Are you rougher or more sensual?

Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Its hard to say really. Sometimes its rough sometimes its slow. If the house is all empty and my husands home we sometimes take it slow with a shower together and then massage an just well spend a few hours in bed usally just very slow and stop an stair in eachothers eyes while hes still in me...other times I want it to be rough as in dildo shoving leg spreading hurt after we stop type ruff.
06/23/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
My guy and I have tried the "sensual" route. We had a night of candles, massages and oils and all that but it was so relaxing we just passed out.

Usually we just get right down to bidness. We grab each other and just hop on the bed. No foreplay shenanigans, we just fuck.
07/07/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
My guy and I have tried the "sensual" route. We had a night of candles, massages and oils and all that but it was so relaxing we just passed out.

Usually we just get right down to bidness. We grab each other and just hop on the bed. ... more
That's what I'm afraid of happening if I try to be all sensual! Either that or we'll at least be so sleepy after and we won't really be able to put the real effort into the sex.
07/11/2010
Contributor: 00 00
I voted for the "Rough Play" but truthfully, we are into that only about 75 percent of the time, the rest of the time is very tender and sensual.
07/11/2010
Contributor: Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
I prefer the sensual. He prefers things to be faster, but no necessarily rough. I prefer the sensual and we tend to lean more towards that, but there have been several times when I've pounced on him and told him that I wanted him to be rough on me and fuck me hard
07/23/2010
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
I love rough. I like biting and spanking and some mild choking. Gets me hot!
07/23/2010
Contributor: joja joja
Rough play is sensual to me... but I do like to mix it up.
07/24/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I'm more sensual, though I can be rough at times, but it's rare!
07/24/2010
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
I am Definitely on the sensual side.
07/24/2010
Contributor: twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
It just depends on the mood really, but most of the time, I like to be rougher if people permit it. Living in a house full of people isn't fun.
08/03/2010
Contributor: AU AU
I am the rougher, more to the point one in the relationship. My significant other is more sensual. :3
08/03/2010
Contributor: missmandy27 missmandy27
My boyfriend and I are mostly rough when it comes to sex. I love it when he pulls my hair and spanks me (the harder the better). We also have our sensual moments. I think there's a nice balance.
08/16/2010
Contributor: softkkisses softkkisses
It really depends on the mood. I love it both ways!
09/20/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
Most people probably like a balance, but what is the first thought that pops into your head - Do you tend to be more sensual or rougher in your sex play?

I like a balance but I realized that I am more into rough play to some degree. I like to ... more
I'm definitely spot on in the middle.
12/22/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We're always rather rough. I think we both find "vanilla" sex boring.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
We really go back and forth, I think it's a pretty even mix between sensual and rough. The girl that my boyfriend dated before me was really small and he was worried about hurting her, so he's only now getting back into the swing of being rough. I have to keep telling him, "It's okay, you're not going to break me, I promise!"
12/22/2010
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
I think I'm in the middle.
12/22/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
In the middle. We like both, though we've been rougher recently.
12/22/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
I tend to start out pretty soft and sensual, but it definitely ends up on the rough side by the end.
12/23/2010
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
Hmmm. I'd say that I usually start off sex more sensually, but by the end it's usually pretty rough.
02/02/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Oh, for me, it would rougher, but I enjoy being a submissive. But dont get me wrong, being sensual is great at times too, just to balance things out you know.
02/03/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Sensual
02/04/2011
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
Depends on my mood.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
Most people probably like a balance, but what is the first thought that pops into your head - Do you tend to be more sensual or rougher in your sex play?

I like a balance but I realized that I am more into rough play to some degree. I like to ... more
Not rough at all. Only sensual.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Other. We are about 60/40 sensual/rough lately. My husband had a hard time entertaining the roughness at first because it is so not like him (he puts on a good act). He surprises me every time! Gotta love it.
02/04/2011
Contributor: lamira lamira
It really depends on my mood. But generally, I'm more sensual.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I said in the middle. We are both. Most of the time lately it's been rough, but we have moments in between that are sensual.
02/06/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I chose somewhere in the middle. There's days when it's rough from start to stop and there's times when sensual is just as rewarding so...kinda jump around.
02/06/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
im a bit of them all
05/05/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I like rough more than sensual overall I think (if I HAD to choose between the two I would say rough). But the sweet, romantic, sensual sex is nice, too.
05/05/2011