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Did using a toy to be the first thing to penetrate your vagina hurt?

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Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Ok I know the question is not properly stated. I came across a post about a virgin asking what toy will be best for her to use. I never thought that a virgin would want to have a toy be the first thing that penetrates her? With a guy (or girl with a strap on) you have other sensations going on to make the penetration a bit less painful (the feel of your partners skin, their kisses, their voice etc).

So my question to those who used a vibe/dildo to be the first thing that penetrated their vaginas did it hurt? Did you expect more pain? Was it ok and pleasurable? And if you late had intercourse with a penis did it hurt all over again?

PM me if you do not want to comment here I am curious about this.
03/18/2011
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Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
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Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
Ok I know the question is not properly stated. I came across a post about a virgin asking what toy will be best for her to use. I never thought that a virgin would want to have a toy be the first thing that penetrates her? With a guy (or girl with a ... more
I was penetrated for the first time by a sex toy, and while most of the time it did not hurt, if I went too fast it hurt a bit and I did bleed.

When I later had intercourse (not with a penis, but with a silicone cock, so it's kinda comparable ) it was not painful at all.
03/18/2011
Contributor: alliegator alliegator
I don't see why a virgin would want the "first" thing to penetrate them be a sex toy. I also don't know why they would want the first thing to be a sexual partner.
My first was my own fingers, followed much later by a dildo. I must have broken my hymen though sports/horseback riding, because I never had that "virgin" experience of the whole pain-breaking-bleeding thing. I think learning my own body before anyone else was a good idea.
03/19/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
Well, I had been putting my fingers and tampons in my vagina for years before I bought any toys. It took a little bit of work to get the toys in, but I had purchased some lube that I used to help things along.

I had sex for the first time about a year after I started penetrating myself with toys. I'm glad I used toys before having sex. I had a better idea of what I enjoyed and was comfortable being penetrated by my partner. It didn't hurt, and I didn't bleed.
03/19/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
My first thing was my partner's fingers. I didn't have any toys until later. But I don't see why it would be a problem if that was the first thing.
03/19/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
My husband started with his fingers. And it didnt hurt unless he forgot to trim his nails. We did that for awhile until we 1st had sex and even though we had fooled around it was still painful and I did bled.
03/20/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
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Originally posted by bunny love
Well, I had been putting my fingers and tampons in my vagina for years before I bought any toys. It took a little bit of work to get the toys in, but I had purchased some lube that I used to help things along.

I had sex for the first time ... more
Biologically, not every woman bleeds the first time they have sex. My best friend didnt bleed, it was just uncomfortable for her. And she didnt have any toys. Every woman is different. Personally, I think you are pretty lucky not to bleed. I wish I was like that as I was a little embarrassed afterwards because I did bleed.
03/20/2011
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
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Originally posted by bunny love
Well, I had been putting my fingers and tampons in my vagina for years before I bought any toys. It took a little bit of work to get the toys in, but I had purchased some lube that I used to help things along.

I had sex for the first time ... more
I am in the same boat as Bunny. I think.

I'd been inserting tampons for years before I used anything to penetrate. I have no idea when I lost my hymen, but there was no pain or discomfort when I started to insert toys, and later cocks.

I also enjoyed knowing what I liked before I started playing with men as it made the first time I was with a man more enjoyable as I knew what my body liked and didn't like. And I have to say the first time I orgamsed, I was glad I was by myself. That was scary!!! My dad had had a small seizure the week before, and if my first orgasm was with a man? Well, I would have freaked out and demanded going to a hospital.
03/20/2011