Would you be comfortable if your partner was a nude model/ porn star/ stripper etc?

Contributor: Midway through Midway through
I just don't share my partner. So porn is a no. However, naked modeling, even naked modeling involving touching other models, would be fine. I don't want to share sex though.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Another vote for #2... If you're in a serious relationship, # 1 is a recipe for jealousy and resentment...
11/07/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
If I happened to fall in love with someone who happened to be in the industry, I'd work pretty darn hard to get over it, but the thought makes me extremely uncomfortable, because it would almost certainly mean that they're way hotter than me, and I'm not all that secure as it is, so I'd spend a lot of time wondering what the heck was wrong with them that they wanted to be with me. Of course that would just be an amplification of my existing issues, and not a new issue specific to the industry.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
I didn't vote because none of them really fit me. My man wouldn't be a stripper, and I wouldn't be comfortable with him being a mainstream porn star. (aka fucking random women for work)

Technically though, he is in amateur porn. I have a clip store and an upcoming website, and he has "lent his services" for clips and pictures, but it's only me and him. He would be totally okay with me doing clips and pictures with other girls, as long as he can film it!
11/07/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i couldnt handle it...
11/07/2010
Contributor: Sebmissive Sebmissive
There's no way I'd be able to handle my man having sex with another girl (or girls). I'm a jealous woman. I try not to be, but that's just the way I am.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Nope...don't want my man being drooled on by other people
11/07/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I'd be ok with him stripping or doing nude modeling. The human body is beautiful and should be shared and admired.
12/07/2010
Contributor: hornypoet69 hornypoet69
If he wanted to do solo porn, sure. I have a lot of camsex, and would like the opportunity to do that in a relationship, though I would be more than willing to give it up. The same goes for nude modeling and such. There are naked pictures of me on the internet, and anyone who dates me, is going to have to accept that fact. And obviously I would accept it from them.

But as for porn where you have sex with other people. No. Just no.
01/03/2011
Contributor: ana123 ana123
I wouldn't allow him to do any of that and he would definitely not allow me to do it! We believe we are the only people who should see each other's bodies.
01/03/2011
Contributor: null null
I'd be all for nude modeling, but anything else would probably bother me to no end.
01/05/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
I'm a bit too jealous to share. However, if my partner really, really, really wanted to model or something I would support him despite my discomforts. He supported me when I considered nude modelling for art classes and I appreciated it even though I ended up not following through.
02/25/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
I guess it depends on how much she was making. There's no way I'd try to be in a relationship with somebody who actually had sex with other people for money, but I think I could probably be okay with modeling as long as she was making bank. I just feel like the whole modeling thing can be a bit exploitative and I'd have some serious problems if I felt like my partner was being taken advantage of.
02/25/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
ummm , yea probably not
04/28/2011
Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
I've done a lot of nude modeling in the past and my exes didn't mind it (in fact, they loved it). However, I probably wouldn't be comfortable if it was the other way around.
07/13/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I think so. It's hard to speak hypothetically. I think that would turn me on though. And I tend to choose people so carefully to get involved with that they would likely be a very particular kind of porn star/model/etc. Probably a very down to earth and/or creative person.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Kimmie1980ca Kimmie1980ca
Quote:
Originally posted by Airlia
I wanted to know who was comfortable with their partners being in the sex industry, and being fully recognisable. What are your apprehensions? Why are you happy with it?
No way!
07/13/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I would have no problem with my hubby doing nude modeling or any sort of relatively anonymous theatrical nudity. I've done both nude modeling and performed nude for an experimental theatre piece. I have no problem with artistic nudity. However, I would not be okay with him doing porn. It's just too dangerous in terms of both physical and emotional health.

Also, I like my privacy. I could never be involved with anyone famous in any way.
07/13/2011
Contributor: northstar northstar
Love artistic nude photography, but would definitely not want my partner modelling (apart from for me!) or being involved in the porn industry...I'd be too jealous!
07/13/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Sure! I nude model for art classes, so it would be silly if I cared.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
No, don't even like the idea.
07/13/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
My man and I are too monogamous by nature for either of us to be ok with this kind of thing. It's a no for me, and I feel 100% safe saying it's a no for him too.
07/13/2011
Contributor: amazon amazon
Probably only anonymous
07/18/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Airlia
I wanted to know who was comfortable with their partners being in the sex industry, and being fully recognisable. What are your apprehensions? Why are you happy with it?
Eh, I wouldn't be okay with it... and he wouldn't be either... he even said no to regular modeling, not just to sexual modeling.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Airlia
I wanted to know who was comfortable with their partners being in the sex industry, and being fully recognisable. What are your apprehensions? Why are you happy with it?
No, I wouldn't be cool with that!
07/18/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I'm comfortable if my wife is nude in public with me, but I'd have a hard time knowing she was nude on her job, and the sex would drive me nuts knowing someone was getting paid to have sex all day with my wife. Think of it this way...no matter her mood, the male porn star still gets to fuck her, yet when she gets home I'd be left in the cold. Not a position I'd want to be in.
12/14/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
Artistic nude modeling, especially for painting or sculpture, would be fine. Great actually. She's drawn me naked and I've drawn her naked, we've just never shared ourselves with others. I would want to be there, though, or at least to know I was welcome if I wanted to be there...
12/23/2012
Contributor: mp3me mp3me
NOooooooo nope never... totally uncomfortable
12/23/2012
Contributor: angel42539 angel42539
I wouldn't be able to do it.
05/10/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
Although he would make a good porn star, I do not like to share. The other two would be fine - look but don't touch my man!!!
05/10/2013