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Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
I think if I could magically push up my boobs and flatten this mama hips out a bit I would 100% okay. But hell, that is what kids do to us. It's a part of life. I think I can deal. And the man seems to like everything
Make sure there pushed up evenly.....couldnt help but say that its odd having one boob lower then the other when it comes to dressed Long story short the war in iraq sorta helped lower the one boob but at least I made it back alive.....
06/23/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
I think if I could magically push up my boobs and flatten this mama hips out a bit I would 100% okay. But hell, that is what kids do to us. It's a part of life. I think I can deal. And the man seems to like everything
That's pretty much my stance, that I would change some things but overall, I don't agonize over it. I have the power to make some changes, and other things I just have to live with. But it doesn't make me lesser, and that's what matters.
06/23/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I love my body, but it isn't mutual! I have to have surgery in the reproductive area for the third time very soon due to endometriosis. Other than that, I like my belly and booty and boobies and frizzy hair and glasses
06/23/2010
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
As like most women id like to not be so big, perkier boobs, smaller arms, smaller thighs but surgery is scary and i like food so mise well like myself for who i am
07/14/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
I am overall happy with my body size....but I could use a few crunches, a boobie lift anf a butt lift I have much more confidence than I used to.
07/16/2010
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
I loathe my body, and everything about it. There's no other way to say it.
07/16/2010
Contributor: Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
I used to absolutely love my body in high school. I did track so I had three hours of practice, work-outs, and lifting everyday almost all year round. After tearing my labrum in two places my senior year, and having to have surgery that summer, right before my freshman year started, I've been becoming less happy with my body. The coaches at my university said that getting me back in shape and getting my shoulder back to where it needed to be to still compete would be no problem, I'd just have to sit out indoor season, but I was skeptical, nervous about competing at the collegiate level, and honestly with being a music major, I would have no time for track. So since the end of my senior year of high school, I've been overall satisfied with my body, but wishing it could look like what it did during track: six pack abs, tighter butt and thighs, and actually having any amount of muscle in my arms
07/16/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
The only thing I don't like is my weight, and I'm fixing that right now! I've lost 10 lbs, 20lbs more to go!
07/16/2010
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Dame Saphir
I used to absolutely love my body in high school. I did track so I had three hours of practice, work-outs, and lifting everyday almost all year round. After tearing my labrum in two places my senior year, and having to have surgery that summer, right ... more
I don't like my body much. I'm ok with it. I'm happy that I'm not big..but what I can't stand is that I have ibs and I'm so bloated 24/7 if I didn't have ibs my stomach would be mostly flat... SMall enough where I can hide my gut with a t shirt..but can't wear a tank top,and when I take my clothes off I always look pregnant.If I didn't feel ill and my life didn't revolve around the toilet,just trying to take care of myself where I'm not at work for the 5.5 hours I work stuck in the bathroom,I'd focus on working out.
07/16/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
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Originally posted by SexyySarah
The only thing I don't like is my weight, and I'm fixing that right now! I've lost 10 lbs, 20lbs more to go!
WTG on losing 10!!....here's to 20 more gone!
07/16/2010
Contributor: Erotica Erotica
I'd love to make some HUGE changes, but their dreams really, things that probably will never happen, at least, not anytime in the near future. But I don't spend much time thinking about it. There's a difference when 'dreams' become something that you constantly think about.
07/16/2010
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Holly (Woman Tribune)
Irritable bowel is horrible, I'm so sorry you have to live with that. My partner has it and my ex has Crohn's Disease, so I've seen people go through daily hell with that.

And I don't know how to drive either, so you're not alone there!
thanks,It's the bloating and looking prego 24/7 that I hate about my body..If I wasn't in the toilet 10 times a day before work I'd work out..but if I had no job I'd have the time at night to workout..but then I can't buy food and stuff I need to take care of myself..UHH.I'm starting a diet called Eating for Ibs u can look it up at helpforibs.com if you want your husband to take a look?

Yes it is hell everyday..it interferes so much with life my life has become being at home all day,going to work at night then trying to get a good sleep but the bloating and uncomfortable feelings its hard.
07/22/2010
Contributor: deadpoet deadpoet
I don't like my body too much. I over weight, and have been all my life. All the fat is on my stomach. I have chicken legs (dad tells me all the time), and small arms. I would just love to be a lot smaller, like around 150-160 lbs. My boyfriend loves me for me, which is all that matters, I guess
08/19/2010
Contributor: buzzvibe buzzvibe
I don't like seeing the signs of aging. Things are sagging. I hate that.
08/22/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
For the most part, I'm good. I'm more voluptuous now than I've ever been, but no one is complaining!
08/22/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I'm very uncomfortable with my body.
Personally, I wish I was shorter.
I'm 5'10, almost 5'11.. and I hate it.
I try not to slouch, but I slouch a lot.
It doesn't help that both of my parents hate how tall I am, and banter on about how if I was a boy, that would've helped me
My mother was a model and I'm more heavy and unwilling to even be in front of the camera like that, so she's always on about my hips and thighs and stomach.
I get dressed without looking in a mirror, or in the dark and only flip it on to make sure my clothing fits right.

My boyfriend of almost three years, claims he loves my body.. and loves to play with my stomach which makes me wanna scream. Anytime he gets me lingerie, I insist it be pitch black. (I know, awful.)

I really need more self confidence cause I wanna be sexy, but.. yeah. I'm a size 18 in jeans with 40D's... I wish I was like a size 10. ><!
08/22/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I wish i could trade this in for a different body sometimes. XD
08/22/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
Overall, I'm happy with my body. Some days more than others, but in general I really can't complain. I have a flat stomach, hourglass curves and long legs. Sometimes I wish my boobs were just a little bit smaller.. they're 34Ds and they're not as perky as I'd like, so I worry what they'll look like in a few years. Other than that, everything else that I might worry about now and then (jiggly thighs, scrawny arms..) could be changed pretty easily.

P.S. @kinky girlfriend and @Holly (Woman Tribune) I don't drive either! I know how to, but I'm still too nervous to just woman up and get my license. I need to practice more and just get it over with, because it's not easy to have to rely on someone else to get me where I need to be. You're not alone though!
08/22/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
I would say my body and I have a few issues, depending on the day, but for the most part I'm pretty satisfied with myself. I probably wouldn't consider plastic surgery-- just learning to be happy with my body is a continual process.
08/22/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I used to be so uptight about my body and its appearance and in the last year I have had such a wonderful experience away from everything that I got in touch with myself and I have never felt sexier in my life. All the little things that used to bother me don't anymore. No one cares what we look like we are so preoccupied with our own appearance rather than others.
08/23/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I'm very uncomfortable with my body.
Personally, I wish I was shorter.
I'm 5'10, almost 5'11.. and I hate it.
I try not to slouch, but I slouch a lot.
It doesn't help that both of my parents hate how tall I am, and ... more
Gosh I wish you could meet my life partner...one look from him and you'd tell your parents to jump in a lake! The man LOVES a tall woman with (as he puts it) something to hold onto at night. He's 6 foot tall and it always amazes me that he fell so hard for me since I am 5'0 and I also wear a size 18 and have 40DDs!
Still you are a beautiful woman based on your avatar, and your boyfriend loves you just as you are. I hope that you can get comfortable in your skin, it's a painful long process for some of us but it's definitely worth it!
08/23/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I'm very uncomfortable with my body.
Personally, I wish I was shorter.
I'm 5'10, almost 5'11.. and I hate it.
I try not to slouch, but I slouch a lot.
It doesn't help that both of my parents hate how tall I am, and ... more
Rock the tallness!!! lol I'm 5'8 and I am COMMANDING you to be a fellow proud tall Amazonian princess! AND rock your curvaciousness, because you'd be suprised how many of us skinny girls (myself included) would swap you for some more curves!
09/01/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
(By the way I know that Kelly Rowland is totally irrelevant but whenever I say "command" I think of this song and I want to play it )
09/01/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I'm very uncomfortable with my body.
Personally, I wish I was shorter.
I'm 5'10, almost 5'11.. and I hate it.
I try not to slouch, but I slouch a lot.
It doesn't help that both of my parents hate how tall I am, and ... more
I'm with everyone else. Rock your curves, and your height because there's a bunch of people who probably envy you for it. You're definitely a beautiful girl, and your boyfriend seems to think so too, so try to embrace that and be happy with yourself. It can be hard sometimes, but the more you tell yourself "I AM beautiful!" The more you'll believe it.
09/01/2010
Contributor: softkkisses softkkisses
I am a 43 year old woman and I proud of that fact and for my age I look dang good.. I would never get plastic surgery, but I do dream about get a tummy tuck. I have a lot of scars on my tummy from past surgeries and it make me look like I have an ass on my stomach! The Honest truth. My wonderful does not care. So I would never waste my money on doing it.. I do think it would make me feel better about myself.. As long as he is happy with me that's all that really matters to me.
09/20/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
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Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
Just wondering how other people think of their bodies from within a sexual relationship.

If you vote that you would change something please say what and why in the discussion section.
i'd change a few things.

I am glad there are so many people who chose "I love my body"
09/20/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
If I had the money - I'd keep some lucky Dr in business for awhile.
09/30/2010
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
I could do without the stretch marks from the kids...but other than that we're on good terms
09/30/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i hate my body. moved to a diff state and gained 40-50 lbs. i hate it. just started working out. tired of feeling like this.
10/06/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
I generally love my body. There's just a few things but I just started working out; hopefully that'll smooth out a couple things =)
10/06/2010