oh heck no! If I heard that, it would be distracting and I would fall OUT of the mood! I wouldn't want any family members place in the family to be said during sex or sexual activity. I mean, if you are going to say daddy...why not say grandfather, uncle, cousin, great grandfather, etc.?!?!
01/30/2013
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I like all kinds of dirty talk and the master/sir thing is cool with me, but daddy well.. daddy reminds me of my actual dad. I don't understand how anybody who grew up with a dad around can not be weirded out by it.
01/30/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Don't like it. I don't mind Sir/Master though.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
I do NOT want to be called Daddy.
01/30/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by kanida
Do you like calling your partner Daddy/your partner calling you Daddy in bed?

I've never called my boyfriend Daddy in bed, but I really enjoy talking dirty, so I'm a little tempted to try it. I like being submissive in bed, and I ... more
daddy is just weird to me.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
I don't call my husband Daddy, but I do call him Papi...
01/30/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
nope, no reference to family in my bedroom!
01/30/2013
Contributor: Trixxxy Trixxxy
Definitely not my thing
01/30/2013
Contributor: KayYJelly KayYJelly
My boyfriend is far more vanilla than I am (teehee) but I actually do like the whole Master/Sir thing, and I like "Daddy" in the context of Daddy Dom/little girl Lolita play. Couldn't imagine ever saying those things out of a sexual nature though...
01/30/2013
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
Talking dirty yes, but not calling him daddy or anything famiy related.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Love Lula Love Lula
Nope. It creeps me out.
01/30/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I am interested in a bit of age play, but I've always called my bf Master, so calling him Daddy wouldn't feel right. I'm not entirely opposed to it though, I just don't see him as a "Daddy" kinda guy. I'm not sure how he feels about it, but I don't think he's particularly interested in being called Daddy anyways.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
Nope, I reserve Daddy for when I'm referencing him to my daughter. It would be too weird to bring that into the bedroom, and very awkward/disturbing for me and moreso him, I think!
01/30/2013
Contributor: CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
I find it weird but that's just me
01/30/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by kanida
Do you like calling your partner Daddy/your partner calling you Daddy in bed?

I've never called my boyfriend Daddy in bed, but I really enjoy talking dirty, so I'm a little tempted to try it. I like being submissive in bed, and I ... more
I chose other because I don't have a problem calling him Daddy in bed, but otherwise it's out. LOL.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Raymaker
I like all kinds of dirty talk and the master/sir thing is cool with me, but daddy well.. daddy reminds me of my actual dad. I don't understand how anybody who grew up with a dad around can not be weirded out by it.
I don't understand how anybody who grew up with a dad around can not be weirded out by it.

Nail, meet Head.
01/31/2013