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Contributor: celibacysucks celibacysucks
Is there something that you like in the bedroom (other than straight intercourse) that, if your partner flat refused to do it/try it, it would be a deal-breaker for you?
11/20/2010
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Contributor: trios trios
Quote:
Originally posted by celibacysucks
Is there something that you like in the bedroom (other than straight intercourse) that, if your partner flat refused to do it/try it, it would be a deal-breaker for you?
Not sure what you are asking here...

Sex is not a deal- is it? If this like is a one night stand or something, then fine, go for it or not. You do what you like, it's your body. Sex is intimate- communication is the key and knowing your partner is what makes it a positive experience or possibly negative.

It sounds like you need to get to know them better, it takes time to for both partners to learn what the other likes, and maybe even longer to give into their fetishes!
11/20/2010
Contributor: celibacysucks celibacysucks
I meant relationship deal breakers. I am not asking this question from personal experience. I was reading a personal ad on CraigsList and the guy outright stated that he would not get serious with anyone who wasn't willing to try anal. I was curious if other people felt that way about certain sexual things.
11/21/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
No, I don't have any deal breakers sexually with my husband, there's things we like and that we'd probably be sad if the other didn't like..but there would be no deal breakers for us.
11/21/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I guess it would be different if you were starting a relationship and wanted to ensure the potential partner knew what you liked but seriously I've been with hubby for a really long time and there's nothing that I could want sexually that could destroy our bond.
11/21/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Didn't have it when I married her, not gonna start now. There are some things she doesn't like that I do like, but as long as you're willing to work together and try there are so many more important things than "is he or she willing to do ____". Granted, if she was planning on us both remaining virgins that might be something, but that wasn't an issue.
11/21/2010