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Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well for me
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Female who enjoys giving more
Alan & Michele , Antipova , (k)InkyIvy , *HisMrs* , WhoopieDoo , Bignuf , Taylor , SiNn , deletedacct , JackRaiden , poetprincess , Cherry21 , ~LaUr3n~ , Ice1 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Shellz31 , SexyTabby , LAndJ , cburger , HannahPanda , Kaltir , Mellifer , padmeamidala , potstickers
24  (51%)
Female who enjoys receiving more
DeliciousSurprise , Rossie , Cherrylane , Anjulie , Ms. N , llellsee , switzerland , ThoughtsAblaze , shcoo , Jul!a , Beck , Jennysweets , mudpie , Terri Strickland
14  (30%)
Male who enjoys giving more
slynch , SelectZen , kingofthevampires , El-Jaro , MrWishyWashy , LowFreqFreak
6  (13%)
Male who enjoys receiving more
Darklyvan , bobbyboy
2  (4%)
I do not enjoy oral at all
voenne
1  (2%)
Total votes: 47
Poll is closed
12/04/2011
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Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I'm with your wife. Not only do I prefer it mentally, but I have orgasmed more times from giving oral than from receiving it.

I've invested a lot of time trying to figure out how to enjoy receiving oral (one forum thread and two reviews linked there)... but I guess it's just really not my thing.
12/04/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Sure I like receiving, but I LOOOOOOOOVE to give. I often give head to my Vixskin Mustang when hubby isn't around.
12/04/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
i chose the receiving one.. but it definitely depends on how i feel. sometimes, i'd rather just give him all that he wants - him being satisfied, satisfies me
12/04/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well ... more
I am blessed with an amazing lover of a husband and he does enjoy oral on me and does it VERY well, but honestly, of everything we do together, I could live the rest of my life giving that up if I had to. However, I am a VERY oral gal and LOVE, LOVE, LOVE sucking on HIM. That is one of my FAVORITE things to do in lovemaking and I usually start ANY sex play with that, as it gets me super wet and super duper ready for anything that comes next. That is why, when our daughter moved out to college, years ago, I went back to my old habit of laying my head in his lap and gently sucking on him even when just watching TV. I certainly also like my bed time "pacifier" before sleep.

Interestedly, he never complains about my oral obsession, and sucking on HIM beats the calories of satiating my oral desire with other things...so it is SUCH a win/win.
12/04/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I'm with your wife. Not only do I prefer it mentally, but I have orgasmed more times from giving oral than from receiving it.

I've invested a lot of time trying to figure out how to enjoy receiving oral (one forum thread and two ... more
I not only agree with you, but I know a lot of my girl friends feel the same way. Most woman are NOT into getting oral as strongly as men are. Not sure why, but seems to be true.
12/04/2011
Contributor: SelectZen SelectZen
I love to give it, but being a submissive that isn't suprising
12/04/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
I don't like either. When it comes to receiving, feeling saliva on my skin is just a turn off to me for some reason.
12/04/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I'm really pretty event. I love receiving, but I also absolutely love giving blow jobs.
12/04/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well ... more
I rather give and i do get off on giving
12/04/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I am blessed with an amazing lover of a husband and he does enjoy oral on me and does it VERY well, but honestly, of everything we do together, I could live the rest of my life giving that up if I had to. However, I am a VERY oral gal and LOVE, LOVE, ... more
hahaha This is me to a tee, except I don't have a daughter.
12/04/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Male here, OMG, love going down on a girl.
12/04/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well ... more
I am proud of my oral skills and I will go down on my man as many times as I can. And like any man, he does not complain...
12/05/2011
Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well ... more
I like giving more than getting. and I'm about the same as your wife I guess, I can almost cum just giving head! If you want me wet now, put it in my mouth, lol.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
If I had to choose, I'd prefer to give than receive cause my whole aim is to totally pleasure a partner. I put their pleasure ahead of mine .... just naturally that way inclinded.
12/05/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I've always had an oral fixation so I enjoy giving more then receiving.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I not only agree with you, but I know a lot of my girl friends feel the same way. Most woman are NOT into getting oral as strongly as men are. Not sure why, but seems to be true.
Do not be mistaken. my wife may enjoy giving MORE, but she still loves receiving too
12/05/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Can't decide! :/ I like to give and do that more, but also like to receive, but not all the time.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I'd rather receive than give. I've never been very into giving head, but I have tried it with everybody I've been with sexually. My husband loves when I do it, but I have to be in the right mood and all of that.
12/06/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I'm definitely more into giving. I'm submissive all the way and I live for making my partner happy both sexually and outside of the bedroom.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
I marked giving more, but I enjoy both equally.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Mellifer Mellifer
12/06/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well ... more
Giving
12/06/2011
Contributor: bobbyboy bobbyboy
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well ... more
I live getting head
12/07/2011
Contributor: Jennysweets Jennysweets
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well ... more
lick it baby
12/07/2011
Contributor: lost686girl lost686girl
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving oral stimulation?

As selfish as it may be I prefer to recieve, as a am betting against my wife the majority will agree. She prefers to give and in fact can almost get off on that alone. Works out well ... more
i get a lot of pleasure in watching him come :3
12/08/2011