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Contributor: cuasi cuasi
Hi i am new on sex toys and i want to surprice my poartner with a clit stimulator and a massage oil
wich clit stimulator for beguinners do you recomend and how i used
and wich massage oil with chocolate or vanilla flavor do you recomend because the ones in amazon cant be used in genitals
Thanks
09/05/2019
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Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by cuasi
Hi i am new on sex toys and i want to surprice my poartner with a clit stimulator and a massage oil
wich clit stimulator for beguinners do you recomend and how i used
and wich massage oil with chocolate or vanilla flavor do you recomend ... more
Hi!
First of all, you should know what kind of stimulation your partner likes. There are plenty of clit tasers with different features, functions, shapes, textures and materials. So it would be great to decide what exactly you are looking for to narrow down the search.

If your partner fond of vibrations, clitoral vibrators are a wonderful way to go. For example,
Eden massager with its 12 vibration patterns provides easy and powerful orgasms or Date night panty vibrator with its ergonomic shape is very pleasurable and comfortable for clit play.

Also, bullets and eggs are worth to be considered. They are discreet and powerful, that makes them a perfect option for clitoral stimulation. Emoji not only brings delicious sensations, it is also extremely cute! Wicked bunny is another super cute and powerful option!

Heart egg deserves attention either, because of its delightful vibrations and remote control feature.

If your partner is more into sucking sensation, then Satisfyer, Womanizer or Freestyle are what you're looking for.

If you can not choose between buzzing and sucking, there is a perfect combo of both, Capella

Also, I recommend you to read our fantastic guide How to choose your 1st clit stimulator which will help you not to get lost in the ocean of diversity of clitoral teasers!
09/05/2019
Contributor: mikeyH mikeyH
Quote:
Originally posted by cuasi
Hi i am new on sex toys and i want to surprice my poartner with a clit stimulator and a massage oil
wich clit stimulator for beguinners do you recomend and how i used
and wich massage oil with chocolate or vanilla flavor do you recomend ... more
Hey Cuasi

I would personally recommend the vanilla flavour
09/05/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
Quote:
Originally posted by cuasi
Hi i am new on sex toys and i want to surprice my poartner with a clit stimulator and a massage oil
wich clit stimulator for beguinners do you recomend and how i used
and wich massage oil with chocolate or vanilla flavor do you recomend ... more
Hi Cuasi,

I really enjoy my Fifty Shades of Grey bullet vibrator, and my FingO vibrating clit massager is a lot of fun too!!

As for suction, I really like my Satisfyer Pro 2. It gets the job done!!

With lube, I prefer the fruity flavors but if I had to choose between chocolate or vanilla--I would choose vanilla.
09/11/2019
Contributor: QueenofEverything81 QueenofEverything81
Quote:
Originally posted by cuasi
Hi i am new on sex toys and i want to surprice my poartner with a clit stimulator and a massage oil
wich clit stimulator for beguinners do you recomend and how i used
and wich massage oil with chocolate or vanilla flavor do you recomend ... more
Welcome to the wonderful world of sex toys!!
If you are both new to clitoral stimulators, I would recommend starting small. A bullet or egg vibrator are both great choices for beginners. When using it on her for the first time, you'll want to be careful to avoid direct clitoral contact right off the bat, too much too soon can be very overstimulating and overwhelming. Trace nipples, her outer labia, tease her clitoral hood gently. Watch her body for reactions, are her hips moving, is her breath increasing etc...
Massage oil feels amazing on your genitals, be wary though, oil is not compatible with many types of sex toys, so if you combine them, be sure your toy can take it. Water based lube is a good alternative, there are loads of flavor varieties and it's safe for skin and toys. If you do go with oil, vanilla would definitely be my preference. Most of all have fun, your partner is lucky to have someone who is invested in her pleasure!
09/11/2019
Contributor: iovys iovys
Man, I *live* for pressure wave clitoral stimulation (no, not sucking on the clit, it's different); I tried one once and I've been a fan ever since, literally trying to get my hands on every single company's take on it out there. Vibrators work nicely too, but they can't beat pressure wave stimulation for me. Everyone has their preferences, though, so you may want to get several.

These were already mentioned, but I want to throw in my two cents as well. In no particular order:

Satisfyer Pro 2 is relatively inexpensive. It also feels relatively inexpensive compared to the others. It tap-taps the clit kinda average, doesn't hurt, and has a variety of speeds (x11, if I'm not mistaken), but no patterns. It's a good 'tester', if you wanna try clit stim of this sort.

LELO's Sona basically takes the Satisfyer Pro 2 to the next level and hammers away at the clit. Hard, strong, and fast. Unlike the Satisfyer, which I usually get up to speed no. 8-11 to orgasm, I can sit at speeds 1-4 on Sona & come just as smoothly. Several notable reviewers have mentioned that the toy tends to slow down/stop when pressed hard against the clit, but I have not experienced this issue. Other reviewers have claimed that it's so strong that it injured their clit (to the point of blood -- make sure you use water-based lube to avoid this). I have not injured my clit yet, but it has become strangely itchy after orgasm with Sona a few times. This itchyness goes away after like 5 minutes. Get this one if your GF has a clit made of steel.

Womanizer Premium is like a lovechild between Sona and Satisfyer. It taps away stronger and harder than Satisfyer, but not as strong as Sona. The weakest settings feel more gentle than Satisfyer's. The strongest ones are about as strong as Sona's 5-6. It's got the most speeds out of the 3. It's also got an autopilot function if you want the AI to take control of the speeds. In case you're worried about noise, this model is the most quiet.

All of these are waterproof, rechargeable, and the bits that touch skin is silicone (that means water-based lube only). Super easy to clean too.
09/11/2019