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Assume 30 minutes is the ideal love making session how much time should be spent on oral pleasuring.

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Contributor: fronz fronz
I'm just curious because my current partner likes oral up to the point of almost orgasming and then wants penetration to take her to orgasm. Which means I spend most of the time on oral. Which I don't mind because I love oral. But she preffers to orgasm through penetration because it make her feel more connected to her lover. But she cant orgasm from pentration alone.

I'm just curious as to how common a routine this is.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
20 mins of oral
WhoopieDoo
1  (6%)
10 minutes of oral
Lavendar , evie.amor , ginnyluvspotter
3  (18%)
5 minutes of oral
noway
1  (6%)
other
panthercat23 , Lioncub , *Camoprincess* , stars , MrWishyWashy , novanilla , donatello6789 , LittleA , edeneve , indiglo , Falsepast , Missmarc
12  (71%)
Total votes: 17
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01/05/2013
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Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
Oral is great but not every time. I prefer penetration.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Depends on my mood, I can take a few minutes of oral up to a full 30 minutes.
01/05/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by fronz
I'm just curious because my current partner likes oral up to the point of almost orgasming and then wants penetration to take her to orgasm. Which means I spend most of the time on oral. Which I don't mind because I love oral. But she ... more
Depends on how horny I am if I am ready to go right then an there it could take all of 5-10 minutes for me to get off from oral and an ideal day when I want to get it on but not fully there it can take 20-30 minutes. Foreplay and all for me usually last an hour or so
01/05/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I would say probably 5-10 minutes but it depends on the particular day
01/05/2013
Contributor: LittleA LittleA
Haven't ever been with anyone that I preferred it over penetration. Get to the goods.
01/06/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
It would depend obviously, but I'd have to say 20 minutes out of 30, since he could get me off in 15 minutes, I could give head for like five minutes, and then ride him to his orgasm.
01/06/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
being a bit selfish, I'd like to have alternate oral on me & penetration. I want more than 30 minutes too.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
I think 10 minutes seems like a good time, I would prefer more though
01/06/2013
Contributor: fronz fronz
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
being a bit selfish, I'd like to have alternate oral on me & penetration. I want more than 30 minutes too.
Nice!!! That's very sexy
01/07/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
I love foreplay and oral, but I don't get it as much as I'd like.. I'd prefer 10-15 minutes on oral/teasing and then 20-25 minutes of penetration.
01/07/2013
Contributor: noway noway
I'm weird I guess, I'm not that big into oral performed on me. Basically I do it for my guy bc it turns him on. I'm more g spot oriented so penetration's better 4 me.
01/07/2013
Contributor: noway noway
Giving oral turns me on more than receiving!
01/07/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Depends on the person
01/07/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
We spend about 10 minutes most of the time sometimes longer if the time is right.
01/07/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by fronz
I'm just curious because my current partner likes oral up to the point of almost orgasming and then wants penetration to take her to orgasm. Which means I spend most of the time on oral. Which I don't mind because I love oral. But she ... more
other
01/07/2013