What are you nervous about?
Are you nervous when having sex for the first time with a new partner?
03/19/2013
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New experiences are always scary, especially ones that are so intimate. I worried about them not liking my body, worried about whether or not I would please them and how things would turn out with the relationship if I couldn't. Probably silly things to concern myself with since it's always turned out fine, but I think it's pretty common.
03/19/2013
Oh yes! Very! Nervous he won't like my body, worried about my performance and pleasing my partner.
03/19/2013
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Sometimes I'm nervous even beyond the first time! I guess that I'm sort of a self-conscious person, but it doesn't stop me from enjoying myself, so I've never tried to fix it.
Originally posted by
noway
What are you nervous about?
03/19/2013
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yeah.
Originally posted by
noway
What are you nervous about?
03/20/2013
Incompatibility is always an issue.
03/20/2013
im always kind of worried about it, especially with my weigh and body "issues" that i experience, luckily my partner and i went from kind of awkward sex to now having great fantastic amazing sex.
03/20/2013
I worry about my body, I have self esteem issues I wasn't really thinking about that much though with my fiance the first time. He just made me feel.....comfortable.
03/20/2013
I definitely worry about my body
03/20/2013
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Usually its just a performance fear.
Originally posted by
noway
What are you nervous about?
03/20/2013
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worried about my performance, and if i'm big enough for her
Originally posted by
noway
What are you nervous about?
03/20/2013
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Pretty much how I feel too.
Originally posted by
shnsmth6
worried about my performance, and if i'm big enough for her
03/20/2013
I don't get nervous about our bodies or performance.
If anything I worry about me being able to let go and enjoy myself. I'm not able to finish the first few (or dozen) times I'm with somebody new because I get so emotionally wrapped up in the experience.
If anything I worry about me being able to let go and enjoy myself. I'm not able to finish the first few (or dozen) times I'm with somebody new because I get so emotionally wrapped up in the experience.
03/20/2013
I've always had anxiety and performance fears when being with a new partner for the first couple of times. Once I get past the nervousness of pleasing them, it's always been great though.
03/22/2013
Though I do worry about my performance, I think I worry a little more about their performance. I know if the sex is meh it can get better, but if they're amazing from the start...well, it's good for morale, because I'll have the incentive and eagerness to get them in bed again, meaning MY performance will be better because I'm so looking forward to it.
03/22/2013
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I am just worried he has a small dick.
Originally posted by
noway
What are you nervous about?
03/22/2013
My low self-esteem would get in the way and I'd end up not really enjoying it. Although the last time I had sex with someone new we were both under the influence of alcohol and all we really did was he ate me out and we spent the rest of the night talking. Two weeks of talking of no sex later we started dating. That was a year ago.
03/23/2013
I worry about my body and my performance...
03/23/2013
I'm worried about my performance.
03/28/2013
I'm not particularly worried...excited is the word.
03/28/2013
Yes, I get nervous.
03/28/2013
it's always scary/exciting the fisrt time
03/29/2013
I have always been rather insecure about not only looks but how good I am and I they will enjoy it or not.
07/08/2013
Is it strange I'm never worried about my performance? I feel pretty secure in that I know what to do and I'm always eager to please a partner...I get more anxious about giving up control, relaxing and letting someone else take the reigns over me. It has always been the biggest struggle...
07/10/2013
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